Boricua_33015
Master Don Juan
Hey, I've been at this school for about 2 months. The school is ghetto... the area is, and so most girls are "chongas" (snotty, loud az fuk latin b1tches with much lip and very high b1tch sheilds and LOVE drama since they watch all those spanish soap operas) and mostly the rest are ditzy and rarely sweet. (I am speaking of the good looking girls)
I have gotten myself acquainted to some people in my classes, but my lack of conversational skills, awkwardness and uncomfortableness have really limited what I could have done. I still keep my head up high and try not to worry if I think a conversation went well or not.... but really, not many at all have ever been really good.
So that leaves me with alot less than a desired number of acquaintances.. I haven't really made any connections through them because it is hard to find an oppurtunity to connect. I see a couple during lunch walking around and I say "wussup" to them and clap hands, but thats usually all I do. Only have about 3 girls I talk to during class. All 3 don't even look good. One of them is a short, loud chonga wit a big ass, bout a 6 in my book. 5 is average for me. I can tell she likes me but hardly speaks any english so I don't converse with her, just say "hey" to her when I see her. Another is one big and tall ass preppy woman, I think taller than me and I am 5'9, 5'10ish. She is a ditzy brunette. LOL. She looks all unsure of herself when she is with me. Another girl I know is just damn ugly, but I can tell she likes me.
During lunch I picked 2 places to stand or sit at by myself, but it is just way too uncomfortable. Especially when I see the same groups of people around the places I have been at alone. It makes me think that they wonder or talk about me thinking I am anti-social or something, especially the good looking girls. I would've liked to approach one girl I see everyday but since I did not approach her first before making the area she chills in my "spot" to chill by myself at, it would seem awkward if I do approach her now. It would make it seem like I hesitated.... but EVEN THOUGH I am in this situation, I still get a feeling that she at least thinks I am sexy, because she gets more... "alive" and more charismatic around mel. But I think her freinds either think I am a loser or think the same as her.... I just have't paid attention to any "gut" feelings I got from them, only her. I chill at a pretty big distance away from her. I just don't want to seem like I hesitated ALOT to approach her, and I did... but once I hesitate, I might as well not approach at all because girls can detect that, ESPECIALLY when that hesitation has been as long as maybe a whole damn month.
Now for the reason that I don't want the same people seeing me repeatedly at those places alone, I decided to start walking laps around the school like an idiot. Now everyday I do see some of my "acquaintances" around, but I always see them walking around to some place, or just walking around. I have only seen 2 GUYS around that sometimes stay in one place. One of them I have seen standing alone by himself during the morning, and I had a conversation with him that time, but now everytime I see him I get a feeling that he is highly uncomfortable or just doesn't want to talk to me or anyone. So I just say "wussup". The other guy that I've seen standing in one place I have said wussup to many times while passing by, but the first day of school coming back from the winter break I decided to spark up a conversation about the winter break. He is a pretty unsure guy, but he still talks to madd people. When I stayed for that short conversation he was talking to some girl and I said "so whose this?" and he introduced me, but I forgot her name instantly after the intro. Hey, the girl was fat and ugly! The conversation was short because I felt highly uncomfortable as I felt like I had interrupted what he and the girl had going, and plus at the time I did not know how to continue a convo. So after some short dialogue I said "well I'll ima leave now, I'll see you in class", and left.
That was my first and only ABLE attempt to make a connection.... it is just so damn hard to make connections with the so little people I know, PLUS during the mornings and the lunch period they are always walking somewhere. Perhaps to 1 of the 2 cafeteria's we have. Yea it's a big, but old school. So there is a new building which they just built for this year with a new cafeteria along with the old one in the old buildings. A new gymnasium is also being built.
The fun is not at all at the clubs or school activities. All the people hang out in clicks, they have guy clicks and girl clicks, and both. The fine chicks are more than willing to ****, but you gotta have status, and really good game. Plus, about half the people in the school or maybe more ONLY speak spanish, so that takes away a WHOLE lotta girls! and that's where all or most the fine b1tches at! The ones who only speak spanish are really... snotty, and loud.
So now that you are completely up to date with my school happenings, (and I congratulate you, and appreciate it you if I have gotten this far in this whole damn "essay") now hopefully you can give me feedback, perhaps some tips and/or suggestions that you think could help me.
I have decided that I NEEED to do some cold approaches if I want to get farther in this school. So please, if you know of any, sources that deal with Cold Approaches, please link them to me. You are also welcome to post any tips.
I have gotten myself acquainted to some people in my classes, but my lack of conversational skills, awkwardness and uncomfortableness have really limited what I could have done. I still keep my head up high and try not to worry if I think a conversation went well or not.... but really, not many at all have ever been really good.
So that leaves me with alot less than a desired number of acquaintances.. I haven't really made any connections through them because it is hard to find an oppurtunity to connect. I see a couple during lunch walking around and I say "wussup" to them and clap hands, but thats usually all I do. Only have about 3 girls I talk to during class. All 3 don't even look good. One of them is a short, loud chonga wit a big ass, bout a 6 in my book. 5 is average for me. I can tell she likes me but hardly speaks any english so I don't converse with her, just say "hey" to her when I see her. Another is one big and tall ass preppy woman, I think taller than me and I am 5'9, 5'10ish. She is a ditzy brunette. LOL. She looks all unsure of herself when she is with me. Another girl I know is just damn ugly, but I can tell she likes me.
During lunch I picked 2 places to stand or sit at by myself, but it is just way too uncomfortable. Especially when I see the same groups of people around the places I have been at alone. It makes me think that they wonder or talk about me thinking I am anti-social or something, especially the good looking girls. I would've liked to approach one girl I see everyday but since I did not approach her first before making the area she chills in my "spot" to chill by myself at, it would seem awkward if I do approach her now. It would make it seem like I hesitated.... but EVEN THOUGH I am in this situation, I still get a feeling that she at least thinks I am sexy, because she gets more... "alive" and more charismatic around mel. But I think her freinds either think I am a loser or think the same as her.... I just have't paid attention to any "gut" feelings I got from them, only her. I chill at a pretty big distance away from her. I just don't want to seem like I hesitated ALOT to approach her, and I did... but once I hesitate, I might as well not approach at all because girls can detect that, ESPECIALLY when that hesitation has been as long as maybe a whole damn month.
Now for the reason that I don't want the same people seeing me repeatedly at those places alone, I decided to start walking laps around the school like an idiot. Now everyday I do see some of my "acquaintances" around, but I always see them walking around to some place, or just walking around. I have only seen 2 GUYS around that sometimes stay in one place. One of them I have seen standing alone by himself during the morning, and I had a conversation with him that time, but now everytime I see him I get a feeling that he is highly uncomfortable or just doesn't want to talk to me or anyone. So I just say "wussup". The other guy that I've seen standing in one place I have said wussup to many times while passing by, but the first day of school coming back from the winter break I decided to spark up a conversation about the winter break. He is a pretty unsure guy, but he still talks to madd people. When I stayed for that short conversation he was talking to some girl and I said "so whose this?" and he introduced me, but I forgot her name instantly after the intro. Hey, the girl was fat and ugly! The conversation was short because I felt highly uncomfortable as I felt like I had interrupted what he and the girl had going, and plus at the time I did not know how to continue a convo. So after some short dialogue I said "well I'll ima leave now, I'll see you in class", and left.
That was my first and only ABLE attempt to make a connection.... it is just so damn hard to make connections with the so little people I know, PLUS during the mornings and the lunch period they are always walking somewhere. Perhaps to 1 of the 2 cafeteria's we have. Yea it's a big, but old school. So there is a new building which they just built for this year with a new cafeteria along with the old one in the old buildings. A new gymnasium is also being built.
The fun is not at all at the clubs or school activities. All the people hang out in clicks, they have guy clicks and girl clicks, and both. The fine chicks are more than willing to ****, but you gotta have status, and really good game. Plus, about half the people in the school or maybe more ONLY speak spanish, so that takes away a WHOLE lotta girls! and that's where all or most the fine b1tches at! The ones who only speak spanish are really... snotty, and loud.
So now that you are completely up to date with my school happenings, (and I congratulate you, and appreciate it you if I have gotten this far in this whole damn "essay") now hopefully you can give me feedback, perhaps some tips and/or suggestions that you think could help me.
I have decided that I NEEED to do some cold approaches if I want to get farther in this school. So please, if you know of any, sources that deal with Cold Approaches, please link them to me. You are also welcome to post any tips.
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