Confused!

[jophil28]

I must have truned into an afc, to recover and re-learn, am I going about it correctly by starting w the book of Pook? Then the DJ bible and reading from there?

Just keep reading, learning and practising. The next breakthrough will come when you are out on a meet or a date with a new hottie that you snared using the knowledge from this site.
That is your mission, soldier .

 

[mavericks48]

Ok, thought you all would like an update. The ex finished her schooling(nursing). This I heard from a friend of mine, female. She just got a job as an RN. I remember one of her reasonings for dumping me was that "she has to take care of her family"...meaning her 7 yr old and her soon to be husband! Thats right,I was told she's gonna marry this idiot who makes no money to speak of. I guess she's ok with supporting him.

Any of you have an idea of what an RN would make as a starting salary? No college, high school GED and one yr of nursing school thru a community college. Passed NCLEX test for nursing. Just curious,she can't be making that much. Anyway, I have a tiny bit of respect for her because she aimed for a goal and obtained it. But I can't figure out what turned her agaisnt me. I have a good career, make great money. She always told me how handsom I am, and how she loves having s***x with me! We did fight a good bit because I was frustrated with her situation with him. Anyway, maybe it was childish, but I blocked her on my fb, so she can't see my profile pics or any pics or posts. However, I would really like to unblock her so she can see what shes missing, pictures that is!

I did this mostly for me, to get over her faster. Yes, I know, im a jerk but I still love her! However, im busy as hell, working out at the gym etc.

 

[mavericks48]

Update, tried to do this a while ago, but it didn't post. Ok, im reading Book of Pook, reading about confidence and how to develope it, etc. Im busy as hell with my business and a hobby! I feel better except their are still times of weakness for me like the last couple of days. I got an email from a friend of mine, asked me if I heard from the ex. I told her no and reminded her of the situation so why would I here from her. My friend said that the ex posted on FB she finally got an RN job. I acted like I didn't care , and said good for her.

Problem is, I still care, I care a lot. I respect her on one hand because she aimed for a goal and obtained it, but thats it. I remember, the reason she said she was ending it was because she needs to take care of her family, meaning her 7 yr old and her soon to be husband! Thats right, I was also told she's going to marry that idiot!!! Looser!!! I guess she's happy with him riding her coat tails financially! I can't figure what got to her, was it the kid and because he's the kids father? Was it the her older sister who hangs with her in clubs and told her she has this commitment and she has to live up to it?

Or was it me? The fact that was getting frustrated and arguing with her over her actions of staying in contact with him while she was with me?!!! Oh well, he won out, I guess. Anyway, she has a high school GED only, no college, and only went to one yr of nursing school thru a community college nursing program. At 25, how much money can she make? Does anyone have an idea?

So, as you all can see I still care, I was doing pretty good until I heard from my friend. Now she is in contact with my ex, you don't think theirs somthing going on as far as communicating this to me? Right? I have been working out at the gym and keeping very busy, reading business books for my business, and confidence articals, book of pook etc. But I still have not been able to shake this B****tch! out of my head! I almost want to unblock her from FB so she can at least see my pics and what shes missing! Well, sorry to all of you for the relapse!!! I have been in NC for about going on a mth in half. Here I am a good lookiing successful dude, and I can't get this F****king 8 out of my head! And not to be mean, but nude, a 6!!! Because of the kid and all. Thks for reading! I just need to keep working on me thats all!

 

[bam bam]

good stuff here gents...

umm u should give her a call... tell her how you feel can't get her out of your mind.. u know all the good stuff... i'm sure she's just eager to talk to you again.. now that she knows she's gained your respect stuff will change... she's gonna dump her loser bf turn her life fully around and get together with you... you've past the test... waited for 365 days of rejecting and told to leave her alone... ur lucky u didn't get the stalker restraining order test... that one is a bit more difficult to pass... you need to do covert op spying on her...


dude no offense but stop posting about her.. we gave you advice you chose to ignore it... go learn for yourself... experience is the best teacher hopefully you learn from this... your in love with an ideal not a person... you focus on only the good and so you keep her in this demi-god image... u have too much time on your hands keep running circle with her till eventually your 2 years older in the same spot and she tells u she's getting married to a cab driver...

 

[Kailex]

If you are trying to get over her, what does it matter how much she is going to make or whether it was you or it wasn't you?

You're looking for closure when there needs to be none. Like I always say, closure is a fallacy. You don't need a sense of closure. No one died. It's already done with and it's time to move on, the "WHY" doesn't matter.

Just look at all of the red flags she's presented over time, that's good enough for a "WHY".

Just be glad you didn't have to deal with a kid (in the financial sense) for the next 11 years and then some.

You obviously need to find other women to go out with as well. You're giving your ex TOO much thought and that is not healthy.