Control Freak/No Trust

Solja J

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I've been with this girl for a week now. She usually calls about 8-12 times per day. I went over to her house and she asked to see my phone. When I get the phone back all of the girl #'s I had are deleted. Most of them were just friends to begin with. While on the phone yesterday she accuses me of already having a girlfriend. I called her from the bowling alley and my battery was low. We had to get off the phone because of it. She says "I bet you're going to try to hit on a girl in the bowling alley. Our relationship has no trust except for me trusting her. Any advice on the subject would be greatly appreciated!
 
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Solja J

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So was I wrong to give her the phone in the 1st place?
 

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Run...dont look back. Yea you were. Dump that chick, she sounds kinda possesive/crazy.
 

Solja J

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lol that would be very hard because she is so dang fine
 

Patrick124

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Must I reiterate: Ditch the B*tch.
That completely disrespectful. She ahs no respectfor you, and no trust in you at all. a LTR is nothing without trust.
If my gf deleted all my ladies #s I ***** at her till she was on her knees[begging lol] me to come back.
Get away, and as he said, don't look back.
Right now she thinks YOU are HER ***** adn she can control you like a puppy.:(
 

blienk

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Woah! Abandon ship! This girl is ridiculously insecure and is going to be nothing but a pain in the ass.
 

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You've been here for the better part of a year and you need to ask us what to do in this situation?
 

Solja J

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Hey Porky I haven't been here in a very long time. It would just be so hard to break up with her. She even starts the touching and stuff.
 

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HEY, if she's already accusing you of cheating, then just do it. GET like 50 more girls numbers and put them in your phone.
 

Solja J

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lol
 

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Jus do watever u want, let her be all possesive if she wants but dont let it affect you. Also, **** her, or else its not worth it.:p
 

Solja J

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Lol I'm a virgin who is scared of the protection breaking. Plus I don't think she's like that because she's a v 2!
 

Vincent

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Whoa dude

Either **** her, or **** her. You don't need to deal with that crap. TONS of other chicks would flock to you just cause your a don juan. She's not the chick for a don juan, she seems like the chick that would want an AFC. Shes a super B*tch from hell.

DUMP HER AND NEXT!
 

the_great_gaia

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listen to me and listen to me well..

your g/f is doing that because she is paranoid. She's doing the exact same thing to you that she DOESN'T want you doing to her. If she thinks you're out cheating with other girls it's because she out cheating on you with other DUDES. Believe me.
 

Solja J

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Okay thnx 4 the advice
 

Wonderbread166

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She could be cheating on you, but you can't be sure. What's for sure is you can't put up with her ****.

NEEEEEEEEXT:p
 

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Originally posted by the_great_gaia
listen to me and listen to me well..

your g/f is doing that because she is paranoid. She's doing the exact same thing to you that she DOESN'T want you doing to her. If she thinks you're out cheating with other girls it's because she out cheating on you with other DUDES. Believe me.
Indeed, a good sign of a cheater..right on the money gaia. I hope you're dealing with your separation from hell bytch well...:)
 

Solja J

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She apologized for it and said she was only messing with me.
 

Vincent

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Who cares, just dump her
 

Solja J

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lol nah I think I can break her!
 

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