confusing girl - when can I call her?

ChesterB

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Hi guys,
sorry for bothering you again with a "when do I call"-question, but I'm confused about this girl.
I mentioned her already here http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=43099
and here http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=44529
(she's girl #2, I sent her a text message, if you want to know)

I haven't seen her for about 3 weeks, because of the holidays.

I called her last Sunday night on her cell. (BTW, I have caller ID blocked)
She (sounding positive): "Hi, uhm, I'm talking on the other phone."
Me: "OK, I can call you later."
She: "Yes, you can do that."

I called her about 30 minutes later and she didn't answer the phone. :mad: (NEXT came to my mind)

Anyway I called her again Tuesday. She answered, but the connection was so bad, she didn't even know it was me.

Next call: Thursday, no answer.

I thought "OK, I can do one last thing."
I sent her an SMS text message saying "Hey (her name), call me back. ChesterB"
I really didn't expect it, but the next day (Friday) she called me at about 10 pm.
Me: "Hello"
She: "Hi it's me."
(I don't know about her, but I only say this when I'm very familiar with someone. She has caller ID, so I knew it was her anyway.)
The connection was bad again (I hate her cell).
I heard some giggling and other noises, so I asked: "Where are you?"
She: "I'm on the journey for freshmen. Did you go there, too?"
...blabla...
Me: "I want to go playing pool next week, do you want to join me?"
She: "What?" (bad connection)
I repeated, but I'm not sure if she understood.
She: "No."
:confused: Why did she call me then?
Me: "OK, have fun. Bye."
I think she was drunk.

I'm definitely going to call her again.
Is calling her today (Sunday) too early? Should I wait till tomorrow (Monday)?
Usually I wouldn't mind waiting longer, but I'm running out of time: The semester ends at the 6th of February, when she will return home and she's not in town at the weekends.
 

PEACEDJ

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Do yourself a favor before you pick up the phone and call again........

READ THE BIBLE!
^ that is your basic knowledge source.
 

golf299

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do yourself a favor and forget about this worthless girl. please, for yourself and everyone here, move on. this is a lost cause.
 
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lol

Would anyone like an order of desperation?
 

Big Pappy

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You ask her out. Good.
She says no. Fine.

You move on, find another girl. Best.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Your CALLING TOO MUCH!!!! First things first. When she said she was on the other line, you should have said "Ok, call me when you have a chance." If she called then you know she's interested, if she didn't then your done. You look like a major wussy bag to her because you sound desperate by calling so much and begging for her attention. She did call you back which I thought was positive but then she sounded like an attention ***** bragging about where she was and what she was doing. Then she flat out said "No" to wanting to hangout with you. So NEXT!!!!




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