Connect With Nature

[gav]

That complexity of strategies and techniques is a work of art fingers and i bet you haven't exactly unlearnt the stuff you've mastered over the years; it'll be forged in your character.

"time-efficient"? I thought seduction was supposed to be a dance, something to be enjoyed. You sound as if it's a chore now.

anyways man, well done on survivng like thatm and coming to new realisations. hope they work out for you. i'm gonna go back to the path of the dj; once i make it, i'll see from there how i should develop

 

[Puma]

Originally posted by Señor Fingers
Hey Jake,

You are right, that would have been much more hardcore, but I was just not prepared to take that leap. Now that I know how to survive I think my next trip will be a shorter excursion on my own.

Interesting sidenote for you guys.

I feel VERY different right now. Like I will go out and sarge and it all feels kind of... empty. I am starting to realize that I am tired of bullsh!t games. I am feeling an urgency in my life I have never felt before, like I just dont have time for this crap anymore.

Wanna hear my latest field report?

Went out for coffee, saw this cute girl giving me lots of friendly eye contact, went over and introduced myself by saying it is nice to see a friendly face for a change (cuz people can be such b!tches)

We fluffed for a while and I told her that I would regret it if I didnt try to at least "pick her up" before she went to work. She blushed. I gave her my number (I never used to do this) and told her if she wants to get together to give me a call. Guess I just cant be bothered calling anyone anymore.

She called two days later. We met. Had dinner and went to her house. End of story.

No negs. No calculated kino moves. No nothing. Direct, simple and time-efficient. Just noticing she had interest and having the balls to sieze the opportunity was all it took.

I cant believe how simple things are when you really dont give a damn. Makes me feel like a loser for writing such a complex manual of seduction.

On that note, I want to apologize to all you guys who are trapped in a prison of theory. I promoted all this stuff and it just makes me sick. All the acronyms and strategies. Sure, the guide is not completely worthless and some of you may have benefitted, but I realize now that I made things far too complicated.

I know this all sounds pretty crazy, but like I said.. everything has changed.

So much more to say on this matter, but I will save it for another post...

Sounds like pook

 

[Consent]

This actually works. It's important to get different views of the world, and you can achieve this when you are alone with nature away from the busy intricacies of the city.

 

[DanelMadr]

She called two days later. We met. Had dinner and went to her house. End of story.

No negs. No calculated kino moves. No nothing. Direct, simple and time-efficient. Just noticing she had interest and having the balls to sieze the opportunity was all it took.

I cant believe how simple things are when you really dont give a damn. Makes me feel like a loser for writing such a complex manual of seduction.

On that note, I want to apologize to all you guys who are trapped in a prison of theory. I promoted all this stuff and it just makes me sick. All the acronyms and strategies. Sure, the guide is not completely worthless and some of you may have benefitted, but I realize now that I made things far too complicated.

I know this all sounds pretty crazy, but like I said.. everything has changed.

So much more to say on this matter, but I will save it for another post...

I feel the same and I do believe that the whole so called game is just about who you really are and if you are at least half-decent MAN and let it shine, you have a go.

Learning some moves gives you confidence because then there is not much things that can surprise you. Thats it.

Phase: AFC....learns about flirting, tests etc. - becomes Player/Actor - feels it is not his purpose and becomes Man

Man = man - AFC....you got rid of fear

 

[MrS]

You are an enlightened man, do something great with your life.
I don't like games, either, except for rampant shagging.
Proper relationships are a different bag.

 

[DarkLight]

Yo... props on the nature mission.
Sh!t is solid to reconnect to ourselves (nature), as men.

I hear you on getting back to the city though. lol
Good food, chicks, and the pleasures of our modern day in a new light.

Besides all that.

I feel you on your last post, about the calculation being sh!t.
BUT... at a time in your life as well as many others... the assistance of structure is critical. Training wheels if you will. Through the structure of techniques, theory, etc... one learns the direction and manner of how one should be naturally. Or at least puts them back on track with their natural Alpha self, and the way that true powerful man would act.

From there... let go of the mind library, dictating the moves, and live from the core of man, that now can be drawn upon, and relied on... naturally.

The freedom of natural game, makes the training wheels look childish and stupid. But in another glance... we know they had their place too. Thus alls good in your breakdown and addition of theory, techniques, etc. of yesterday. See them as ice cubes, that someday someone will melt through experience, and then get a nice cold glass of water to drink down in transcending relaxation and pleasure.

Peace
and enjoy the cuisine'
lol