Recently I came across this girl on bumble who only listed her IG handle in her description, I decided to DM her not really expecting anything out of it. She responds and after a few messages we eventually meet up for coffee. However, when I initially brought up getting to know her offline, she responds 'i'm always down to make new friends. of course.' I was pretty disappointed with that and at first didn't want to meet her. Because what's the point of being on a dating app if you aren't looking for anything other than a relationship/fwb? I decided to go through with it anyways because I don't even know anything about her or her intentions. Later she posts an IG story about how she met me and she says she 'hopes this is a new friendship' something like that. At this point I'm pretty confused. Yes I went around the purpose of bumble (where girls are able to choose who they want to contact) but if a girl only puts her IG handle in her profile, I mean, that's like asking guys to DM them.
So now I'm still pretty confused where I stand with her, whether our coffee was a date or just a meet up/getting to know each other thing. I think she may just want to take things slow because I still haven't even gotten her number and we are still communicating via IG DM. She was pretty touchy feely with me during the coffee (touching my arm a few times) but she seemed like she is the confident type and she is also from Europe so it could be that. I just need some clarification.
So now I'm still pretty confused where I stand with her, whether our coffee was a date or just a meet up/getting to know each other thing. I think she may just want to take things slow because I still haven't even gotten her number and we are still communicating via IG DM. She was pretty touchy feely with me during the coffee (touching my arm a few times) but she seemed like she is the confident type and she is also from Europe so it could be that. I just need some clarification.