Condoms ruin sex..

[randalll]

I'm sure it's been said a hundred times, but it's true, and it puts me off. People will say I should experiment with a different brand, or type, but they're all the same really. A condom's a condom.

I've had sex without them a few times and it was so much better, for both of us, but now I think it's just not worth running the risk of getting a disease, or worse. Had both those worries before.

Luckily I was OK, but luck runs out sooner or later..

So I tend to not even bring girls back to mine now because I know if I end up in bed with them I won't wear one.

This definitely changes my interactions with women. They don't seem to be going anywhere now, because I know I don't really want them to.

I know I'll have to use them sooner or later if I find a girl I like, but at the moment I have no desire to meet women I'm not really interested in for the sole purpose of fvcking them.

Can anyone else relate?

 

[loveshogun]

When you have sex with a condom

... you're still having sex.

It gets easier. Keep using 'em. 'Cause babies are WAY worse than sex with a condom.

 

[mikeyb]

I've only had sex with a condom so can't relate but what about it was better? Was it not fumbling around for one at the last minute or just that it felt better?

 

[Kailex]

7 bucks for a pack of 24 Durex Extra Sensitive or 18 years of child support payments?

7 bucks for a pack of 24 Durex Extra Sensitive or Co-payment to go see a doctor because "I might have something"?

Hmmmmmmmm...

I know it FEELS better, but it doesn't mean that condoms absolutely devoid you of ALL feeling. Sorry but unfortunately, that's just the way it is.

 

[randalll]

... you're still having sex.

It gets easier. Keep using 'em. 'Cause babies are WAY worse than sex with a condom.

Negative. It's been over a year actually.

I've only had sex with a condom so can't relate but what about it was better? Was it not fumbling around for one at the last minute or just that it felt better?

Both of those things. It felt a LOT better without. Imagine you've only heard sticks being beaten together, and then you go to a Pink Floyd gig..

Sort of like that.

 

[randalll]

I know it FEELS better, but it doesn't mean that condoms absolutely devoid you of ALL feeling. Sorry but unfortunately, that's just the way it is.

It's like a paradox. Sex only feels good when it has a risk - no condom. Wear the condom and (for me) there's really no point in having sex.

 

[Iceberg]

It's like a paradox. Sex only feels good when it has a risk - no condom. Wear the condom and (for me) there's really no point in having sex.

Well that's just weird. But alright.

 

[f283000]

condoms ruin sex, but un-wanted pregnancies ruin lives.

 

[pinhas]

condoms ruin sex, but un-wanted pregnancies ruin lives.

Quoted for truth!!

It does feel much better without it, but its not like you dont feel it at all (unless you use socks). Sex isnt just about the penetration, a big part of sex is whats going on with your body; the hormones rushing, the whole making out and fondeling. Also, BJ's always happen before sex, and those feel awesome!

no sex vs. sex with condoms: even after your getting steady sex and its not a big deal, its still feels great and its way better to *** in a condom while inside a pretty girl then on a napkin, sock, etc.

Dont be a fool; wrap your tool!

 

[Maxtro]

I've never gone bareback but sex has always been amazing. I wonder how much better it can actually be.

Also my sensitivity threshold is pretty low as I don't have a lot of experience. Even with a basic condom I have a hard time lasting. I got a feeling that without a condom, I'd be lucky to last more than a minute.

Also as pinhas said, sex is more than just the actual penetration.

 

[Bryce556]

they need top finish devloping that male birth control that drops ur sperm count to zero

 

[Maxtro]

There's actually testing being done on a birth control shot for men. It has been shown to be 100% effective in preventing pregnancy.

So we may be a few years away from not needing condoms anymore.

 

[ginger]

Hi,

So if you are dating a girl (assuming she has no stis) that is not on the pill, the pull out method is a pretty good option (especially if you coordinate this with the girls cycle--probably you will still want to you a condom at the most fertile points and you can probably *** inside of her during and for a few days after her period). There was actually a study showing that the pull out method was just as effective as condom usage, though of course the important thing is that you are using these methods correctly. I think also you can start having sex without a condom and then when you start feeling like you are going to ***, you can switch positions and put one on then continue with sex.

Other things to note, always use a condom with random girls you don't know/trust/know their sexual histories and with girls that you think/suspect are not exclusive with you. If you have sex for a second time after cumming you will have to watch out for precum carrying out some of the previous ejaculation's sperm--if it's your first time having sex that day or you have peed in between, precum shouldn't be a concern. Different condoms do help--go for the thinnest possible.

Hope that helps.

 

[mtlwlu]

If shes on the pill no problem, but if its just a girl from a bar you just met, Id use a condom.

but yes sex without a condom does feel a lot better.

 

[thegator39]

Maxtro, why are you giving advice about sex and women? Haven't the only women you've dated/slept with been escorts?

 

[Maxtro]

Maxtro, why are you giving advice about sex and women? Haven't the only women you've dated/slept with been escorts?

LOL wut?

Where in this thread have I given advice? :kick:

 

[bigjohnson]

Bareback is amazingly better, and if you use a condom, put some Astroglide inside and out.

 

[BigJimbo]

Maxtro, why are you giving advice about sex and women? Haven't the only women you've dated/slept with been escorts?

Which makes him 10 times smarter than the rest of you on here. I would listen.

 

[Chosen1]

I'm 2of2 for going in raw. Not that I hate condoms just that I love kids ha.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Condoms ruin sex...Can anyone else relate?

Absolutely. I think condom-free sex is the biggest benefit of being in a committed long-term relationship with a woman whom you trust to manage her own birth control, and fwiw it helps if she's not a moron. I figured that out when I was 16 and have never used a condom since.

As the late comedian Sam Kinison said, "If you don't trust the pvssy, WHY are you fvcking the pvssy??!?!?"