college guys

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Yeah, I believe that. 13 hand jobs sounds pretty reasonable for a party summer, maybe even a conservative estimate

I was under the impression that these were girls you claimed to have dated individually. Which would have been mathematically nearly impossible (that would require a girl change every 3-5 days). But yeah, I guess your story there clears that up. lol.

 

[Caldus]

Hooking up with 13 people over the summer? Man I would be a happy man to just have 1. lol.

 

[alnite]

Age 18-25 is the age of turning to maturity. You will have a lot of changes in personality, opinion, everything. I think that's the biggest breakdown, at least for me. Plus all the crap that you should now take care of yourself (which means cooking, paperwork, everything should be done by you).

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt
Yeah, I believe that. 13 hand jobs sounds pretty reasonable for a party summer, maybe even a conservative estimate

I was under the impression that these were girls you claimed to have dated individually. Which would have been mathematically nearly impossible (that would require a girl change every 3-5 days). But yeah, I guess your story there clears that up. lol.

oh you thought i dated them? LOL the longest I have dated someone in college has been 3 months... but I'm weird about that stuff... I am trying to take care of myself first (dont really have time for a GF yet) and since there are so many girls out there I have no problems making a girl a fvck buddy and if she doesnt like it (oddly some girls dont want to just be a booty call lol) she can hit the fvcking road

and 13 hand jobs is not what i got bro... i got maybe 6 hand jobs (WEAKKKKKKK this actually pissed me off after a few times... i was ok with it at first b/c i was finally getting some action, but girls just dont get it lol and i had to tell some to stop) the rest were bjs/f closes.... I also made out with a lot of girls randomly

but you have to remember, these are at big parties where everyone is drinking so its easier than day PU (although i did get a few from day PU)

the best thing to do for college is:
1- go to a good school (preferabbly a big one)
2- take care of yourself first and do it all the time (eat right, study right, go to all classes, LIFT WEIGHTS)
3- make friends with EVERYONE!!!!!!! and i do mean everyone, even the dorks/nerds/ugly girls (I would knock on peoples doors and introduce myself and talk with them.. eventually almost everyone knew me or of me and like 800 people were going to summer school at the time... the social proof was insane... people would tell me about parties, get me stuff, give me study guides, etc etc
4- go out A LOT (never sit around and look up the internet or whatever unless its for class... but dont neglect your hobbies) I would read PU for about 5 hrs a week, the rest is all FIELD WORK
5- go for it... when youre out and you see a girl youre attracted to, make a fvcking move... you have no idea how easy it really is...
for example- I was at a party scoping out the place when i saw 3 HOT girls dancing in a circle... I was like no way am i just gonna go up to them and dance... but i forced myself to (i was actually trying to impress my friends, which is the wrong kind of motivation but it worked) and they LOVED IT... i ended up dancing with one for a while and took her home

another time i went up to a girl at a party and was like "hey whats up"
she said "hey... i have to get to my friends" *smile
me- wtf...

later I wasnt convinced she rejected me (persistant bastard) and went up to her... she explianed she had to really talk to her friend about some boy trouble and i ended up getting her # and later hooked up with her

ive also gone around and talked to a girl for less than a minute and started making out with them b/c i was like "**** this, i need to make a move or move on"

 

[exwhyzee]

Wow WhiteHype Talking for less than a minute and making out with her??? Damn! These stories you tell are very helpful, sort of confidence boosters if you will, would you please tell some more of the examples of meeting various girls who you ended up hooking up with later? I am intresewted in hearing the one minute talk/make out...Thanks.

 

[medjaun]

Anybody here crash parties at a college you don't attend? Looking for some tips to get in.

 

[h2o]

Originally posted by medjaun
Anybody here crash parties at a college you don't attend? Looking for some tips to get in.

yeah, actually. i go to ncsu, in raleigh...but during my first two years in school i went to lots of parties at unc.

how? get to know lots of people. don't worry how old / what year people are. what matters is if you enjoy each others' company.

it happened that a friend of my friend knew where all the parties were at unc.

and when you go to these parties, make sure you go around 11 or 12...when most have already had a few drinks

that way, getting to know new faces isn't as awkward...you just join in the fun, and before you know it, you'll get to know a ton more people

...and meeting more people means more party-hopping.

just get to know people...that's key.



oh, and one other thing...sometimes we went to the store and bought some yinlings or budwiser and brought it to the party with us...it's a nice gesture, and people don't see you as a cheap person just trying to get into a party...you establish some respect that way

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by medjaun
Anybody here crash parties at a college you don't attend? Looking for some tips to get in.

at UT they are very tough at the door. They will have 2 hired bouncers and 2 frat dudes. If the frat dudes dont know you/you arent on a list/you dont know ANYONE inside you most likely wont get in... but i have.

You have to make **** up.
For example, "hey guys whats up"
frat dudes- "who do you know here?"
me- i try to overhear some dudes name in the frat, peek at the list to say im xyz, say im rushing. If that doesnt work ill try to sneak in. Once your in no one gives a **** about who you are, they assume you know someone. Also, dont go with a bunch of guys, its better to go with a bunch of girls but sometimes that doesnt even work. If you look young and its rush season (they are trying to recruit new freshman to join) say this gem"
"I'm looking to rush. I've already checked out xyz frats and they were alright. Yesterday some girls i know told me they wre coming tonight and I should check this frat out b/c its supposed to be the best." that has worked before

sometimes it wont work, other times it wont, but its so dam worth it

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by exwhyzee
Wow WhiteHype Talking for less than a minute and making out with her??? Damn! These stories you tell are very helpful, sort of confidence boosters if you will, would you please tell some more of the examples of meeting various girls who you ended up hooking up with later? I am intresewted in hearing the one minute talk/make out...Thanks.

Ive actually had a lot of these and its not that uncommon... you will se when you go to parties at college... it gets crazier everytime b/c america is losing all their fvcking morals lol

for instance - i have made out hardcore with a girl on the dancefloor and suck my hand down her jeans and started fingering her (done this twice... stopped it b/c i felt really dirty when ppl starred at me)... ive also seen this happn... ive seen people ****ing at foam parties

as for my quick makeouts here are some that led to more:
1-
saw a girl walking down the street at like 12:30pm in west campus (area where all the college students live so theres always lots of people walking around). I sped walked up behind her and said something like this (this was in october i think... i wrote a FR on it but cant find it and i was buzzed).
me- hey where are you going so fast (she was walking kinda fast, arms crossed, kinda pissed off look on her face)
her- oh i just came from this party
me- oh yea which one
her - xyz
me- oh ****, were you there last night?
her- yea
me- no you werent... i didnt see you there
her- omg you wrere there?!?!
me- (i wasnt there at all but i knew there was a party the night before) yea i cant believe you didnt come and say hi
her- haha shut up
me- blah blah (cant remember what i said)
then i pulled this ****
me- so how are you at kissing, from 1-10 10 being the best ever
her- umm i dont know
me - tell me
her- about an 8 i guess
me- HAHAHA an 8? i doubt that... prove it
her- i cant i have a boy friend
me- um, i dont give a ****. When is the wedding?
her- oh we arent going to get married
me- oh so its not that serious then? *mischevious smile
her- well... *make out for like 1 min

then she did a werid thing... she like jogged off and didnt even give me the chance to get her # or take her home lol i think she realised what she did and didnt want to let herself get into more trouble... i was kinda shocked that **** worked so i didnt do anything to call her back


another time:

at a party, i was pretty drunk, towads the end of the party... i see a hb8.5 walking out with her friends (2 other girls, i dont remember)
i stop her... no i grabbed her haha and started talking to her, within like 3-5 mins i just asked her for her number since she said she was leaving and i got it... we later went to other parties together the following weeks, etc

immediately after that (2 mins) i see a hb7.5 by herself waiting looking as if she were waiting for a friend and i go up to her
me- heyyyy
her- heyy whats up?
me-blah blah (i had some weak game... i think i just said are you having a good time tonight, etc)
me- im tired of standing, lets go sit down on that bench
i sit her down (isolate) on a bench and ask about her tongue ring... i then say something like "wow thats awesome, did it hurt"
she "blah blah"
me- "how does it feel"
she- "huh?"
me- "can i kiss you" (AFC AS SH1T, lol, i know i know)
she "yeaaa"
that took about 2-3 mins
i then madeout with her for 1 min, stopped it, took her to the dance floor, made out for like 2 songs, take her to a friends room in the party and finish her, she became a fuk buddy easily (slutty) and was OBSESSED WITH ME (followed me around all the time, kept trying to hold my hand..), and i was the biggest jerk to her... ever... even one of her friends flicked me off at a party

the funny part to that was the room i took her too actually wasnt my friends room... i thought it was, but it turned out to be my pledge trainers room and I popped out to make sure everything was cool b/c i heard a lot of noise and like 15 people saw me naked and were like wtf are you doing in xyz's room? he will beat your ass if he sees you, id get the **** out of there... so i got dressed really fast and accidently put his shirt on and took the girl back to my place LOL

 

[jason86]

for starters it aint as easy as saing 'will you go out with me' with a reply of a simple 'yes' and the next thing you know youre exclusively girlfriend and boyfriend.

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Tight, that's perfect djing setting. There are no social circles, so no more "cool groups" and stuff.....

I disagree with this completely. Who you know in college is extremely important...It's how you get into parties, it's how you meet girls, it's how you build your reputation.

It may be correct to say that the boundaries of who is "cool" and who isn't are not as clear-cut as in high school. But don't be mistaken, college is not some utopia of social equality where there are no barriers and everyone gets along with everyone else. You still have your cool kids and losers.

I'd go as far to say that in college, social proof determines more than any other single factor whether or not you're getting laid.

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by jason86
for starters it aint as easy as saing 'will you go out with me' with a reply of a simple 'yes' and the next thing you know youre exclusively girlfriend and boyfriend.

yea in college everyone i know just gets a girl by approaching/meeting in social circle... hanging out (does not mean having to go eat dinner.. it can be as simple as coming over and watching a movie) a few times... then deciding if they like her or not the girl will usually ask "so what are we"

also, i woudlnt recommend dating unless you REALLY like the girl once you get to college... there will be so many hot chicks willing to hook up with you that dating would be a bad idea (you can really learn a lot about PUing in college too)

 

[Caldus]

I've always tried meeting girls at activity clubs on campus or in classes. Never worked well for me although I met some nice people. No action though. Heh. Of course I did all of this before coming to this site.

Any tips for getting more friends in college? I need some friends so I can figure out where parties are and ****. I've only been to like 2 parties my whole life.

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by Interpol
I disagree with this completely. Who you know in college is extremely important...It's how you get into parties, it's how you meet girls, it's how you build your reputation.

It may be correct to say that the boundaries of who is "cool" and who isn't are not as clear-cut as in high school. But don't be mistaken, college is not some utopia of social equality where there are no barriers and everyone gets along with everyone else. You still have your cool kids and losers.

I'd go as far to say that in college, social proof determines more than any other single factor whether or not you're getting laid.

correct, but when you first start out (freshman year) the social circles for freshman are basically non existant (unelss the people already knew eachother) so its really easy to meet new people starting out (b/c they dont know anyone and are happy to meet someone)... but if youre some dork they will stop hanging out with you lol

go out and befriend everyone

sorority girls are all about social proof.. i have heard where a girl wanted to hook up with a guy but her sorority sisters wouldnt let her b/c they didnt like him for some reason so she didnt.. can you believe that ****?
and ive seen guys with little game and arent attractive at all (overweight, decent face, dress like a frat guy) but they were in a frat, the center of attention, knew almost everyone, was funny/cool (but not good at pu'ing strangers) and HOT girls would hook up with him

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by white_hype
away from parents/responsibility, and everyone wants to drink and get crazy

wow thats perfect....NO resposablity....just drink and party hard huh? so how long do you think i can expect before i just fail all my classes?

You always have responsabilities and if you think you dont have them just because youre away from mommy and daddy youre an idiot.

 

[Finch]

I'm starting college in the fall. I'm excited because I'm staying in the dorms with my best friend, who happens to be an excellent DJ. So I know we'll be going to parties all the time and be meeting some awesome people. I'm not too worried about that aspect.

The only thing that I'm a little worried about is how college will affect my relationship with my current girlfriend. We've been going out for about 4 1/2 months now. We're doing completely awesome. I've DJed this girl to the maximum of my ability and she considers me the most amazing guy she's ever met. I wouldn't be worried at all because she's completely faithful and way into me. But I've heard so much about relationships getting broken up and ending, etc. I'm just a little worried about this because she's a gorgeous girl (HB8.5). The thing is she is such a good girlfriend to have: not a party girl (unless she's with me), usually is home at 10pm, living at home for the first year, I have several classes with her, etc. So I think things might be ok. Any tips to keep this thing going strong through college guys?

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by undesputable
wow thats perfect....NO resposablity....just drink and party hard huh? so how long do you think i can expect before i just fail all my classes?

You always have responsabilities and if you think you dont have them just because youre away from mommy and daddy youre an idiot.

thanks for picking out one part of all my replies especailly when i already covered this topic in them... on that list i said to make sure you take care of school first

AND YES a lot of these kids think they have no responsibilties and end up failing out, A LOT of them do this (I didn't i made good grades b/c i took care of it). YOu know what im trying to fvcking say... you are away from your parnets and on your own, of course you have responsibilties but some kids choose to ignore them and party all the time. I did not say for you to do this

you would probably fail all your classes anyways b/c you have the reading comprehension of a 5 year old

 

[Caldus]

College classes are easy as hell anyway. I have a 4.0 GPA and it's not like I busted my balls that much to get it. Of course I have no social life though. Just get good with time management and you're good to go in that aspect.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Tnx, I read everyone's replies, good crap. I have a vivid picture of college now. It seems as if I'm just friendly and conversate w/ someone whenever I get the chance I should be ok.

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Most people who go to college thinkings its all parties and sex are sadly mistaken.

While some schools are easy and some beginner classes can be easy too, the pattern generally seems to be that the ones who party from day 1 usually flunk out or drop out very quickly.