Analyzeit said:
I mean, i ask them questions related to the situation, then if i know they intersted i go and say something sexual but all through the conversation is still mostly me
My guess would be that it's mostly you because the girls are bored out of their minds. You're probably asking them questions the same way an employer would asks questions to someone seeking employment in a job interview. Nothing but cold facts,data,and information. They just sit there waiting for you to get finished,then they leave,right? If they even stay there that long.
Look man,women are emotional. They want to "feel". Your conversation is boring. I'm serious with what I'm about to say:You'd be better off making a girl angry than making her feel bored. At least she'd feel
something.
Anger is nothing but passion in another form anyway.
Stop asking them questions.......at least in the beginning. Take those questions and turn them into statements--emotionally based statements.
Find something you two can connect on. Talk about how EXCITED you were when you got your first job,or how nervous and shaking like a leaf you were when you went to get your driver's license....and really put some emotion/energy into your voice during the conversation. The girl will feel this vibe coming from you,and she'll be able to connect with you because:
1:Since women are emotional,she'll feel the emotion in your lstory,and
2:The excitement of your first job and/or the nervousness of getting your driver's license is something that everybody can relate to.
You say that the conversation is mostly you,right? So would you like the girls to open up more? Easy. But how? Oh,I'm glad you asked that question.
It's simple. Whatever it is you want from the girl,first you must
already have it in yourself. You have to possess and project out from yourself whatever it is you want from the girl. So it goes like this:
If you want her to open up about herself,then first,YOU have to open up about yourself.
If you want her to be warm and friendly,then first,YOU must be warm and friendly.
If you want her to be talkative,then first,YOU must be talkative.
Women want emotion,so put feeling in those conversations of yours instead of: name,age,hobby,place of birth,what do you like to do for fun,the school she attends,etc.
It's supposed to be a romantic connect betwwen to people,not a job interview.
