Cold Approaching Tips/Closing with the #

[spiegel549]

I have been working on my cold approaching like crazy and I wanted to get some tips from those who are doing the same thing.

Approaching women in groups, randomly on the streets etc does not bother me. I have been doing a lot of shopping mall approaching recently and been getting GREAT feedback, big smiles, flirting back with me etc.

I keep hitting a bump in the road with closing with the number. I make a cold approach and what has worked for me so well is approaching in a confident cool tone of voice and saying "Hi how are you doing? You know you are really beautiful..theres something really unique about you, your more then just attractive..I'm Tom whats your name?"

9/10 I get a HUGE smile, they blush, say thank you and tell me there name. I then go into talking about whatever is around me or a store that they work at or something they are holding like a shopping bag etc.

I hold my own SOLID for 60 seconds and I just can't seem to fit in the number close.

Has anyone been doing this a lot recently? Whats a good way to close for the number?

I have tried "You know you should give me your number, so I can take you out sometime." That usually works, but I need some new angles.

Thanks!!

 

[PlayHer Man]

Well I usually do the "high pressure sale" tactic when I close for a number. At least when it comes to day game in malls, stores, on the street, etc. I usually say something like:

"Well, I gotta get going. Lets grab a drink (or coffee) some time soon. What's your number?"

Or this:

"Hey, why don't you give me your number. I need to get out of here, but I want to see you again."

Something like that. Always ask for the number right before you leave.

 

[yuppaz]

You can do that. I found that what worked well for me was to make a plan, get the number, then keep talking for a little while after. A good interaction was usually like 20 minutes. Talk about her