Suffice to say that I have done a slightly jerkish thing (not over the top though) and got the girl pissed. She began giving me the cold treatment: Not initiating contact with me, being polite but not giving away much information when talking to me.
I certainly do not want to reward her for her bad behavior, but if I don't do something nothing will get ahead. I've already ignored her for weeks already living my own life and it will continue that way if I don't do anything.
So what would you experienced people do in such a situation? Do you go soft and try to "let her win this", or would you just not do anything?
Yes I know the best thing to do is to next the girl and spin other plates, so please do not suggest that. That I am already doing but there are certainly some things I can do to make this one work out better.
I certainly do not want to reward her for her bad behavior, but if I don't do something nothing will get ahead. I've already ignored her for weeks already living my own life and it will continue that way if I don't do anything.
So what would you experienced people do in such a situation? Do you go soft and try to "let her win this", or would you just not do anything?
Yes I know the best thing to do is to next the girl and spin other plates, so please do not suggest that. That I am already doing but there are certainly some things I can do to make this one work out better.