Cold Approach - Never Realized How Hard This Would Be

[devilkingx2]

I'd figure the fact that many of the boys don't know if the girls will accept or reject their proposition to go to prom makes it cold approach.

I think it only counts as cold approaching if the girl you're asking to prom is one you barely/don't know. Most of the girls who go to the same school as you wouldn't count unless you had never talked to them before.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yea, most pee down their leg that the thought of it. Most have Oneitis and won't attempt to go after another until the totally bomb out on the one they are drooling over. They might approach 5 a year if they are lucky. 2000? Not happening, or they have a very very "loose" definition of what a Cold Approach is. Then to have 2000 and have 0 results,...how woefully bad at it are they???

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PRW mate, I have had nights where I pulled from go or burned through fifty or a hundred in a night. Running through the bar or club with the ****ing flame thrower. 2000 on a year isn't impossible but I 100% agree with you, less than 1% are putting in even a fraction of that volume. I can't say I've put in that volume since the pandemic. Bars snd clubs have been closed.

How has your experience been with approaching since the pandemic? Since wave1 to now, women are 100% much more open then before. This doesn't negate the absurd volume necessary to learn game, acquire skill, and success.

 

[momentomori]

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PRW mate, I have had nights where I pulled from go or burned through fifty or a hundred in a night. Running through the bar or club with the ****ing flame thrower. 2000 on a year isn't impossible but I 100% agree with you, less than 1% are putting in even a fraction of that volume. I can't say I've put in that volume since the pandemic. Bars snd clubs have been closed.

How has your experience been with approaching since the pandemic? Since wave1 to now, women are 100% much more open then before. This doesn't negate the absurd volume necessary to learn game, acquire skill, and success.

I assume your asking me, since PRW doesn't even approach, but likes to dole out advice. JK!

I started approaching during the pandemic. I've noticed very little change in terms of women's receptiveness, which is generally speaking, low regardless. However, what has improved are the volume of people who are out, which has increased my volume of approaches, which has lead to more numbers and dates. On the negative side, its more of a pain in the ass to go out as traffic has gotten worse.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I assume your asking me, since PRW doesn't even approach, but likes to dole out advice. JK!

I started approaching during the pandemic. I've noticed very little change in terms of women's receptiveness, which is generally speaking, low regardless. However, what has improved are the volume of people who are out, which has increased my volume of approaches, which has lead to more numbers and dates. On the negative side, its more of a pain in the ass to go out as traffic has gotten worse.

It's much better now. If you were running a YouTube channel on approaching or even street interviews in wave1, you were lucky to catch tumbleweed. It wasn't to say you can't. It's your say the lack of volume available compounded by the pickup barrier to success in general was less than spectacular. I picked up in wave1 but the only positive was that only dtf girls were reciprocating to advances. Some of the most busy places in the world were dead. Game is easy to standout when most guys don't run game. Don't approach. Can't pull. The biggest critique is that most men are in spectator mode, beer on chest in a pub or bar and binging YouTube boomer pods not getting girls. Ironically enough, the gurus most men have don't get girls. There's a lack of masculinity in the world today. The past two years of absolute stupidity could have only occurred in a Era of low T. There's nothing more masculine then going out on your shield, shooting your shot, and letting the chips fall where they may. Almost nobody does this. This is the competition. Lulz!

 

[SW15]

Game is easy to standout when most guys don't run game. Don't approach. Can't pull. The biggest critique is that most men are in spectator mode, beer on chest in a pub or bar and binging YouTube boomer pods not getting girls. Ironically enough, the gurus most men have don't get girls. There's a lack of masculinity in the world today. The past two years of absolute stupidity could have only occurred in a Era of low T. There's nothing more masculine then going out on your shield, shooting your shot, and letting the chips fall where they may. Almost nobody does this. This is the competition. Lulz!

Cold approach was difficult 30 years ago before you and I hit puberty. 30 years ago, when dating websites and swipe apps did not exist, cold approaching difficult. Even in the 1980s and early 1990s, more men relied on their social circles. Some were doing approaches at bars. Dating websites and swipe apps wouldn't have existed if cold approach were something that was easy to do. They were invented because men were struggling with approaching in the 1980s and early 1990s.

There is a lot of male competition now. Every woman has a huge swipe queue and her social media DMs are filled. It's rare to see a woman now with an empty penis pipeline.

 

[MatureDJ]

You can't just approach women, you have to look good and approach women.....

If your not all that handsome/attractive then aim lower until you get more confident and comfortable with your approaches......

Cold Approaching is bread and butter, but it's not for the weak. Your success rate is a reflection of your SMV, Simple.

So I guess you're saying that men that are sub-5'8" should mack fat chicks?

 

[MatureDJ]

Here's an approach that I had heard a Ukrainian man (in Russian of course) use years ago:

When I first saw you, it moved

 

[MatureDJ]

It is a tough mating environment when a guy whose photos rate 8.5 has the problems you have or a 6'4" man with big muscles gets rejected regularly.

It's OVER for 76InchBigMuscleCels.

 

[MatureDJ]

Male Thirst acceleration.

Dudes are so thirsty now, because of this mass approaching both online and offline. It’s accelerated female hostility, accelerated reflexive rejection, accelerating male thirst in turn. Prior to swipe apps, socialcircles were smaller, women’s prospective pool was smaller, this made women easier. This in turn made dudes less thirsty. Society was healthier overall. Dudes didn’t feel like they needed to do 2000 approaches (which I think is a mental illness inducing amount of rejection, and simultaneously fvcking up the market. No guy should be spamming like that).

i’d describe what we have now as an absolute feeding frenzy. The Simp/Thirst Economy.

True Forced Loneliness prophet "Roller" Steve Hoca has discussed this; he basically said that the horrific dating environment is making every poonless man look at other man with suspicion as thieves of the poon he wants to get - especially for men that are not in the social group. It really is a dog-eat-dog mating war - evolutionarily not unlike mortal combat.

It's OVER for MaleThirstAccelerationCels.

 

[MatureDJ]

I'm 1 for about 47.

You must keep good records.

 

[MatureDJ]

Where do you find the time to approach 2000 women if you have a good job?

It means the only things in his life are his job, his approaches, and the comradery of SoSuave.

 

[MatureDJ]

Herein lies the best argument to enjoy the decline. To sit back and watch the world burn as you PILLAGE whatever the duck you can. I do that. More recently, I think the new way forward is to get up and go. There's better cultures, lower taxes, and FEMININITY ELSEWHERE. Similar to individual sovereignty and freedom, it is nonexistent in many but NOT ALL PLACES. Similarly, globalism and modern women reside in most of the western world BUT NOT EVERYWHERE.

But what if the places with better culture & feminity are watching their REAL WORLD get burned & pillaged?

 

[MatureDJ]

Couldn't it be argued that boys asking girls to prom is considered cold approach and has been done for decades.

This reminds me of asking a chick out for a homecoming dance (I was at an Incel-factory all-boys high school - very similar to the one that Supreme Court Justice "Kegger" Kavanaugh went to ) - a chick that got a few of my teachers to say I have great taste in women . Anyway, this chick must have had 10 pictures of other school dances (at similar rival school) on her vanity (of course, every one of them taller than me ), so it was OVER even though she said yes to my invitation; that said, I don't think any of them facemogged me.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Cold approach was difficult 30 years ago before you and I hit puberty. 30 years ago, when dating websites and swipe apps did not exist, cold approaching difficult. Even in the 1980s and early 1990s, more men relied on their social circles. Some were doing approaches at bars. Dating websites and swipe apps wouldn't have existed if cold approach were something that was easy to do. They were invented because men were struggling with approaching in the 1980s and early 1990s.

There is a lot of male competition now. Every woman has a huge swipe queue and her social media DMs are filled. It's rare to see a woman now with an empty penis pipeline.

Actual competition vs orbiters. Dorks in her DMs left on unread. I hear you. Let's be real. Women don't acknowledge them.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

True Forced Loneliness prophet "Roller" Steve Hoca has discussed this; he basically said that the horrific dating environment is making every poonless man look at other man with suspicion as thieves of the poon he wants to get - especially for men that are not in the social group. It really is a dog-eat-dog mating war - evolutionarily not unlike mortal combat.

It's OVER for MaleThirstAccelerationCels.

Peterson warns about violence in these sorts of environment. In fairness, it's genocide. Mystery referred to it as your genes weeded out of existence. Only worse today with the quality of obese, ran through modern woman. Fellas are competing for the caliber men of previous generations wouldn't give the time a day let alone a booty call.

 

[SW15]

Actual competition vs orbiters. Dorks in her DMs left on unread. I hear you. Let's be real. Women don't acknowledge them.

Women's orbiters have increased exponentially.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Women's orbiters have increased exponentially.

I don't disagree. I just don't acknowledge that as competition. Also, i take a scorched earth approach ~ blow me or blow me out. I control the controllables. I can't control her DMs. I can't be bothered to interfere with dorks in obiter status. I just keep it moving.

I mentioned it before. I've pawned off scrubs and dorks on hot girls in clubs before for lulz. Trolling as a hobby. As if to set set her up with her perfect sperg. Work volume. Role play and vibe. Hell, I have blown up sets just because it's funny. Self amuse ftw!

@SW15 mate, These dorks can't compete with us.

 

[SW15]

I don't disagree. I just don't acknowledge that as competition. Also, i take a scorched earth approach ~ blow me or blow me out. I control the controllables. I can't control her DMs. I can't be bothered to interfere with dorks in obiter status. I just keep it moving.

I mentioned it before. I've pawned off scrubs and dorks on hot girls in clubs before for lulz. Trolling as a hobby. As if to set set her up with her perfect sperg. Work volume. Role play and vibe. Hell, I have blown up sets just because it's funny. Self amuse ftw!

@SW15 mate, These dorks can't compete with us.

The scorched earth approach is the correct approach to take in this vicious mating game. Vag or next!

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

But what if the places with better culture & feminity are watching their REAL WORLD get burned & pillaged?

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Not sure I follow man. Care to elaborate? Are you saying that the better cultures are at lower socioeconomic status at high risk or?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

The scorched earth approach is the correct approach to take in this vicious mating game. Vag or next!

How's it going with you these days? Been sniper approaching like you. The flame thrower is on hiatus while I navigate elsewhere.