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The "in and out" method is, treat every cold approach like a bank robbery...but instead of trying to obtain money, you are trying to obtain phone numbers.

Bank robbers dont have time to go in there and perform magical tricks. No, they are in and out.

In: Identify your target, get in there (approach her).

Out: Start with a compliment, ask for her number...get the number..and be OUT (part ways).

It should take no more than a minute.

Me: You cute. Are you single?

Her: I sure am.

Me: Bet. May I have your number...maybe I can treat you to dinner/movie?

Her: Ummm. Sure..

*I pulls out phone*

Me: Drop it on me

Her: 123-456-7891

Me: Gotchaaaa. Are you more of a talker or texter?

Her: Either one is fine with me.

*I begin to walk backwards*

Me: Aight cool, I will hit you up later. Have a good one, aight.

Her: You too.

Me: Later.

In and out.

Your boldness, swagger, confidence, and physical frame is ALL she needs to notice about you at this time...that should be enough to get you in and out.

You are supposed to be in and out so quick and so SMOOTH...she wont even know what hit her.

But she will be intrigued and impressed. But you gotta be smooth with it...give her something to be intrigued about.

Remember, she aint getting approached like that on a regular basis, so this is new territory for her..so that ALONE makes you stand out to her, for the better.

It workssss.
You offer to treat them to dinner or a movie? C'mon man...you can't be serious with this...might as well just beg them to "please please please go out with me" too while you are at it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You offer to treat them to dinner or a movie?
Because I actually like going out with women, and having a good time.

Plus, there are some stuff that will go on before we even get to the date, which I haven't even shared yet.

So calm yo mf'n nerves, and fall back.

C'mon man...you can't be serious with this
I am.

...might as well just beg them to "please please please go out with me" too while you are at it.
I might as well do exactly what I've been doing.

Thanks for your advice, although it was not needed. I got a pretty good handle on these sort of things, you know, sh!t that has already been proven to work and will continue to work.
 

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Because I actually like going out with women, and having a good time.

Plus, there are some stuff that will go on before we even get to the date, which I haven't even shared yet.

So calm yo mf'n nerves, and fall back.



I am.



I might as well do exactly what I've been doing.

Thanks for your advice, although it was not needed. I got a pretty good handle on these sort of things, you know, sh!t that has already been proven to work and will continue to work.
If wasting time and money on random women is your thing then you do you. Would highly suggest most others stick to drinks or other things you can bounce on quickly if you aren't into them.
 

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If wasting time and money on random women is your thing then you do you.
I do not waste time and money, sorry, you got the wrong guy.

Would highly suggest most others stick to drinks or other things you can bounce on quickly if you aren't into them.
The fact that I approached them to talk to them would suggest that I am "into them". If I'm not into them, then I do not approach.

Plain and simple, ain't it?
 
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