Cold appraoches are stupid

[LegendBoy]

My take on cold approaches if your going to do it to a group of friends you could make a big ass fool of yourself but to make it fun just be with ur m8 beforehand and say this I am going to make an ass of myself. So you can shrug it off.

I reckon if you do somewhere like a library your much likely to be succesful then in the middle of the mall.

 

[theapprentice]

hmm..

I dont know. Seems stupid. I mean I just can't seem to pull out the balls to do it. I dont want to have to go through "DO it pu**ssy" everytime I get scared.

I walk up to a gorup of girls and I say hi. I dont have confiddence in the way I look, im fat and out of shape.

 

[KillaCam]

I walk up to a gorup of girls and I say hi. I dont have confiddence in the way I look, im fat and out of shape.

Then do something about it. Moaning won't change the circumstances.

 

[tuxen]

You don't walk up and say hi. Start off with stuff that is normal for a stranger to ask, if possible continue the conversation. Eg:

You: excuse me, do you have the time?
Her: sure its 2.22pm
You: wow, thats a nice watch, where did you get it? etc etc
Then thank her and leave.

Keep doing the same thing, see if you can stretch it out to 1 minute of conversation etc.

You can't build your confidence by posting negative stuff here looking for some magic confidence builder, just get out there...

If your fat and out of shape, do something about it! Go to the gym, buy some new clothes!

No one can help you if your not willing to help yourself