Cold feet for tinder dates

Prodoge

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I have been on tinder for a couple of months now at first with little success.
Not so long ago i polished up my profile and getting about 5x as many matches.

However not having had tinder dates before i feel uncomfortable by thinking f meeting a complete stranger. Howcould i forget about that and just go out and have fun?
 

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Been there done that. It is all in your head dude. Now its the opposite, I sometimes get paired with girls that only just recently started using OLD and I can sense their uneasiness.

I have been in your shoes before, but it passed rather quickly. Before you go meet them listen to some cool tunes you like, that put you in a " I am gonna dominate the world " mood. Dress sharp so you feel good about yourself, the rest will just fall into place.
 

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Meeting strangers is part of life. Meeting women is part of life.

Man up.
 

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Tinder dates are mass amounts of dates at the swipe of a finger.
I don't even remember the amount of dates I have had with it.
Today I set up 2 dates with 2 different girls, one for Friday and one for Sunday.
My first date I was nervous as hell, but now it doesn't do much anymore, I just show up, if it doesn't work out I cut it short pay the bill and leave, delete number and forget about them.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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I have a question about Tinder, I just matched with this cute girl on Tinder who happens to be a friend of my sister. I have never met this girl, and i dont know if she is aware i am the brother of her friend, so should I just proceed like any other girl or after a couple of messages tell her something like I know you from somewhere?
 

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I have a question about Tinder, I just matched with this cute girl on Tinder who happens to be a friend of my sister. I have never met this girl, and i dont know if she is aware i am the brother of her friend, so should I just proceed like any other girl or after a couple of messages tell her something like I know you from somewhere?
Girls are weird. Is she an actual friend, or a keep-your-enemies-close friend?

If you can use it to your advantage, use it. If it would hurt, don't. Pretty simple.
 

Juanto

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Girls are weird. Is she an actual friend, or a keep-your-enemies-close friend?

If you can use it to your advantage, use it. If it would hurt, don't. Pretty simple.
They work together too, but to be honest I don't know how well they get along
 
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