Cold Approach (Mode X) Field Report

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What I'm getting from this thread is how different we are from each other ... OP is the same age as me, yet he is married to a woman 20yrs older than him and doesn't let that stop him from hitting on 74yrs old ladies.
 

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What I'm getting from this thread is how different we are from each other ... OP is the same age as me, yet he is married to a woman 20yrs older than him and doesn't let that stop him from hitting on 74yrs old ladies.
OP is married? Lmao
 

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What is going on with this topic?
Dudes can't even get with women that they are attracted to, but have the nerve to be judgemental towards what another man is attracted to.

Blows my mind.

That includes you, Mr. I'm Afraid to Cold Approach Women.
 

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Dudes can't even get with women that they are attracted to, but have the nerve to be judgemental towards what another man is attracted to.

Blows my mind.

That includes you, Mr. I'm Afraid to Cold Approach Women.
I have no need to approach women. My gf puts out consistently, isn't a headache, and buys me expensive stuff all of the time. Why would I throw that away for some random psleeve?
 

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What I'm getting from this thread is how different we are from each other
Some of us aren't afraid to approach women we find attractive.

However, some of us are pussies when it comes to that sort of thing.

So yeah, we are different from each other.

... OP is the same age as me, yet he is married to a woman 20yrs older than him and doesn't let that stop him from hitting on 74yrs old ladies.
Nothing can or will stop me.
 

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I have no need to approach women. My gf puts out consistently, isn't a headache, and buys me expensive stuff all of the time.
Oh really. Did you meet her via OLD?

Why would I throw that away for some random psleeve?
To experience new p#ssy.
 
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To experience new p#ssy.
That is why you're dating the senior citizen? I think you mean 'unknown' p#ssy, not 'new'. 'New to you', maybe.

By the way, I totally respect that you enjoy having sex with senior citizens, but I think you're overestimating how enthusiastic other people are about your love life. Then again, they probably aren't into my lifestyle either, so you should just enjoy your elder lady as you and her see fit.
 

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That is why you're dating the senior citizen?
She got some big ass titties.

That's why I am "dating" her.

I think you mean 'unknown' p#ssy, not 'new'. 'New to you', maybe.
Obviously, it is "new" to me, and that is what I meant.

If you ain't FUK her before, then it is new to you.

Not rocket science.

By the way, I totally respect that you enjoy having sex with senior citizens
I enjoy having sex with women I find attractive.

Don't you?

but I think you're overestimating how enthusiastic other people are about your love life.
Am I?

Then again, they probably aren't into my lifestyle either, so you should just enjoy your elder lady as you and her see fit.
Older, younger...doesn't matter.

If the attraction is there, I'm there.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So, had you seen that same woman you met on BB in the public, you wouldn't have approached her.

But, once you get behind the screen, you are Mr. Don Juan.
 

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So, had you seen that same woman you met on BB in the public, you wouldn't have approached her.

But, once you get behind the screen, you are Mr. Don Juan.
I wouldn't have seen her in public in the first place because we went to separate venues.
 

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To everyone here ripping on Mode One…. This definitely works. You will without a doubt get either a firm yes or a firm no. They’re both good answers if you understand and appreciate the value of honest feedback.
 

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Man some of you guys don't know how your posts speak volumes about you. My intention about people on here always turns out to be right.

SHt man to even post about this like its something to be proud of is .... nevermind.. Do you man. If this is an accomplishment for you, I guess I'm proud of you. Keep progressing.

Me personally, this sh.t is gross on so many levels. To see men settling for sht like this is insane to me.. outrageous even.
You still have a copy of that slam pig that you posted like six months ago, that little Spanish number that you took down like 20 minutes after you posted it? You know who I’m talking about. You were acting like you were in Vegas gambling with Jeff bezos
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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for the record … I am here for everything Venom is throwing down. Dude is my spirit animal. Go brother go
 

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Venom, genuine question on your methodology here… is there a reason you seem to favor making your request to suck tits over text? I find it always better to be more explicit/direct in person as it carries more weight. Delaying to a text for fear of an overly negative reaction in public seems to be a little outside of the principles of mode one. Not sure you would have had this latest conquest if you did not end up telling her in person and just sent a “I wanna suck yo big ass titties” txt as originally planned
 

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Venom, genuine question on your methodology here… is there a reason you seem to favor making your request to suck tits over text? I find it always better to be more explicit/direct in person as it carries more weight. Delaying to a text for fear of an overly negative reaction in public seems to be a little outside of the principles of mode one. Not sure you would have had this latest conquest if you did not end up telling her in person and just sent a “I wanna suck yo big ass titties” txt as originally planned
Going to put my two cents in here but it's easier to get this kind of compliance over text if she's salivating over your **** pics first.
 

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I don't care what kind of girls Venom gets, the guy has moxie and he is out there making it happen. That's the take away here.
 

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Venom, genuine question on your methodology here… is there a reason you seem to favor making your request to suck tits over text?
Yes, because I need to get my point across without the risk of the woman giving a negative reaction..and by negative, I mean flipping out on me, cursing me out, and generally making a public scene.

I find it always better to be more explicit/direct in person as it carries more weight. Delaying to a text for fear of an overly negative reaction in public seems to be a little outside of the principles of mode one.
I agree, which is why I call my methodology a version of Mode One, which I coined Mode X.

The main difference is, with Alan Roger Currie's Mode One approach; it's key feature is verbal communication (and ONLY verbal).

My Mode X approach doesn't care whether it is verbal, text, or hand written.

As far as the potential of a negative reaction...I guess it depends on whether you feel as if the risk outweighs the reward, which I do.

Not sure you would have had this latest conquest if you did not end up telling her in person and just sent a “I wanna suck yo big ass titties” txt as originally planned
Lol.

Do you think she would have declined my requests via text, because I did not request it in person?
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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