I've actually been getting a lot of matches on OLD lately, but it seem like either the chat never goes anywhere or they're from the next state over which means a 2 hr. drive if we meet halfway, and since I'm in NE there's basically nothing in between.
Honestly my interest level hasn't been that high for a lot of them so that's part of it. The ones that I would actually be interested in have a pretty low response rate. When I do try though I just find I don't have anything interesting to say. Chatting just gets so boring but I know if you ask them to do a video chat or meet up too quick sometimes they get freaked out.
I know people will say well you need to get out there and meet people in person. Times I've tried though, I find I'm just a really boring person around people I don't know already. Mostly I just don't know how to start a convo or things I can think of seem so mundane that I can't even bring myself to say them. I'm not really asking for advice, just kinda putting that out there for anyone who can relate or has any relevant insight.
Honestly my interest level hasn't been that high for a lot of them so that's part of it. The ones that I would actually be interested in have a pretty low response rate. When I do try though I just find I don't have anything interesting to say. Chatting just gets so boring but I know if you ask them to do a video chat or meet up too quick sometimes they get freaked out.
I know people will say well you need to get out there and meet people in person. Times I've tried though, I find I'm just a really boring person around people I don't know already. Mostly I just don't know how to start a convo or things I can think of seem so mundane that I can't even bring myself to say them. I'm not really asking for advice, just kinda putting that out there for anyone who can relate or has any relevant insight.