(This is not bragging, merely background for you guys to understand)
I'm a musician, and high school band students have auditions for all-county, all-region, and all-state bands. Naturally, these are for the best in the county, then region, and up to state, to play in.
Me and a good friend of mine were the only ones in our high school to make the All-State band, and I happened to make 1st. Naturally, I became more confident due to this. I practiced more, I listened more, I knew what I needed to improve on, and I knew what I had down pat, even though I know I'm not even close to an amazing musician. It also helps that this was around the time I came to this website and read the Book of Pook.
I felt good about myself, I walked taller, I got more women, I made more friends, and I just got more "out there" socially.
Then, I started getting the warnings, the complaints.
A friend came up to me and said "You need to watch it. People know you're good, they will find ways to make you seem or become arrogant".
A guy who's been a jerk to me since last year has started calling me an arrogant d!ckhead (even though, he's pretty arrogant himself)
Rehearsal banter between this kid have gotten so bad, that he sits there and rants about how bad I am in the middle of me playing, so much that I just have to stop playing and literally ask him "Do you think you can play my instrument? I can't play yours, you can't play mine, shut the hell up".
I don't quite know how to walk this line. I don't ever talk about how good I am. I don't even BELIEVE that I'm that amazing, as there's always improvement to be done....