Complex situation. advice needed

LadiesMan89

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So heres an update. For the past week or so, she's been continuing to try to play games. Flirting with guys she's never flirted with before right in front of me, and so on. She really tries hard. She'll be talking to me or vice versa and she'll grab some guy right in the middle of the conversation. I dont even notice him, and continue with the conversation, as if he wasnt there. I keep the eye contact, the charm, and so on. So after one occasion where I did that, she started acting *****y towards me. I knew what was bothering her, but I figured I'd ask anyways. She told me that I've been acting really full of myself lately, that I think I'm cooler than everyone else. And all this is from not giving in to her games.

I don't know what to make out of this. I'm not sure if maybe I'm reading the situation wrong, or if shes still playing games with me either because she wants back that feeling of control, or she likes me still.


I'm almost positive shes still attempting to play games. Its just as obvious as it was before. She's gone as far to physically flirt with guys in front of me about whom we've had conversations about how much she dislikes them. Things have cooled down a little bit between me and her, and seem to be almost back to normal. But she still seems to be trying to do this, and me not acknowledging it is getting to her. The thing is, I don't mean it to. It just doesn't bother me.

I know I post here and say it doesn't bother me, and that doesn't make much sense. I wouldn't be posting here if she didn't just break up with her boyfriend and tell my best friend that she is gonna hook up with as many guys as possible. Shes really hot, and the whole reason I even got involved with her is cause I wanted to **** her, and I figured she would be easy. Now that she is available, I still do. So I'm not sure how I really feel about her anymore.
 
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