confidence and looks =unbeatable!!

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ricorico

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I have a friend I've known for years. The guy looks a lot like this guy, but actually better looking. Very blond tall German Sweede mix. He gets stopped all the time with people asking if he;s a model or soap actor.

http://www.geocities.com/hunkoftheday2002/GAubry7.jpg

Anyway, he is what we all call cheap. He expects girls to buy him stuff. Will never take a girl to dinner because it cost too much,but is willing to take her out for coffee. Will never buy women a drink. In fact he will embarrass us all by asking for "seperate bills" as soon as hot girls come to our group in a nightclub and he makes sure he only pays his share and not a penny more.

The guy gets laid left and right by the hottest girls around. He even had a hot married Russian girl he was sleeping with.

The thing is he is very confident of his looks, but does not peacock. Dresses with nice jeans, shirts, look is lean with muscles. Really a nice guy to hang out with,compliments women often and does'nt believe in putting them down and generally kind. He does'nt even like to let girls know he is playing around with other women and they all think he's exclusive. But it works for him well.

These last couple of weeks, he's decided he wants to get a Porsche and is looking for a rich "Cougar" to get him one. So he goes to places where he meets rich 30-4o year old women who are in shape with money and so far he has gotten a few great prospects. But this area is crawling with trophy wives who are flattered if a young model like guy is hitting on them.It's as though he wills it, it comes his way because he thinks he is worth it.

Fortunately for him, he knows how to use his looks and will give eye contact galore to either get women to somehow come talk to him, or approach because he knows they are interested. Smiles a lot,but not the joking type.Looks and confidence can get you in the door very easily. If you have half a brain and personality it will keep you there.

I'm anxious to see how long it will take this guy to get his Porche. He also wants a condo debt free. In LA that can cost a cool mil. But as we all tell him, it's one step at a time. But so far he wills it and it comes with little effort ob his part,so he may actually be able to get the condo eventually.
 

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DjDan said:
I have looks, I have confidence, but I still repel women from time to time because I'm overly arrogant and ****y.

When you're attractive, you can't be arrogant/****y. It will kill your game.

You appeal like a narcicist and no woman wants a man who spends more time looking at himself in the mirror he spends looking at her. I've always been infatuated with myself, I have been contacted by modeling agencies and I might sign up, not sure yet.
YOu are missing just one ingredient. You might want to ask NickBe what it is. Only then will your life be perfect.
 

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Interesting story, let us know if ur bud gets what he wants. It's good to know a guy is doing to women what they do to men.
 

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For good looking guy knowing the line between arrogance and ****yiness is very thin. i fit the description of a model with a good degree of confidence. I have been told i am arrogant and that's something i'm trying to work on. Regardless aside from a few instances i usually get what i want from the attractive women i pursue. Havin been a previous goof troop and then when i realized my alphaness i was quite shocked at how attractive i really was and how my ****yiness was such a turn on for many. No one likes to be around a goodlookin arrogant ass hole who walks around like he's better then you and talks down to you. However having a degree of ****yiness and not to much arrogance followed by nice look is simply the ideal man for most women. Bottom line having looks is simply a bonus above guys who don't have looks. I'm living proof that it's a factor.

Some chicks will put up with a arrogant jerk simply because she wants to **** him because he's hot. Other chicks will tell you your an arrogant ass and leave you even if you are hot. IT all depends on you and the chicks you are approaching.
 

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So do you guys think that good looks in man are important if he is gonna be able to get chicks?
 
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