Confused needing some advice!

jetset22

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I've gotten lots of good info from you guys but never had to post. Recently however, I've become a little confused and need some guidance. 2 years ago I dated a girl for 6 months. Liked her a lot. She broke up with me for a stupid reason. This past Christmas I ran into her and she called and we started spending a lot of time together. She was talking to a guy so she started dating him and didnt talk to me for the duration of their relationship ( a month). Now that they broke up we talk quite a bit and spend time together as well.
Here is my problem - I think she still talks to other guys, she drinks quite a bit, goes to the club often (which I don't really like), and today I found out she might have posted an ad on craigslist looking for a sugar daddy. This was totally unexpected but the age, height, and weight match. Also she has been saying how she wants to be spoiled lately. So my question is - Since I really like her, should I continue to spend time with her and take it to the relationship level or are girls like this nothing but trouble?
Thanks guys:confused:
 

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I think the general opinion would be to hump and dump, and don't spend a dime on her. Get the lay, then ditch her ass.

Then again I could say that about any chick. They all have secrets to hide, and things that would make them not be worthy for anything more than a lay.
 

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jetset22 said:
I've gotten lots of good info from you guys but never had to post. Recently however, I've become a little confused and need some guidance. 2 years ago I dated a girl for 6 months. Liked her a lot. #1 She broke up with me for a stupid reason. This past Christmas I ran into her and she called and we started spending a lot of time together. #2 She was talking to a guy so she started dating him and didnt talk to me for the duration of their relationship ( a month). Now that they broke up we talk quite a bit and spend time together as well. Here is my problem - I think she still talks to other guys, #3 she drinks quite a bit, goes to the club often (which I don't really like), and today I found out she might have posted an ad on craigslist looking for a sugar daddy. This was totally unexpected but the age, height, and weight match. Also#4 she has been saying how she wants to be spoiled lately. So my question is - Since I really like her, should I continue to spend time with her and take it to the relationship level or are girls like this nothing but trouble?
Thanks guys:confused:

#1 She broke up with you for a stupid reason = she just lost interest. move on unless you want one-itis
#2 You're her "Fallback guy" which means the only reason she's talking to you is so she can satisfy her lust for attention until a better guy comes along
#3 Okay, you don't like that stuff about her clearly, ask yourself this, "why is she worth my time?"
#4 She wants to be spoiled = Buy me some stuff chump.

I suggest you leave her alone completely, she's using you and you'll just get demoralized and crushed if you continue this relationship.
She's a golddigger, so unless you have booku bucks, there's no point.
 
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