LadiesMan89
Don Juan
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- Oct 11, 2005
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OK, heres some brief background information. I work at a grocerry store with a lot of attractive girls. One of these girls I was intereted in, started dating one of my closest friends about a year and a half ago. Me and this girl became closer friends while they were going out. Then, the relationship ended abruptly when she got drunk and cheated on him. He found out, and that was that. Shortly after, the girl moved on and started dating a kid she goes to school with, and my friend enlisted in the army. So now, I figured that since my friend was gone, I'd make a move on this girl. I was infatuated, and in hindsight I realize it was a bad idea, knowing that she had a boyfiend, and also what she had done to my friend. But at the time, I thought I could get her to dump this kid to go out with me.
So we started talking a lot more than we use to. We started talking on the phone for hours some nights, and this went on for weeks. Then we started to hang out a lot together. Going to the mall, going to diner, movies, date type stuff. Of course, during this whole time, she was still dating this other kid. But , infatuated, I thought I could still get her. So then I flat out told her how I felt about her. She said she felt the same, but that she wished I would've told her before she started going out with this other kid. This boosted my confidence that this relationship was starting to go somewhere, and thus my infatuation for her became stronger.
Now knowing how I felt about her, she started to play games with me, which I found pretty annoying, but I knew that it was normal for a girl to do that. The thing was, she was using my best friend, who I also worked with, to play them. Whenever she saw me coming, she would start playing around with him, touching him, hugging him, a lot of kino. He knew how I felt about her, so he tried to avoid her when I was around, but she still did it. This went on for a couple weeks, and it really started to piss me off. The final straw came this friday.
She had told me that morning how she thought this really ugly new kid was hot, and that annoyed me a little bit. Then that afternoon, while looking right at me with this big grin, she pinched my best friend's ass. That was it for me. I took her aside and told her how I knew she had been playing games with me ever since I told her how I felt about her, and how it really pissed me off. She got pissed off in return, denying that she was playing games. Then she started flirting with this ugly new kid, right in front of me, knowing that it was pissing me off more and more. It just escalated and escalated and we were snapping at each other all day.
I got out of work at 6 that day, and went to a graduation party that night. She got off at 7. I was starting to feel bad about accusing her of playing games with me. She was pretty convincing when she told me that she wasnt playing games, and I began to think that maybe I had misinterpreted what was going on. So, I figured I would just end the whole ordeal by calling her and apologizing. She picked up, and gave me a kind of "yeah, whatever" type of response. Then in the background, I hear some guy say something like "tell him you'll call him back later, we're busy". so she said she was busy and practicaly hung up on me. This bothered me a little bit, but I went back to the party.
At around 10 mintues after 9, I get a call from my friend, the same one who's ass she had pinched right in front of me. He told me that when he was getting out of work, and walking through the parking lot, he had seen her and the ugly new kid chilling in his car. The guy in the background from when I called her earlier was the new kid. What a strange coincidence that she would be in the parking lot with him at 9, exactly when my best friend would be getting out of work to see them there. I was absolutely furious. I called her again, and she picked up I gave her a piece of my mind. She hung up on me again. So it was around 10 o'clock now, and I was still at the party trying to cool down. She called me and said that I was being controling, that I wasn't her boyfriend and that its wasn't my place to tell her who she can and cant hang out with. I told her that I didn't really care what she did or who with, but that if it is done to play games with me, thats when it becomes infuriating to me.
On saturday, me, her, and the new kid were all working. I ignored her and her blatant flirting with the new kid cause I knew what she was trying to do. Any verbal exchanges between me and her on saturday were loaded with attitude and sarcasm. we were really starting to dislike each other.
Saturday night I decided I would give her a taste of her own medicine.
Today, I flirted with every girl I could. I even flirted with her best friend, right in front of her for twenty minutes. This definitly got to her. She started flirting again with the new kid, but I made sure it seemed like it didn't phase me and continuted flirting with 3 or 4 other attractive girls at once. She was definitly watching. I caught her a few times looking over at me while I was flirting with different girls. At the end of the night, when she was leaving, I told her to tell her friend I had been flirting with that I said hello. It really worked in pissing her off.
Here is where I need help. What should I do next? I think I should probably just break off the whole thing, not even acknowledge her existence. But the vindictive side of me wants to continue with what I did today. The problem is, I still kinda have feelings for her. Before this whole situation, we were really good friends, and it was going well. I wanna slavage that, but I doubt it will happen. I think she may also still have feelings towards me, since she is still trying to play games. I need some advice.
So we started talking a lot more than we use to. We started talking on the phone for hours some nights, and this went on for weeks. Then we started to hang out a lot together. Going to the mall, going to diner, movies, date type stuff. Of course, during this whole time, she was still dating this other kid. But , infatuated, I thought I could still get her. So then I flat out told her how I felt about her. She said she felt the same, but that she wished I would've told her before she started going out with this other kid. This boosted my confidence that this relationship was starting to go somewhere, and thus my infatuation for her became stronger.
Now knowing how I felt about her, she started to play games with me, which I found pretty annoying, but I knew that it was normal for a girl to do that. The thing was, she was using my best friend, who I also worked with, to play them. Whenever she saw me coming, she would start playing around with him, touching him, hugging him, a lot of kino. He knew how I felt about her, so he tried to avoid her when I was around, but she still did it. This went on for a couple weeks, and it really started to piss me off. The final straw came this friday.
She had told me that morning how she thought this really ugly new kid was hot, and that annoyed me a little bit. Then that afternoon, while looking right at me with this big grin, she pinched my best friend's ass. That was it for me. I took her aside and told her how I knew she had been playing games with me ever since I told her how I felt about her, and how it really pissed me off. She got pissed off in return, denying that she was playing games. Then she started flirting with this ugly new kid, right in front of me, knowing that it was pissing me off more and more. It just escalated and escalated and we were snapping at each other all day.
I got out of work at 6 that day, and went to a graduation party that night. She got off at 7. I was starting to feel bad about accusing her of playing games with me. She was pretty convincing when she told me that she wasnt playing games, and I began to think that maybe I had misinterpreted what was going on. So, I figured I would just end the whole ordeal by calling her and apologizing. She picked up, and gave me a kind of "yeah, whatever" type of response. Then in the background, I hear some guy say something like "tell him you'll call him back later, we're busy". so she said she was busy and practicaly hung up on me. This bothered me a little bit, but I went back to the party.
At around 10 mintues after 9, I get a call from my friend, the same one who's ass she had pinched right in front of me. He told me that when he was getting out of work, and walking through the parking lot, he had seen her and the ugly new kid chilling in his car. The guy in the background from when I called her earlier was the new kid. What a strange coincidence that she would be in the parking lot with him at 9, exactly when my best friend would be getting out of work to see them there. I was absolutely furious. I called her again, and she picked up I gave her a piece of my mind. She hung up on me again. So it was around 10 o'clock now, and I was still at the party trying to cool down. She called me and said that I was being controling, that I wasn't her boyfriend and that its wasn't my place to tell her who she can and cant hang out with. I told her that I didn't really care what she did or who with, but that if it is done to play games with me, thats when it becomes infuriating to me.
On saturday, me, her, and the new kid were all working. I ignored her and her blatant flirting with the new kid cause I knew what she was trying to do. Any verbal exchanges between me and her on saturday were loaded with attitude and sarcasm. we were really starting to dislike each other.
Saturday night I decided I would give her a taste of her own medicine.
Today, I flirted with every girl I could. I even flirted with her best friend, right in front of her for twenty minutes. This definitly got to her. She started flirting again with the new kid, but I made sure it seemed like it didn't phase me and continuted flirting with 3 or 4 other attractive girls at once. She was definitly watching. I caught her a few times looking over at me while I was flirting with different girls. At the end of the night, when she was leaving, I told her to tell her friend I had been flirting with that I said hello. It really worked in pissing her off.
Here is where I need help. What should I do next? I think I should probably just break off the whole thing, not even acknowledge her existence. But the vindictive side of me wants to continue with what I did today. The problem is, I still kinda have feelings for her. Before this whole situation, we were really good friends, and it was going well. I wanna slavage that, but I doubt it will happen. I think she may also still have feelings towards me, since she is still trying to play games. I need some advice.
