Cold Pick-ups

HB_Hunter

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Hey guys , After alot of approaches , rejections and even picking up girls in a ladies night out , with their friends etc.... and getting to know other girls thru expanding my social circle , I've noticed that alot of the hb's , hottie chickittas especially in my country Egypt go for and like getting familizrized first through friends then getting hooked up gradually .


Not to say that Hot girls don't like Bold Men or getting hit all the time but You reach a point where you have build your reputation and these kinda of cold pick ups damages this and at times it seems that you are desperate or that good guys don't do this stuff . You with me guys ??

I've been approaching all thru this past 4-5 years plenty of girls anywhere , everywhere and nailing alot also . But these days , focusing on myself , having many other hobbies , improving myself , still approaching whoever i find hot but sometimes it just doesn't feel good , I was talking with this girl i know , telling her that i approached 2 girls once at da perfume store , they acted *****y at first but then everything was smooth but i didn't feel good , i felt like a stalker since alot of guys here approach girls the wrong way and girls just want them to go away . this friend i know was astonished when i told her that i went out with them the same day and had lots of fun as if this isn't right or something . That (she's so hot ) she wouldn't ever go for such guys (cold pickups i mean) .

I've always believed in getting girls thru 2 ways : first thru the social circles (sometimes they come so easily and there are plenty of them) the other way is the cold pickups , anywhere , everywhere if i want the girl and she does also . But mmm these days i don't know , i feel like im doing something wrong . What do you think guys ?? I want to listen to your opinion , i mean experienced guys with similar mindsets like squirrels , deep dish , mr. mystery ii , mind over matter , pook, george gordon , royal elite etc... i don't want any teenager since these days the site is full of them telling me that im afriad of rejection or bla bla bla , I've gone past this stage already .

My regards ,
 

Caldus

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I've always believed in getting girls thru 2 ways : first thru the social circles (sometimes they come so easily and there are plenty of them)
How do you guys start doing this? I mean you would have to meet women through cold pick-ups first would you not? So technically at some point you would have to cold approach women in order to start getting women through friends.

The_Shezzler, that was a good post about goals.
 

madgame

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How do you guys start doing this? I mean you would have to meet women through cold pick-ups first would you not? So technically at some point you would have to cold approach women in order to start getting women through friends.
Sometimes you just get to know girls in school or college or something or have a sister or a friend who's girl you know well... I got like 2 really good female friends, who are actually good-looking, but unfortunately THEIR friends are not good-looking..except for like one who's silly as hell though lol.

Seriously though, I don't think that there's anything wrong with doing a cold approach if you can do it right and don't use silly pick-up lines. Actually I think it rather shows that you're "a man" who's not afraid of doing it...however it might be looked upon differently in Egypt (I'm in germany).
 
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