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I, like most guys, enjoy casual sex without commitment.

That being said, I never tricked a girl into thinking she was getting into a relationship just to fvck her once or twice before ghosting her.

It's not that I care about her feelings. It has nothing to do with "giving zero fvcks about her or a thousand guys" once she becomes jaded...

It's about ethical standards you have for yourself that you refuse to compromise just because you're horny and can't get laid without deception.

I wouldn't be okay with someone using deception to take advantage of my daughter, sister, or mother.... even if that person considered one of them slvt. Not trying to virtue signal but to me it's about common sense and not being hypocritical.

This of course is just my personal perspective.

If you need to use conscious deception to give into a biological urge, go for it, to each their own.
 

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Welcome to the club,read the dj bible.
I'm not in a club. I just want sex. Old guys must be lying when they say high school girls are easy, that or they're still stuck in 1984. :(
 

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I'm not in a club. I just want sex. Old guys must be lying when they say high school girls are easy, that or they're still stuck in 1984. :(
They say it's "easy" because your mindset and perspectives change as you age. It's kind of like a "if I knew then what I know now" type of thing. I'm 23, but if I knew in high school what I know now, things would have went a lot different when I was in my mid-teens.
 

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With that attitude, you're right.
I'm not an adult I can't go to the bar when I want quick sex. Girls dress all revealing but don't want sex and it confuses the **** outta me. Either way tomorrow I wake up I'll still be a virgin and the next day and the next day.
 

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Society doesn't give a **** about a horny guy. But for girls that like sex there's dozens of guys willing to **** her.
 

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I, like most guys, enjoy casual sex without commitment.

That being said, I never tricked a girl into thinking she was getting into a relationship just to fvck her once or twice before ghosting her.

It's not that I care about her feelings. It has nothing to do with "giving zero fvcks about her or a thousand guys" once she becomes jaded...

It's about ethical standards you have for yourself that you refuse to compromise just because you're horny and can't get laid without deception.

I wouldn't be okay with someone using deception to take advantage of my daughter, sister, or mother.... even if that person considered one of them slvt. Not trying to virtue signal but to me it's about common sense and not being hypocritical.

This of course is just my personal perspective.

If you need to use conscious deception to give into a biological urge, go for it, to each their own.
To each thier own i guess. But imo my needs are above hers,if she wants it casual thats so fine by me,but if shewanted an rl illlet her hear what she wants to hear.
 

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I'm not an adult I can't go to the bar when I want quick sex. Girls dress all revealing but don't want sex and it confuses the **** outta me. Either way tomorrow I wake up I'll still be a virgin and the next day and the next day.
Fine why are you here then? There is no quick sex tips here
 

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To each thier own i guess. But imo my needs are above hers,if she wants it casual thats so fine by me,but if shewanted an rl illlet her hear what she wants to hear.
I agree you should always put your needs and wants first, unless you have children. There's kind of a grey area here though. If a woman doesn't mention a relationship or exclusivity and it escalates to sex, I see nothing wrong with that. If she has an issue with it afterwards, that's her problem for not asserting herself.

But if she clearly asserts up front that she is only interested in a relationship or she states having sex means a relationship (and you don't speak up and refuse exclusivity), is when it's an issue to me. I wouldn't want people wasting my time so I wouldn't go out of my way to waste theirs.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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What are you guys opening with in day game?
 

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It's not that great. Choking the chicken, feels better.
 

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I know I'm just a "kid" even though I'm almost 18 in a year. But I just want to **** a girl. How is it so hard?
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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I know I'm just a "kid" even though I'm almost 18 in a year. But I just want to **** a girl. How is it so hard?
It's hard because desparation is a stinky cologne.

If you are still in high school try to hang out with reasonably good looking women. Try to meet up with where alcohol is involved. The one caveat is to watch yourself with a girl who is so inebriated that she can't make legal decision. Buzzed is the ideal.

Most girls in high school want to pop their cherry and yes they attach some bull**** romantic Disney notion to having sex that her 1st will be her last yadda yadda.

Look for girls that are outside the popular group.
 

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Just the standard London daygame "you look nice" probably 90% of the time.

I briefly tried indirect, functional, and other types of opener. But personally prefer a sort of soft-direct approach. (No "you are fvcking sexy" sort of stuff).

A set:

Me: [stopped] Excuse me. I just saw you over there, and I had to say that I thought you looked really nice.

Her: Oh, thanks.

Me: I like your red leather jacket. It reminds me of the Micheal Jackson video "Thriller".

Her: I haven't seen it.

Me: [acting shocked]. What?! How on earth have you not seen that? You seriously haven't seen Micheal Jackson's "Thriller" before?

etc etc.

The shock was legitimate. There are actually people in the world who haven't seen that video. Even had a girlfriend that hadn't seen "Star Wars" too. I don't know what the fvck is wrong with some people.

Do you have any good tested cold reads/assumption stories?
 
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