Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
There's a lot of talk here about cold approaches. The concept behind this post is to get people to think about the dynamics of the whole thing -- so you your "approach dynamics" become second nature, and don't get to thinking of it when you do approach a gal.
What I'm wondering is how much has come out of cold approaches for you guys. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
I'm talking real cold approaches, where you're attracted to a gal, and approach her without either of you sending any sort of signals, such as eye contact, a smile, or certainly not eye contact with a smile.
Anybody have anything really good come out of such cold approaches?
I rarely have, except in cases where a gal I'd not paid attention to pproached me. It's become second nature for me to engage the gal nonverbally first, before I approach.
What I'm wondering is how much has come out of cold approaches for you guys. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
I'm talking real cold approaches, where you're attracted to a gal, and approach her without either of you sending any sort of signals, such as eye contact, a smile, or certainly not eye contact with a smile.
Anybody have anything really good come out of such cold approaches?
I rarely have, except in cases where a gal I'd not paid attention to pproached me. It's become second nature for me to engage the gal nonverbally first, before I approach.