I feel like there is this notion that getting hot girls in college is easy, completely disagree there. What I found was that in college, stupid things like what frat you were in mattered more than looks and game. Getting into the top frats was not easy either unless you were old money which made it even tougher to pull.
I think the only kinds of guys who get hot girls in college are:
1. Trust fund babies that join frats
2. Athletes
3. Spoiled kids that already have a large social circle coming in from high school
Jordan Peterson commented on this.
College is 4:1 women to men. Fantastic right? Wrong.
Its open hypergamy on steroids. Pareto distribution. 80:20.
80% of the women sleeping with the top 20% of men. Likely, its far worse.
Peterson pointed out this scenario in a YouTube video. Its even more enlightening given his final piece.
He went onto say, even the man who is doing all the pulling grows "cynical."
Peterson would have to elaborate but, if I were to guess, it would likely being red pilled and therefore, seeing female nature as it is. Not how you wish it to be.
I found college girls to be lay ups. For starters, I am deezed, older, and been at pickup for eons. Its simply chain gunning cold approach, obv calibrate but... Its pull or #nextset!
Your excusing poor game with havenots. Your list for example. Blanc says it best. Get better. Not bitter.
The RMG podcast went off on day game saying. A 10% success rate is superb.
Shift your paradigm. Calibrate after the fact. Aim at doing your part. Hitting up abundance of women. Spam approach. Be "that guy." Subtlety goes a long way. Its not going full #metoo lol but if I were to guess, what you deem as being "too far" isn't far enough.
Obv. Think. Use common sense. If IQ is 83 or you're low functioning autistic, disregard entire post given one's inability to comprehend social cues.