Comfort building

[arlanda]

I need help with this guys. Let's say we are past the attraction phase. What do I talk about to make her comfortable? How do I act?

Thanks

 

[RockstarPUA]

Tell stories that show that you can be vulnerable. Tell a story about when your little puppy got hit by a car and your cried or whatever....

These girls (once attracted) want their guys to be real and not all game.

Build commonalities.

Elicit Values (Styles EV routines is great for this).

Hope I've helped. Wish I could elaborate more. Its 4am.

ps. Ask this of fastseduction.com . They are much more knowlegeable about this type of thing over there.

 

[milkman]

Originally posted by arlanda
I need help with this guys. Let's say we are past the attraction phase. What do I talk about to make her comfortable? How do I act?

Thanks

Try not to think in phases. Build a good connection with her and talk about whatever you want. Be nice to her and make clear that you like her and let her become comfortable around you. This usually happens when you are also comfortable with her and when you like her. Thinking in phases and about what to do next and what to say will hinder you being comfortable with her and the situation. She will feel this and that will not do you any good.

Don´t care so much about words, they are not that important. Instead be confident with escalating kino and don´t forget to give her the one or other compliment in case you are not sure if she knows that you like her. Alltogether make sure to not forget making the moves. After you two are kissing she usually will be comfortable with you.

 

[arlanda]

Thank you guys.

Milkman, sure - I just wanted to give you a better picture of where do I stand. The thing is I might have been too C&F and she got scared away because of "no connection". Now, I have a second shot so to speak and she seems to be responding pretty well. However, I am not sure how much "friendly" and "nice" should I act around her.

It seems kino will send the right message, though

 

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by RockstarPUA
ps. Ask this of fastseduction.com . They are much more knowlegeable about this type of thing over there.

QFT