3 gym sessions completed and stuck to diet. But being in Dublin I consumed a few pints and I haven't dropped anything since last week. This next week is gonna suck if I am to get to my goal, but I will. I'm not feeling too great. I live in my home town at the minute and I hate it. Small, dying town with not much going on. Life here never changes. It doesn't have the opportunities to. Every day is the same. I just have to get through to May when I'm gonna spend 10 weeks in Budapest, and then September I move to my new city. I know not to wish for completion of anything but to be honest I cannot wait. This town suffocates me.
Small field report – Dublin 4/12/18
Me and my friend hit a club early. My friend is very good with girls and is my best wingman, he has a girlfriend now though. We are there early and there aren't many girls around. We are in the smoking shelter and he points out two for me to approach for a warm up. I go over and ask if they are local and what time the place picks up. They answer politely but don't seem too interested in talking to me. That is where I would usually eject. I quickly decide to stay in set for a change and kept the conversation going. After a minute or two I can feel them becoming more interested in me. My friend comes over, I introduce him and switch my attention more to the better looking one. We talk about travel and places we have been. I keep eye contact and can sense that I have her hooked. I give emotional spikes and push it as far as I can without going too far. That is how my game is. I will say “risky” things and polarize. I often get complimented on this, especially by my friend whose game is very safe. He gets results being a nice guy as it fits who he is, and he is a very good looking dude. I am not, so I have to be very different. This only ever works when I am feeling good about myself and in a flow state, but when it works it works very well.
They buy us shots and we go dance for a bit and then back to the smoking shelter with my girl. She tries getting my logistics, I'm staying in a hostel, she is staying a short taxi ride away and her friend is staying at hers. She then invites us to eat with them after we leave here. We know what that means. However, is my friend really going to come back with us? He really does love his girlfriend. I don't particularly want to leave him in a foreign place on his own, especially after a few drinks.
We join our friends and at the time we left them they were getting on well as friends. We come back and her friend is acting super creepy, grinding on my friend and getting far too close. I can tell he is ready to leave. I pull him to one side and tell him it's on, would he mind coming back with them and just not doing anything with the friend. I already knew the answer. He would have done 20 minutes ago but now she is acting far too weird. Fair I guess. It was at a point where I felt I had to choose between my friend or a girl I had known maybe 90 minutes. We split off for a bit and then the girls come over and say they are off to a place down the road to eat and do we want to join. I said we would meet them there in 5 minutes. We never did.
Things I did well:
Stayed in set when I would usually leave
Vibed really well
Helped seed a pull
Things I could do better:
Find a way to make everyone a winner.
