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[krk]

Hi.
A similar question has probs been posted elsewhere but i can't find it...
I was just wondering when ur talking 2 a girl privately about non-sexual topics how do u change the conversation to a more flirtly one and then go in for a first kiss? Like i was just wondering what to talk about especially during flirting. I know about the body language thing. Also when using kino (or whatever its called) throughout a convo is it just a light touch on the arm/hand every now and then. I'm just finding all these things particuarly hard with this certian girl since she seems shy and waits for a guy 2 make the move which i know the man should do anyway 2 take charge. She just never seems to initiate simple flirting. Even eye contact she seems to struggle with. Is this because she is just plainly not interested or very shy? Because she does seem socially upthere if u no what i mean.

 

[everywomanshero]

This is one of the areas I actually think PUAs have come up with good ideas for. A lot of times us guys feel we need to have some gimmick to touch/kiss girls. Just keep in mind this is a face saving technique for the guy's own peace of mind rather than a nessicity. For hand holding there is probably nothing better than thumb wrestling. For kissing you can always lead up with a challenge reagrding you only liking good kissers. There are about 5 zillion movies that feature dramatic scenes leading up to kisses, I'm not much of an actor so I don't emulate them as far as I know, but if you are maybe there could be some ideas.... To be honest, it's quite natural to kiss on the dance floor if at a club. Here is what I do: I get them in isolation to "watch a movie" or "hang out" or whatever and then I kiss them there. I did have a good one the other day though.

This lady was parked at a nature park I was at. I asked her a question (I was really lost) and we started talking. She was kind of older but had a nice body so I ended up getting a boner talking to her. After about 15 minutes of listening to her jabber about her experience diving at cancun and me showing her pics on my phone of my travels (always keep some good pix in the phone, comes in handy). Her bf called and I knew she was there to get away from him for a few .. ie everything isn't rosey in the love nest, she ignored his call to talk to me, so I figured we only had 5 min or so before she'd have to call him back, and I said maybe we;d see each other around sometime, she seemed hesitant for me to leave, so I just reached in and said this is going to sound really cheesy but I ahve to tell you he is lucky to have such a beautiful woman and stroked the side of her face. She didn't freak out and touched my hand so I kissed her and ended up making out with her. He kept calling so I didn't bother trhying to finger her, but it just reinforces you don't need any don juan moves to make out. It was really clumsy and it still got me as far as I really cared to go right then, although in retrospect I wish I had gotten a blow job.

 

[The_Game]

Wow, nicely done.

What happened after that?



And to stay on topic, just mention something about liking good kissers and stuff like that. Try and tease her also

If you ever do need to make the move ask her this question "Do you like surprises?" and whatever her answer just kiss her anyway