I've been seeing this girl a lot lately, and we had originally came to label our relationship as FWB, as she doesn't want any sort of LTR. Prior to this discussion I had seriously considered getting into a committed relationship with her. She cooks and cleans for me, she smoking hot, we have tons in common, and she isn't a push over. However, after the discussion I let that idea go because I was content just being fwb...
Now the problem is, we're saying it's an fwb thing, yet we hang out almost everyday, she regularly cooks dinner for me, I regularly go to her townhouse to fix up things for her, and we act exactly lime a couple in a committed relationship. Recently she started calling me babe/boo/hun, and it's throwing me for a loop. I mean, what kind of fwb relationship is this? I don't know how to react to that, so I just pretend she doesn't say them, but that does nothing to deter her from using pet names. I'd like to ask her of she's interested in making out "official", but I don't want to press the issue of that's not what she's feeling. I haven't exactly caught feelings for her as we're technically not bf/gf, but I would not mind yo take that plunge. Getting tired of fvckin random girls, sort of feeling ready to get back into a LTR.
TLDR; me and girl have the FWB label, but act like a couple, and I'm not sure how to react to her saying one thing, but actions tell another story. Any thoughts on how to handle this?
Now the problem is, we're saying it's an fwb thing, yet we hang out almost everyday, she regularly cooks dinner for me, I regularly go to her townhouse to fix up things for her, and we act exactly lime a couple in a committed relationship. Recently she started calling me babe/boo/hun, and it's throwing me for a loop. I mean, what kind of fwb relationship is this? I don't know how to react to that, so I just pretend she doesn't say them, but that does nothing to deter her from using pet names. I'd like to ask her of she's interested in making out "official", but I don't want to press the issue of that's not what she's feeling. I haven't exactly caught feelings for her as we're technically not bf/gf, but I would not mind yo take that plunge. Getting tired of fvckin random girls, sort of feeling ready to get back into a LTR.
TLDR; me and girl have the FWB label, but act like a couple, and I'm not sure how to react to her saying one thing, but actions tell another story. Any thoughts on how to handle this?