Considering a Vasectomy

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Infidelity, pregnancy scares, child support, court jurisdiction over your life, being a woman's b!tch financially and legally, etc. have me considering a vasectomy.

The number of ways in which women can ruin our lives is incredible. We have a generation of entitled women happy to criminalize men and the white knights behind them make it all worse. The worst part is that they get all this power from our seeds. Once a woman is pregnant with your baby, she can practically take control over your life.

So what are the alternatives? I really can't see myself getting married or staying with the same woman for 18 years. And the dating pool out there is making me disappointed to say the least. I rather grow old without children or raise my own or an adopted child by myself than to have children with the wrong woman and regret it.

Has anybody else considered getting a vasectomy? Serious things at stake here.
 

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Don't be ridiculous.

I've knocked women up. Even have kids.

Those women are no way in my life but my children are. It is nice.

Don't worry too much. Life is good.
 

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Don't be ridiculous.

I've knocked women up. Even have kids.

Those women are no way in my life but my children are. It is nice.

Don't worry too much. Life is good.
Where do you live?
 

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Don't be ridiculous.

I've knocked women up. Even have kids.

Those women are no way in my life but my children are. It is nice.

Don't worry too much. Life is good.
And how much are you paying in child support? Not worth it to have children with a girl I’m not going to marry.
 

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Or you could change the type of woman you date and see. If you not planning to bang different girls often, no need for a vasectomy.
 

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All women desperately wants children from a man they consider superior.

Even if I live in the US, I'll still get away with child support.
You didn't answer the question.
 

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Hell no...plus I knoe people who had it done and still got women pregnant...

You want to make yourself sterile? Start taking Testosterone...you'll be 98.6% sterile...highest success rate of anything non surgical you can do...and you'll feel phenomenal
 

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I had mine done when I was 30. I knew by my late 20's that it was something I was certain about. I didn't want any kids and neither did my wife at the time.

There was a time in my mid 30's where I had some 2nd thoughts that crept up when I was dating this single mommy and got close to her two kids. Luckily that passed.

The way I see it, if I ever get that desire to raise a kid I will do the Big Brother thing or adopt.

I'd take plenty of time(2-3yrs) to think about this before making a decision that is difficult and expensive to reverse.

Realize most of your reasons for wanting a vasectomy are rooted in fear. What if you had the perfect girl that eliminated most of these fears? Would you still want a vasectomy? Just some ideas to contemplate.
 

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I had mine done when I was 30. I knew by my late 20's that it was something I was certain about. I didn't want any kids and neither did my wife at the time.

There was a time in my mid 30's where I had some 2nd thoughts that crept up when I was dating this single mommy and got close to her two kids. Luckily that passed.

The way I see it, if I ever get that desire to raise a kid I will do the Big Brother thing or adopt.

I'd take plenty of time(2-3yrs) to think about this before making a decision that is difficult and expensive to reverse.

Realize most of your reasons for wanting a vasectomy are rooted in fear. What if you had the perfect girl that eliminated most of these fears? Would you still want a vasectomy? Just some ideas to contemplate.
Good reasoning here. There is no perfect girl. But she may be better than what's out there now.
 

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Or you could change the type of woman you date and see. If you not planning to bang different girls often, no need for a vasectomy.
Most of my life has been LTRs. Now, I want to sample a good number of women or play the field. No LTRs for at least a year.
 

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If you don't want kids this is VERY liberating for the woman.

If you do want kids, freeze your sperm.
 

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I just came inside a girl, she’s snoring in my bed. She is 2 weeks and 4 days after period. I googled fertility cycle and she woke herself up snoring. “I google fertility cycle and it says 2 weeks” she says “well it’s 2 weeks and 4 days”

I pause, “ I think you should get the morning after pill” she then sighs like this is the most annoying thing she’s ever heard then says “well do u wanna pay for it?” I go “yeah” she goes “it’s £30” I say “that’s fine” now I know these pills are like £20-25 sobwhy is she lying.

I’m so done. Condoms all the way from now on. Fvck this sh1t.

I’m gonna go to bed now and make her take the damn pill tomorrow then I’m done with these loose canon chicks. At least with my ex she was career and fun minded and dreaded the thought. She even got the plan b pill when she missed 2 days of her contraceptive pill. She was a smart girl, smart girls look after themselves.

I can’t even enjoy the post orgasmic chill right now, I’m smoking in bed googling and posting this. Fml.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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If you don't want kids this is VERY liberating for the woman.

If you do want kids, freeze your sperm.
Not sure what you mean by "vasectomies are VERY liberating for the woman." Please elaborate more into what you want to communicate.
 
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I would never do this.

I'll bet there are all kinds of undiscovered things about how it is terrible for your health.

Did you know that our entire body exists just to keep our reproductive system alive?

If a girl ever demanded that from you, she is a terrible person.
 

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I had one done and don't regret it one bit (although I already had a child at the time). There are ways to have kids after you've had a vasectomy, and they're not cheap. The way I see it, if my GF wants to have a child with me, she'll be the one to pay for the procedure. If she's willing to do that instead of taking the easy way out and fvcking some other dude, then she's probably not going to go anywhere.
 

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Nah, I'll just spank the monkey.:p

 
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You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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