dj-outlaws
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Ok, I know a lot of you don't advise dating/****ing co-workers, but I worked with a chick from time to time (usually once/twice a month), in May I could tell she had the hots for me, flirted with her, asked her out, fvcked her first date, all good.
Her interest level was crazy off the charts, she admitted she had the biggest crush on me for months, met again week later, fvcked at hers. Now I did make a few AFC mistakes, texted way too much, chatted on facebook chat most days, yeah too much. Fourth time we went out was with co-workers for party, ended up going back to hers, but I was too drunk to **** her and ended up losing my game and telling her I really liked her and acting needy. I can usually keep my cool, I did like her a LOT, but being drunk I ended up acting like a needy wuss. I was too drunk to remember exactly what I did, but I remember her telling me "oh don't be needy", and asking her about other guys, urgh.
We didn't speak much for few days after as I could tell her interest had dropped, no response to flirty comments etc. Left it a week, and then asked her out by text, she tells me "something didn't click, let's just be friends?". I tell her I'm kinda shocked as I thought we got on cool, but ok no hard feelings.
I go NC for a week, she then messages me asking if I've met any other girls? I thought it's a bit weird so ignore it, then get another message from her asking if I'm avoiding her, cos she doesn't want me to, I replied and said "no, just been busy and getting on with things, we'll still see each other around work x".
This was like 3 weeks ago, we worked together two weeks ago and I was pretty distant/aloof with her, I could see she was chasing me a bit again, coming over to say hey a lot, and "I thought I'd come sit with you, I'm bored", making me coffees/teas, then followed me out to carpark "to get something from her car" so we were in the elevator together.
I've not really spoken to her much in last 2 weeks, she initiated a facebook chat last week just asking what I've been up to, I kept it friendly, ****y, teased her a bit and after 10 mins said I had to run.
So basically, is there anyway back from this? I know I messed up by getting too drunk and needy, but this was like 5/6 weeks ago now.
I'm dating two other chicks at moment anyway, so no biggy, but I did like banging this one and maybe even saw her as possible girlfriend material, was pretty pissed I ruined it.
Her interest level was crazy off the charts, she admitted she had the biggest crush on me for months, met again week later, fvcked at hers. Now I did make a few AFC mistakes, texted way too much, chatted on facebook chat most days, yeah too much. Fourth time we went out was with co-workers for party, ended up going back to hers, but I was too drunk to **** her and ended up losing my game and telling her I really liked her and acting needy. I can usually keep my cool, I did like her a LOT, but being drunk I ended up acting like a needy wuss. I was too drunk to remember exactly what I did, but I remember her telling me "oh don't be needy", and asking her about other guys, urgh.
We didn't speak much for few days after as I could tell her interest had dropped, no response to flirty comments etc. Left it a week, and then asked her out by text, she tells me "something didn't click, let's just be friends?". I tell her I'm kinda shocked as I thought we got on cool, but ok no hard feelings.
I go NC for a week, she then messages me asking if I've met any other girls? I thought it's a bit weird so ignore it, then get another message from her asking if I'm avoiding her, cos she doesn't want me to, I replied and said "no, just been busy and getting on with things, we'll still see each other around work x".
This was like 3 weeks ago, we worked together two weeks ago and I was pretty distant/aloof with her, I could see she was chasing me a bit again, coming over to say hey a lot, and "I thought I'd come sit with you, I'm bored", making me coffees/teas, then followed me out to carpark "to get something from her car" so we were in the elevator together.
I've not really spoken to her much in last 2 weeks, she initiated a facebook chat last week just asking what I've been up to, I kept it friendly, ****y, teased her a bit and after 10 mins said I had to run.
So basically, is there anyway back from this? I know I messed up by getting too drunk and needy, but this was like 5/6 weeks ago now.
I'm dating two other chicks at moment anyway, so no biggy, but I did like banging this one and maybe even saw her as possible girlfriend material, was pretty pissed I ruined it.