Cold approaches are not whoa.

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Tha Realnezz

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I took a few months of from looking for new women seeing as have 2 on my ass..lol.Now I get back to my hustle and I just can't do it.

Cold approaches are not whoa.

Obviously girls who give you the signals want you to approach them but IMO it's such a waste of time.It's the same thing with the clubs.It's all about looks & drinks to them.It's too deep in their court for my tastes.

The slighest glance from her girlfreinds will kill your chances.There's no way you can get out of buying drinks either regardless of what main page says no one is that smooth.

I don't see women buying strange men drinks either.At least I haven't seen it done yet,have you?Maybe I'm going to the wrong clubs.

But with women on the street it's even worse cuz their apprahensive and nervous it just throws me off.

When women give you signals -it's all good.It's not even a cold approach.There's almost no way you can fvck that up.

So what I'll try to do from now on is throw my signals out there and keep on scanning the area for roaming eyes cuz that "What do you study" sh!t is giving me an ulcer.

To me that and getting hooked up through other females is where the money is.Better results and less bullsh!t.

I don't need the ego-trip & subsequent madness of hunting down women.I'm thinking alot of the frustration in this site comes from that -chasing down alot of girls at one time.

Maybe i'm getting old but just throw me 2 hoes at a time and I'm good.If players are defined by quantity over quality then don't call me a player.Call me The Yeti or something cuz i'm not doing that bullsh!t anymore.

I know in my heart I can slay anybody with the cold-approaches but it's all an ego-trip cuz the girls you PU off the street bring even more bull**** with them.

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You don't see girls buying STRANGE guys drinks because the ones they DO buy drinks for have established rapport. You think to yourself, "Damn, she must know him OUTSIDE the club. He could NEVER have gamed her like that!"

Commonly, though, you can't get away with getting drunk on a girl's budget. That's called "being a bum." The drink is a token.

What's awesome is when instead of buying a drink, she flirts with the bartender to get you one. Then BOTH of you get off scott-free. :D
 

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There is still no excuse for having to buy her a drink. Try either: confronting her about it in a C+F way or simply saying "i don't need to buy girls drinks" or just walk away... i don't have the kind of money to keep buying drinks, especially as it NEVER really helps your chances (submission at a bar is death).

Just my two cents, read the article on the first page to hear it explained better.
 

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Hey Tha Realnezz,

Action cures fear man, read my post titled Pug's 100 posts journal,

I am going up to chicks, with no EC, no IOI's, and no rapport and getting numbers and man it feels awesome breaking down walls in your mind and destroying fears, check out my post maybe something like what im doing will get your head back in the saddle.


Pugs
 

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No way I do approaches without eye-contact.


But I do not fear cold-approaches they just seem completley useless to me.When a girl gives you the signal then it's not really a cold approach.

Like I said I haven't seen a guy get a girl to buy him drinks.It just smells like bs to me.


I'd rather pace myself.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I took a few months of from looking for new women seeing as have 2 on my ass..lol.Now I get back to my hustle and I just can't do it.

Cold approaches are not whoa.

Obviously girls who give you the signals want you to approach them but IMO it's such a waste of time.It's the same thing with the clubs.It's all about looks & drinks to them.It's too deep in their court for my tastes.

The slighest glance from her girlfreinds will kill your chances.There's no way you can get out of buying drinks either regardless of what main page says no one is that smooth.

I don't see women buying strange men drinks either.At least I haven't seen it done yet,have you?Maybe I'm going to the wrong clubs.

But with women on the street it's even worse cuz their apprahensive and nervous it just throws me off.

When women give you signals -it's all good.It's not even a cold approach.There's almost no way you can fvck that up.

So what I'll try to do from now on is throw my signals out there and keep on scanning the area for roaming eyes cuz that "What do you study" sh!t is giving me an ulcer.

To me that and getting hooked up through other females is where the money is.Better results and less bullsh!t.

I don't need the ego-trip & subsequent madness of hunting down women.I'm thinking alot of the frustration in this site comes from that -chasing down alot of girls at one time.

Maybe i'm getting old but just throw me 2 hoes at a time and I'm good.If players are defined by quantity over quality then don't call me a player.Call me The Yeti or something cuz i'm not doing that bullsh!t anymore.

I know in my heart I can slay anybody with the cold-approaches but it's all an ego-trip cuz the girls you PU off the street bring even more bull**** with them.

:eek:

"Fear me,fear this post".-Tha Realness.
I hate to disagree with ya real. But I am that smooth. I do not buy women drinks and I've even had them buy me drinks.

I don't approach unless they look.

I don't ask em to dance, I take em to the floor.

I don't lie about my game either. If you ever get to Sacramento I'd be happy to show you proof...or anyone else on this board.

But I do agree with cold approaches. If a girl isn't showing signs of interest to me then I usually 99% of the time will not waste my time.

When I say signs of interest I'm not talking about strong signs either. After all this time running my game on women I can spot the slightest signs.

So what I will do is fan it by approaching and having convo with em. I can turn a spark into a flame.

I realize this sounds egotistical but my proof is in the pudding...and my pudding is 12 deep now. 12 women whom I can call up and have em come over to my place or go to theres.

12 women who will fix me dinner at a moments notice:

**
Do you still want dinner baby? I miss you baby.... I can't stop thinking about you!!!! I can't stop smiling!!!!

**

DINNER WILL BE READY AT 8:00. (I am going to take a nap when I get home...I am soooo sleepy!...I wonder why...<giggle> )

****

As far as bullshyt from girls...I think real cause I'm older and I now ONLY date older women I don't have to deal with bullshyt.

I feel for you young heads and these young scampies your dealin with.
 

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Player_Supreme,


You say you have 12 deep, but out of the 12 how many are hb8, hb9???

I can have 24,36,48 deep, but if their not hb8 hb9 their not worth claiming.
 
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Originally posted by Dillinger
Player_Supreme,


You say you have 12 deep, but out of the 12 how many are hb8, hb9???

I can have 24,36,48 deep, but if their not hb8 hb9 their not worth claiming.
And what do you call a 8 or 9? A skinny flat assed ho with implants?

I call these worthy of my ****:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v487/Player_Supreme/Val.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v487/Player_Supreme/hot.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v487/Player_Supreme/shannie.jpg

You guys are into skinny boy looking girls with garish makeup. I like em shapely I call em 7 8 and 9's.

I've dated your versions of 9's and 10's. My last long term was a :


Hold your seat now:

M.A.C. cosmetics rep. Now if you know anything about fine women then you will know that all of the finest women aspire to work for this company. They only hire the dimes (10's).

I hated being with her starving ass. I wanted to throw her a big mac so bad. You woulda fell down quacking like a biblical prophet if she had just smiled at ya.

I threw her away and cheated like crazy on her.

My throw aways are your dimes kid.

Of the 12 I would say 5 are strong 8's by your standards

1 is about a 8.5 or 9 she does good makeup and boosts up to 9 ish.

the rest are 7's.

does that answer your question?

Lastly your system of numbering sucks cause it's all individual. One of the mods posted some photo's of what he thought were dimes and I woulda given em 7's.

And give me a hard working 7 or 8 and I'm good. I've done the 10's and most of em are not worth MY time. Too hung up on their looks if they eat a meal they feel fat and don't wanna fvck...

Try dating one and you will find this truth out. When your game gets good enough to catch one let a fella know aight!
 

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Originally posted by Dillinger
Player_Supreme,


You say you have 12 deep, but out of the 12 how many are hb8, hb9???

I can have 24,36,48 deep, but if their not hb8 hb9 their not worth claiming.
Oh Dilly, I forgot. If I say I have something you should know by now that I do not lie about my game. I've proven my shyt on this forum as you well know.

I have 12 but not for long as I've posted the scheduling is crazy. I will hit 2 a day for a few days then take a break.

In about 15 minutes my ex tanya is coming over. at 1pm I will be at one of the new ones Julies place.

then tonight I'm going to the portuguese girls jovina's crib

that's how I roll. never mind the your 45 comments pal.

have a nice day.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz


The slighest glance from her girlfreinds will kill your chances.
How so? What do you mean by this?
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz

I don't see women buying strange men drinks either.At least I haven't seen it done yet,have you?

To me that and getting hooked up through other females is where the money is.Better results and less bullsh!t.

I don't need the ego-trip & subsequent madness of hunting down women.I'm thinking alot of the frustration in this site comes from that -chasing down alot of girls at one time.
Of course it is more efficient to do it "warm". Doing cold apporaches is more a psychological thing. I see it as a game.
Women do not have to buy you drinks,just buy your drink and let her buy hers. It is totally ok.
 

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Re: Re: Cold approaches are not whoa.

Originally posted by Fatality
How so? What do you mean by this?
Her freinds will always sh!t on you when you're not around.No matter what.

Especially at a club or at a party.Do you have any idea how many time i've been called "ugly" by a chic's freind only when I had her on my nuts just 5 minutes ago at another party?

I've had chics call me from across the room just to send me packing cuz one of them said I "looked bored so I can leave now".

It's completley ridicolous and the more attractive you are the worse you are off with their freinds.

I just speak with them when I have to.I don't even try to win the friends over cuz it's pointless.
 

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Re: Re: Cold approaches are not whoa.

Originally posted by smooth666
Of course it is more efficient to do it "warm". Doing cold apporaches is more a psychological thing. I see it as a game.
Women do not have to buy you drinks,just buy your drink and let her buy hers. It is totally ok.
No,I never said I wanted them to buy me drinks.I just used that as an example.

I haven't seen it done-but whatver.

I'm just so not into walking up to strange woman right now.I'm only working with 2 on a full-time basis.

But doing c.a.'s is so pointless.The women I'be pu'd like that are always head-cases and give me the run-around.

So unless the girl looks extra-thick i'm not jumping the gun without getting signals.
 

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Re: Re: Cold approaches are not whoa.

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
But I do agree with cold approaches. If a girl isn't showing signs of interest to me then I usually 99% of the time will not waste my time.

That's exactly what I'm saying.I just wanna go after the ones who either :

a.Give me signals.

b.Seriously grab my attention.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Cold approaches are not whoa.

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
That's exactly what I'm saying.I just wanna go after the ones who either :

a.Give me signals.

b.Seriously grab my attention.
Oh yeah I realized that after I had posted. I read the end of your post and saw where you were comin from.

The first part was kinda confusing to me, so I wanted to respond while the thoughts were in my head.

Sorry Real.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Cold approaches are not whoa.

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz

But doing c.a.'s is so pointless.The women I'be pu'd like that are always head-cases and give me the run-around.
But this is part of the game. The more you practice the more YOU become the player they become your game.
 

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Gals buy me drinks

Happens pretty often. And most of the gals I've gone out with I've met in clubs. Usually live band shows, but clubs nonetheless.

But I do get eye contact before making an approach almost always.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
And what do you call a 8 or 9? A skinny flat assed ho with implants?

I call these worthy of my ****:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v487/Player_Supreme/Val.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v487/Player_Supreme/hot.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v487/Player_Supreme/shannie.jpg

You guys are into skinny boy looking girls with garish makeup. I like em shapely I call em 7 8 and 9's.

I've dated your versions of 9's and 10's. My last long term was a :


Hold your seat now:

M.A.C. cosmetics rep. Now if you know anything about fine women then you will know that all of the finest women aspire to work for this company. They only hire the dimes (10's).

I hated being with her starving ass. I wanted to throw her a big mac so bad. You woulda fell down quacking like a biblical prophet if she had just smiled at ya.

I threw her away and cheated like crazy on her.

My throw aways are your dimes kid.

Of the 12 I would say 5 are strong 8's by your standards

1 is about a 8.5 or 9 she does good makeup and boosts up to 9 ish.

the rest are 7's.

does that answer your question?

Lastly your system of numbering sucks cause it's all individual. One of the mods posted some photo's of what he thought were dimes and I woulda given em 7's.

And give me a hard working 7 or 8 and I'm good. I've done the 10's and most of em are not worth MY time. Too hung up on their looks if they eat a meal they feel fat and don't wanna fvck...

Try dating one and you will find this truth out. When your game gets good enough to catch one let a fella know aight!
How do you know I like skinny azz white women? I have never dated, slept or thought about sleeping with a white woman. I don't like barbie's their fake, like some playa's.

I don't need to brag on a fourm about how many chicks I bang a night, or how many I can get. But the truth be known, I can get more women than you could ever get. That's my word.

Because the woman I got at home she is the closet to a 10 I have ever seen. She's everything I ever wanted in a woman, so i acted like a man and commited the rest of my life to her.

Playa I'm a lot younger than you, It's time to grow up. Banging one chick after another, reminds me of after I graduated college. On the real it's time to be smart, there's diseases out their that will kill you. Don't think some of these chicks are not fvcking around on you.
 
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im wondering, are u truely dj if u gotta prove u can get 12 women, or that u got a perfect ltr women for you, on a forum?
 

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