College Girls, any changes required?

[itishe]

After coming to a big college I'm noticing I'm in a different playing field when it comes to women. I come from a small town so perhaps my attitude is not suitable for a big city. Anywho my main concern is this, I've met alot of girls down here but I so far have not hung out 1-on-1 with a girl from here since I've been here for a week and a half.

I can meet them, get their numbers but I'm 0/2 or setting up dates with them as they do not answer nor call back, so would it be suitable to call atleast twice then give up if no reply?

I will get the hang of the college scene in time, but I'm going out and doing my part to meet people and get numbers but I seem to be making very little actual ground as in terms of getting far with the girls here.

PS I'm not a virgin, nor a complete loser.

 

[MikeYikes122]

In my experience, college girls aren't really interested in dates and dating - especially the freshmen. I didn't really go on many real dates in college. I'd hang out with girls, maybe go to a movie, study together or dinner or something, but never really did too much serious date-like activity. IMO, there was really no need to.

You say you're from a small town. The dating scene is probably a lot different at a big college, where people are less familiar with each other.

Mainly in college, I'd get girls phone numbers and meet up with them at parties or out at the bars. Never did I set up serious dates except to get together to study or something minor like that.

You really don't even have to get their numbers if you don't want to. Just get to know some girls in your classes or in your dorm and arrange to meet up with them at a party or something.

IMO, this site doesn't really give good advice to a guy who is in college - especially a big college. There's no need to cold approach in public at a big college because you can meet so many girls in your classes, in your dorm and through your friends. You should only really be cold approaching at parties or bars. I guess you could cold approach in public if you wanted, but I wouldn't go out of my way to do it because there are so many other ways to meet chicks - many of which lead to success much easier.

Nor should you be trying to set up serious dates right now - especially with freshmen girls. I think that's where you're going wrong. Meet some girls in your dorm or in your classes, get their numbers and hit them up on the weekend to see what parties they're going to. Build some rapport with them first in class or wherever it is you meet them. That should grease the wheels with them and help you pull off an ONS. ONS's are pretty easy to pull off in college if you have legit game. Just meet her in class or in your dorm, get to know her a little bit and build some attraction, then hit her up on the weekend when she is at a party. It's really that easy.

And when you start getting ONS's, it's pretty easy to turn those girls into FBs. If she slept with you once, chances are she'll sleep with you again.

 

[itishe]

I think I just got into the mindframe of this forum: meet girl, get number, screw girl.

I will tone down my drive for getting numbers and meeting girls cold and instead sort of let things come naturally such as meeting them in parties, etc.

While I do have a good success rate of getting numbers, some girls gave me a confused vibe when I asked or their number as i it's not natural in college.

thanks

 

[Relationship-Buddy]

Like it was said above, it is possible that less girls may be looking for dating opportunities in college in comparison to other times...

...or it could just be bad luck.

Try using a different communication medium (if you have been calling them, try using Facebook/Myspace as a contact point).

Good Luck,
Relationship-Buddy

 

[MikeYikes122]

Try using a different communication medium (if you have been calling them, try using Facebook/Myspace as a contact point).

Good Luck,
Relationship-Buddy

That's actually really good advice.

In my experience with college, the average girl's preferred form of communication is texting or instant messaging on AIM. Facebook messaging would probably work too.

Very rarely would I call a girl unless it was for a real date or something. If you're just trying to meet up at a party or something, text her. IMO, if you called her, you'd probably come on too strong or weird her out.

A lot of guys bag on texting on this site, but it's pretty useful and probably appropriate if you're just looking to meet up with a girl at a party or something.

 

[Young Juan]

After coming to a big college I'm noticing I'm in a different playing field when it comes to women. I come from a small town so perhaps my attitude is not suitable for a big city. Anywho my main concern is this, I've met alot of girls down here but I so far have not hung out 1-on-1 with a girl from here since I've been here for a week and a half.

I can meet them, get their numbers but I'm 0/2 or setting up dates with them as they do not answer nor call back, so would it be suitable to call atleast twice then give up if no reply?

I will get the hang of the college scene in time, but I'm going out and doing my part to meet people and get numbers but I seem to be making very little actual ground as in terms of getting far with the girls here.

PS I'm not a virgin, nor a complete loser.

I'm from Anchorage, Alaska, small enough town?
University of Arizona Grad, big enough school?

Really depends on where you get the number:

Party? I knew females that had straight rules e.g. don't call the guys you give your number too if you don't fvck em that same night, especially if they fvck a different guy that same night. The reasoning needs no explanation, simply critical thinking.

Class? I'd do lunch dates at the student union (go dutch) midweek and plan to pre-party at my or my friends' spot Friday night. Mad flirt while pregame drinking, go party like 7-10 deep, show her a good time but don't be a teatherball, meet & flirt w/ other girls but don't get their numbers, let her observe your social proof (if you have any so far), go back to my buddy's spot, night cap, hot tub/pool (should be down to 4-6 folks at most, same amount of broads as dudes), night cap, isolate, fvck.

Kino should be going on from the lunch date, so you should have a warm read on her interest level by now. Also, if she lets you do pretty much whatever with your hands (...please don't say please excuse my hands...) and doesn't get pissed (e.g. rub/grab/smack/carress her ass EVERY time you hug, hug her from the back and put her booty in your crotch, etc.) she's pretty much waiting for you to make a move so SHE can fvck YOU!

Does that answer your question sufficiently?

 

[Young Juan]

That's actually really good advice.

In my experience with college, the average girl's preferred form of communication is texting or instant messaging on AIM. Facebook messaging would probably work too.

Very rarely would I call a girl unless it was for a real date or something. If you're just trying to meet up at a party or something, text her. IMO, if you called her, you'd probably come on too strong or weird her out.

A lot of guys bag on texting on this site, but it's pretty useful and probably appropriate if you're just looking to meet up with a girl at a party or something.

I agree but say both is best.

I pulled broads off of facebook, and it was pretty much AIM, text, call for parking and for me to let you in the gate, bone.

Additionally, girls text all throughout class and go out almost every night, on my campus at least.

Basically, call a girl if you (for whatever reason) believe she may not know exactly who you are if you text her. If you believe she knows exactly who you are, exchange a couple texts that lead to a phone call.

My Humble Opinon

 

[handle]

College Texting: it's what people our age do these days. Vibe with it. Use it.

College Dating: nobody I knew in first year went on dates unless it was a creepy 3rd year trying to bang freshmen.

College Meeting: you'll meet girls pretty much everywhere with little effort. Just go about your business and keep your eyes open.

College Sex: happens often.