Concealed carry on first few dates

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When what goes down?

A fistfight or stopping a mass shooting?
Any use of force against me or my family that is likely to cause death or grave bodily harm will be met with deadly force, and that is legal and reasonable.

Fistfights generally do not fall into that category unless the person being attacked is unusually vulnerable (age, disability, etc.).

As an armed individual, it is my duty to de-escalate situations as much as humanly possible, far more than a man who is not armed. Responsible, trained, and reasonable men who carry firearms do everything they can to de-escalate situations and avoid using their weapon, which is ALWAYS a last resort in order to avoid being killed or maimed.

Are you anti-gun?
 

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First dates are weeknight dates, not weekend dates.
Naw, first dates can be weekend dates, this isn't 1960
Good point-counterpoint. Deserving of its own thread. Will make one.

CC is a good way to disqualify girls that don't believe in CC, which is probably 95+% of them. Maybe you can talk about religion or politics to disqualify the 5% who are inclined to hang around.

The mindset of CCW is "have but not need, rather than need and not have".

9.99999 out of 10 times you won't need to use whatever you're carrying but being prepared anyways in case you do is the mindset.
I have never concealed carry on a date. Talking about gun ownership, shooting guns, and/or concealed carry can be ok. I think it's a case by case basis. The far left SJW/feminist crowd wouldn't like it so it's not worth mentioning. If you sense that a woman is moderate to somewhat liberal, you might be able to get away with that talk and it would be a turn on. This would be where the most gray area is located and that also covers the majority of single women ages 18-39, especially the white woman with a BA/BS degree+ with a white collar job who is never married and no children.

Talk all you want about guns if you can determine the woman possesses a more conservative ideology.

Women do respond to men who have a passion and believe in something. It shows leadership, which is alpha. There have been men passionate about socialist/communist ideologies that have gotten laid a lot because women are turned on their conviction and leadership. If you display about something passionately (politically or non-politically), it has the potential to help get you laid.
 

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Any use of force against me or my family that is likely to cause death or grave bodily harm will be met with deadly force, and that is legal and reasonable.

Fistfights generally do not fall into that category unless the person being attacked is unusually vulnerable (age, disability, etc.).

As an armed individual, it is my duty to de-escalate situations as much as humanly possible, far more than a man who is not armed. Responsible, trained, and reasonable men who carry firearms do everything they can to de-escalate situations and avoid using their weapon, which is ALWAYS a last resort in order to avoid being killed or maimed.

Are you anti-gun?
I wouldn't say I'm anti-gun... They're obviously necessary in a military situation.

But I'm anti- letting any Average Joe/Average Jane with an inferiority complex walk around like they're the Terminator. I'm not saying this describes you personally, I'm saying it describes some.

I've known many alcoholics who own guns, for example.
 

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I wouldn't say I'm anti-gun... They're obviously necessary in a military situation.

But I'm anti- letting any Average Joe/Average Jane with an inferiority complex walk around like they're the Terminator. I'm not saying this describes you personally, I'm saying it describes some.

I've known many alcoholics who own guns, for example.
Those same alcoholics also probably get behind the wheel when they're smashed. Should we not be allowed to have cars and alcohol because of the poor choices of a few people?

A firearm is a tool. It does not hurt, main, or kill unless it's used as such. The person operating it is responsible. Just like anything else.

Your argument about letting any average American possess a firearm is wrong.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Those same alcoholics also probably get behind the wheel when they're smashed. Should we not be allowed to have cars and alcohol because of the poor choices of a few people?

A firearm is a tool. It does not hurt, main, or kill unless it's used as such. The person operating it is responsible. Just like anything else.

Your argument about letting any average American possess a firearm is wrong.
Very well said indeed.
 

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A gun gets women very wet. It's not really just the anxiousness, but the control you have at that very moment. It's like you are wielding a very powerful thing to them. They will most of the time see it as a big protection and/or oppressive force, which will turn them on. If they are afraid of you with it, it's mostly to do with their attraction to you.
 

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Any use of force against me or my family that is likely to cause death or grave bodily harm will be met with deadly force, and that is legal and reasonable.

Fistfights generally do not fall into that category unless the person being attacked is unusually vulnerable (age, disability, etc.).

As an armed individual, it is my duty to de-escalate situations as much as humanly possible, far more than a man who is not armed. Responsible, trained, and reasonable men who carry firearms do everything they can to de-escalate situations and avoid using their weapon, which is ALWAYS a last resort in order to avoid being killed or maimed.

Are you anti-gun?
I'll add that a responsible individual who carries a firearm generally has a lot of active situational awareness occurring while they are out and about. They use that to perceive and avoid threats.

Also, the responsible CCWer will never purposefully put themselves into a situation where a firearm would be needed. AKA, purposefully going into a bad part of town, picking a fight, or arguing with a stranger over a parking space.

The old adage of an "armed civilization is a polite civilization" comes to mind.

The CCWer who is responsible and holds themselves accountable to their responsibility, will de-escalate like atom smasher said or just avoid confrontation all together.

Carrying a firearm doesn't you give you an a$$hole pass to do whatever you want. It's quite the opposite, unless you are an a$$hole looking for trouble.
 

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A gun gets women very wet. It's not really just the anxiousness, but the control you have at that very moment. It's like you are wielding a very powerful thing to them. They will most of the time see it as a big protection and/or oppressive force, which will turn them on. If they are afraid of you with it, it's mostly to do with their attraction to you.
Yeah that's why SOOOO many guys get laid at the gun range...I'm gonna take my RV trailer next time so I can SLAY the POOOZZZY :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

The Poseurs are quite evident in this thread. My question to you guys is do you jack off while "running" FTF drills? or do you wait until between sets?
 

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Yeah that's why SOOOO many guys get laid at the gun range...I'm gonna take my RV trailer next time so I can SLAY the POOOZZZY :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

The Poseurs are quite evident in this thread. My question to you guys is do you jack off while "running" FTF drills? or do you wait until between sets?
I think you took my post in a very different direction than what I was stating.
 

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The Poseurs are quite evident in this thread. My question to you guys is do you jack off while "running" FTF drills? or do you wait until between sets?
It would actually be quite impressive if you could jack off while running an FTF drill :D
 

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I wouldn't say I'm anti-gun... They're obviously necessary in a military situation.

But I'm anti- letting any Average Joe/Average Jane with an inferiority complex walk around like they're the Terminator. I'm not saying this describes you personally, I'm saying it describes some.

I've known many alcoholics who own guns, for example.
That's like saying that you're against letting any average Joe talk to a stranger woman because some of them are rapists. Some people actually subscribe to this idea (i.e. think Saudi Arabia).
 

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I've seen this brought up on the gun forums and a couple times on here, but what are the thoughts about conceal carry on first dates or when meeting someone new? I bring this up because a lot of times dates take place in downtown areas at night where robberies occur, or worse an OLD date is a set up.

Like around here the biggest city 30 miles to my south has a lot of bars and restaurants downtown. It's a tourist area and locals all go there on the weekends but crime spills into these areas especially at night.

I personally carry 24/7 everywhere.
It might be better to meet somewhere safe, so that you don't need to bring along a potential murder weapon.
 

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