Controversial Topic - how do you feel about interracial dating?

[In2theGame]

So, yes, I have opened a can of worms.

But this is purely out of interest to see if all men of all colours, creeds, backgrounds etc share a view - or not.

My personal feeling (I am white, 38) is that I like to see white men/black girls but dont like black men/white girls. Is this social conditioning? Or an evolutionary response reaching back in the subconcious of "the tribe"

Would be keen to here all mens honest view on this. Its not a racist thing. Just a gene thing I guess....

Maybe depends on where you have grown up or what your used to. Im a latin guy but ive dated and messed around with more white females than any other race. I see mixed race couples all the time, then again ive grown up all my life in NYC so you see all kinda of different mixes.

 

[Masculinity]

you're a liberal aren't you? i can tell because you took ONE word and blew it WAY out of context of how it was meant. the word anything all of a sudden makes me think any race but whites arent human.lol what a moron. no wonder we have Obama.

I don't date anything besides caucasian women. I don't date white girls that do date, have dated other races. if you have mixed kids....bye. now, that's not to say that I don't find women of other races attractive because I do, doesn't mean I'll date them though.

Moron is one who calls another man moron while failing to see his own stupidity, prejudice, and ignorance (not limited to your writing skills).

So how do you find out who they have dated. Do you straight up tell them, "look, if you have dated anyone who isn't white I am not interested in you" or do you prefer to stalk them? Either way, your situation is sad and your responses will be completely ignored.

 

[perseverance]

I find those who scorn those who are against interracial dating as equally ignorant and irritating as racists themselves. No, I am not for one moment suggesting that people who prefer to date within their own racial group are racists, but a percentage of them are as seen in this thread.

I find Robyn just as annoying as Robert, irrespective of racial background.

 

[cablecow15]

I find those who scorn those who are against interracial dating as equally ignorant and irritating as racists themselves. No, I am not for one moment suggesting that people who prefer to date within their own racial group are racists, but a percentage of them are as seen in this thread.

I find Robyn just as annoying as Robert, irrespective of racial background.

lmao , I like this guy ^^^

 

[Masculinity]

I find those who scorn those who are against interracial dating as equally ignorant and irritating as racists themselves. No, I am not for one moment suggesting that people who prefer to date within their own racial group are racists, but a percentage of them are as seen in this thread.

I find Robyn just as annoying as Robert, irrespective of racial background.

I find those who do not understand things eve more annoying. People are entitled to date whomever they want--the problem is these guys caring about who other people date or who their current partners have dated--say whatever you want, that is simply wrong.:box:

 

[perseverance]

I find those who do not understand things eve more annoying. People are entitled to date whomever they want--the problem is these guys caring about who other people date or who their current partners have dated--say whatever you want, that is simply wrong.:box:

On the same token, what business is it of yours? You can't accuse people of caring about someone else's dating preferences and then proceed to do the same thing they are doing, that's wrong too, that's called hypocrisy.

Is it wrong that a white man will refuse to date a white woman who has had interracial relationships? That's not for me to say, but it does sound stupid to me, because race plays no part in my thought process. You can argue they are racist, but even so what has their preferences got to do with you? Are they directly or indirectly affecting you with their decisions? Are you someone who just likes to take offence?

 

[Down Low]

It is very sad and disappointing to hear how prejudiced some of you are. Who gives a flying fvck if some white girl is dating a black guy or vice versa. That is none of your business. By the way, white women date men of color because they have enough of white men's manginaness. Men of color--on average--tend to be more aggressive, assertive, and overall approach more women than white men (all non PUA's/DJ's). So don't take out your frustration on men of color because your white girl craves some brown sugar.

Do black men approach and fvck more women than white men? Yes, by far. Now apply the rule that anyone with more than 10 lifetime partners likely picked up a STD. More lifetime partners, more STDs. Therefore, women who ever had sex with a black man are far more likely to have contracted a STD from their highly promiscuous black partners than are women who had sex only with less promiscuous non-black partners. Additionally, a woman who admits to having had sex with a black man is much more likely to be concealing having had sex with other black men as well (since women generally conceal promiscuity, and admit only what they are already reputed to have done). Therefore, all men should avoid like the plague any woman who ever had sex with a black man. Paradoxically, this means that a black man should avoid any woman who ever before had sex with a black man. Once she spreads for one black man, she'll spread for others -- even if only to get revenge on her philandering boyfriend. So it's kinda hopeless for black men. Their reputation is just too bad.

Civilized, are you serious!? Does that mean that all other blacks are savages?

The explanation is in the history of white-black relationships in the New World -- primarily their race to the bottom for ever-worsening wages and working conditions. For whites to call blacks "savages" or whatever is just an expression of fear and disgust over the decline in broader social and cultural conditions. Whites fear that they or their children will someday be living under conditions that are now the current living conditions for blacks.

Amen! In California Latinos are ALREADY the majority and Whites are a minority. There are many things that Latinos and Blacks have to offer White women that White men don't have and will never understand.

"You don't understand" is a cheap debaters' trick. The only thing that blacks have to offer is sweat that is somewhat more acrid due to having more ammonia than the sweat of whites.

Trust me though, there is a reason why they pick us (besides bigger d!cks and more manhood)

If black men have bigger d1cks, what does that say about the vaginas of black women? The body construction is so different that many white men simply do not feel any sexual attraction to black women. As far as the manhood part, it's liberal paternalism to say that the poor, poor colored people are somehow "better" at tap dancing or shoe shining or any other personal service. By the way, how are the poor, poor colored people doing on SATs? Aww, gee whiz, don't get all limp over it. My ex's cheezy fish needs a shine.

White men get disgusted at blondes especially, but at pretty much all American women for overvaluing themselves. You see, there's a shortage of billionaires who want to give their credit cards to abortion-scarred control freaks with tramp stamps and caterpillars on their lips. Believing that all men are way beneath them, women see how low they can go in the gutter to get some cheap thrills and piss off white men at the same time. You see, they can't raise themselves up to be better than us, so they try to drag us down in any way they can.

 

[Kerpal]

I don't care about interracial dating. What other people do is their business. I personally find black women repulsive unless they're heavily mixed, but do find lighter-skinned Asian, latina, Indian and Middle Eastern women attractive.

What does irritate me is the double standard of it being OK to criticize white guys:

White women love us because we are different from the typical preppy/redneck/douchebag personality.

Trust me though, there is a reason why they pick us (besides bigger d!cks and more manhood)

It's OK to say that black guys are "more manly", have bigger ****s, better at sports, better at dancing etc., but if I dare to point out how blacks are less intelligent than whites, are more violent, commit much higher rates of crime, and have higher rates of STDs (all statistically proven while the anti-white stereotypes are not), everyone freaks out.

BTW - whites are the true minority (worldwide) and always have been. Out-breeding another ethnic group is not something to be proud of; the less intelligent a group is, the more children they have. That's why the populations in European and east Asian countries are plummeting while Africa is growing exponentially even though they can't feed themselves. You're bragging about being stupid.

I would type more, but I have to go to work now so that 25%+ of my income can be taken directly out of my paycheck to pay for the EBT cards and Section 8 housing of "minorities" who won't stop ****ting out children they can't afford to feed. You're welcome.

 

[ilikecharlene]

I don't care - hot tits/hot ***** is up for grabs, race notwithstanding. :rockon:

 

[Eternal_water]

I'm a 21 yr old white male (not racist) and in general I am less attracted to black girls with some exceptions.

There is a black girl in my lectures that I would really love to go out with and I've always fancied the actress freema agyeman from the first time I saw her on screen.



White girls seem more attracted to black guys than white so I always feel they have an unfair advantage.

 

[Le killeur]

'I like to see white men/black girls but dont like black men/white girls. '

Dont like to admit it but i have similar feelings and im totally against racism. Weird huh

 

[slitherjef]

This white boy don't really care. I think too many people focus on race / skin color, but if you think about it, its all pink on the inside. Just try not to think about all the other wang the girl may have had in her.

Would I date / screw a chick outside my "race"? Hells yes. In fact I think honey colored skin or mocha is really exotic. If she has what you like, who cares what color her skin is? Who cares what color the last penis she had inside her was? Just try to not think about it. Heck just knowing some guy was inside her kind of irks me, never mind his race or color, but, what are you going to do? Not think about it.

Believe it or not, not everyone that is a different color / race then you are, are bad.

 

[Mike32ct]

To some extent, it does matter what type of guys she has dated or F-ed in the past because if she shows a clear preference or attraction for a certain type of guy and you AREN'T that type, there is a real risk of her dumping you, cheating on you, and/or just getting bored with you.

If her last three boyfriends were 6'4" and you are 5'7", good luck to you with your relationship.

If her last three boyfriends were bad boys and you are a nice guy, good luck to you.

If her last three boyfriends were rich and you aren't, good luck to you.

For example, some white girls have a preference for black men. That's cool; that's their preference. But as a white dude, I might not go after that girl because I'm not what she's into. I would have real concerns about her losing interest in me even if we did date, not because of any prejudice.

There was cute, kinda thick blonde in my building that I always liked. But when I found out that she spent her spare time at the firehouse, ie was attracted to big guys, I stopped pursuing her. I'm a smaller dude. I was wasting my time. Nothing against firemen, they have my respect. I just wasn't her physical type.

 

[Thane_Blackwood]

ha, Seems we haven't evolved past the 1950's mentality in some areas of our thinking. We have to face facts this will never end.. Concerning my opinion, I really could care less who people date.

 

[Who Dares Win]

To some extent, it does matter what type of guys she has dated or F-ed in the past because if she shows a clear preference or attraction for a certain type of guy and you AREN'T that type, there is a real risk of her dumping you, cheating on you, and/or just getting bored with you.

If her last three boyfriends were 6'4" and you are 5'7", good luck to you with your relationship.

If her last three boyfriends were bad boys and you are a nice guy, good luck to you.

If her last three boyfriends were rich and you aren't, good luck to you.

For example, some white girls have a preference for black men. That's cool; that's their preference. But as a white dude, I might not go after that girl because I'm not what she's into. I would have real concerns about her losing interest in me even if we did date, not because of any prejudice.

There was cute, kinda thick blonde in my building that I always liked. But when I found out that she spent her spare time at the firehouse, ie was attracted to big guys, I stopped pursuing her. I'm a smaller dude. I was wasting my time. Nothing against firemen, they have my respect. I just wasn't her physical type.

Of all the interesting posts in this thread this is the one I share the most, if I may add I have somehow the impression that some white girls date black guys for the sole purpose of pissing off someone wheter is her father or a not well identified "wrong society".

I see this happening especially to middle aged white women who lost the train chasing career and money and somehow take revenge for being rejected by getting a black guy and brag about him not different than a former nerd who brags about a trophy wife( something like "look at me you see I dont need you I dont need you and I got better" to those who rejected in past).
Just like the nerd brags about her trophy wife submissivness, the white woman brags about the strengh and virility of her man trying to make other people feel bad in comparison.

Regarding the thread I have no problem at all with interracial couples in any mix but sincerly Im not sure instinctively how would I react to know my gf had a black guy.
No matter how a logic individual you are, instincts are still there.

 

[Robert28]

Moron is one who calls another man moron while failing to see his own stupidity, prejudice, and ignorance (not limited to your writing skills).

So how do you find out who they have dated. Do you straight up tell them, "look, if you have dated anyone who isn't white I am not interested in you" or do you prefer to stalk them? Either way, your situation is sad and your responses will be completely ignored.

so i'm prejudice because I refuse to date women of opposite races? did i ever once tell you, or anyone else on here who to date? the question was asked what YOU thought of interracial dating. my thoughts are that i don't do it, i won't have anything to do with women who do it, but i could care less about someone else's preference. just know that you'll never be with me if you date outside of your race, simple as that.

if you'd lived down south you'd see how different the white girls that date black guys are compared to the girls you're referring to. they are VERY easy to spot down here. most are very trashy, they speak similarly to blacks, their appearance is a dead give away. ever see many white girls with braids up there? they're a dime a dozen down here. i did have a girl once tell me she had a mixed kid. she was so proud of it that she didnt bother to mention him to me until the second date. guess how many dates she got after that? 0. you call me prejudice because i refuse to date outside my race, yet i wouldn't call you prejudice for dating only black women. quit getting your feelings hurt so easily. its nothing personal, its nothing racial, its just not the lifestyle for me.

 

[loveshogun]

I used to think about what other people thought about me dating lots of women outside my race.

And then I thought "f*ck it."

Does it really matter what anyone things of your personal choices?

Yes, there are racist white people out there. And racist every other color for that matter. I'm not gonna try to convince them to change their views.

I WILL bang their hot cousins, though. Zing!

 

[Thatfeel21]

What most people fail to comprehend, is NOT every black person is ghetto! Im a well educated black man and am NOT hood or ghetto whatsoever. I have dated plenty of white women and smile everytime an older white man looks at me with disgust.

 

[Robert28]

What most people fail to comprehend, is NOT every black person is ghetto! Im a well educated black man and am NOT hood or ghetto whatsoever. I have dated plenty of white women and smile everytime an older white man looks at me with disgust.

what most people fail to comprehend is that NOT every white guy is a redneck, preppy, racist, cracka. I'm a well educated white man and smile everytime someone refers to me as a racist because I don't date black women, or white women that date black guys.

 

[Thatfeel21]

Do black men approach and fvck more women than white men? Yes, by far.

What kind of evidence do you have to support this outrageous claim? You can't try and prove that your premise is based on any facts! How can you possibly prove that the average black man has more sex than the average white man? Arguments cannot be valid if even one premise is found to be incorrect. Or stupid. Nothing more than an opinionated 52 year old still living in the 60s.