I've been with my girlfriend for the last year and a half. We met in the beginning of 2008. It started out as long distance then she moved to my area in September of 2009. We live 12 minutes apart now. I'm 30 years old. She's 28.
She has her own place her own job her own car. She has recently asked me to move in with her & she even asked me to marry her. I told her no.
Another problem is that we don't have sex. She wants to go all the way with me but I don't want to go all the way with her. I've been in 6 different relationships in my entire life and none of the women were able to make me orgasm during sex. The only way I can achieve orgasm is through masturbation.
So back in 2002 I made a decision to give up sex with women until the end of time & just get my needs met from masturbation & occasional lesbian pornography. There's many reasons I made this decision besides the fact that I get more pleasure from masturbation than sexual intercourse.
So what should I do about my current relationship? She seemed pretty disappointed that I turned down her proposal to live together & get married. Now she has left it alone and thinks that with time I'm going to change my mind.
So should I just break it off with her so that I'm not wasting her time? If marriage & living together is what she wants then she should go find a guy who wants those things too right? I don't want to hold her back.
I even tried introducing her to one of my friends who is looking for a wife. He says he wants to be married in the next 2 years.
I have no interest in getting married in my future but I do want to date a woman exclusively for the rest of my life if things don't work out with my current girlfriend. I think my girlfriend is a great woman but we're just incompatible about our long term goals for the relationship. She wants marriage & all I want to do is date her exclusively until the end of time.
She has her own place her own job her own car. She has recently asked me to move in with her & she even asked me to marry her. I told her no.
Another problem is that we don't have sex. She wants to go all the way with me but I don't want to go all the way with her. I've been in 6 different relationships in my entire life and none of the women were able to make me orgasm during sex. The only way I can achieve orgasm is through masturbation.
So back in 2002 I made a decision to give up sex with women until the end of time & just get my needs met from masturbation & occasional lesbian pornography. There's many reasons I made this decision besides the fact that I get more pleasure from masturbation than sexual intercourse.
So what should I do about my current relationship? She seemed pretty disappointed that I turned down her proposal to live together & get married. Now she has left it alone and thinks that with time I'm going to change my mind.
So should I just break it off with her so that I'm not wasting her time? If marriage & living together is what she wants then she should go find a guy who wants those things too right? I don't want to hold her back.
I even tried introducing her to one of my friends who is looking for a wife. He says he wants to be married in the next 2 years.
I have no interest in getting married in my future but I do want to date a woman exclusively for the rest of my life if things don't work out with my current girlfriend. I think my girlfriend is a great woman but we're just incompatible about our long term goals for the relationship. She wants marriage & all I want to do is date her exclusively until the end of time.
