How do you DJ's handle "feelings" I'm not talking about hers.. i'm talking about yours.... at what point do you listen to them or do you not take your feelings into consideration at all?
My gf has me confused up the wall.... she only wants to hang out once a week I messed up by making myself too available to her.... NOw i'm trying to hook her back by playing her a little... giving her WAY less time, ignoring her for a few days, then texting her maybe once or twice.... when i talk to her I joke and make her laugh then hang up before it becomes stale. She doesn't appear to be responding (she's not getting needy or saying she misses me) but she will text to ask where I am... and today after a few days she called me.
Right now she's got the leg up on me bcs my feelings are messed up and I actually like her a little (not enough I'd eveer want to get married or move in, but she fits well into what I want right now)....
My gut tells me I've lost her ... what are your thoughts... recommendations?
My gf has me confused up the wall.... she only wants to hang out once a week I messed up by making myself too available to her.... NOw i'm trying to hook her back by playing her a little... giving her WAY less time, ignoring her for a few days, then texting her maybe once or twice.... when i talk to her I joke and make her laugh then hang up before it becomes stale. She doesn't appear to be responding (she's not getting needy or saying she misses me) but she will text to ask where I am... and today after a few days she called me.
Right now she's got the leg up on me bcs my feelings are messed up and I actually like her a little (not enough I'd eveer want to get married or move in, but she fits well into what I want right now)....
My gut tells me I've lost her ... what are your thoughts... recommendations?