Growing up, I was always under the impression that guys needed to approach women and that is how people meet and that is how you get a date or girlfriend. This was before social media and online dating, so cold approaches were more normal. Nowadays, I feel like the modern feminist movement has demonized men and victimized women. If a guy approaches a girl, then he's a "creep" and it is considered harassment. However, if a guy doesn't approach a girl that he was interested in, then he's a p*ssy. This nonsense logic irritates me because I feel like the only way for me to meet women is to approach them because my circle of friends don't have any available or worthwhile women for me to meet.
The hypocrisy in this is that women only consider men "creeps" if she doesn't find him attractive but consider the guy confident and charming if he is attractive. The word "creep" is used so loosely nowadays that it should just replace the word "ugly". Even ugly b*tches gets to pick and choose. The whole idea of confidence is about approaching women even if you feel nervous and are able to overcome your fears of approaching. But I guess approaching has become an under appreciated art. These b*tches don't know what it's like because they never had to do it once in their lives.
Why do guys get punished for putting himself on the line?
The hypocrisy in this is that women only consider men "creeps" if she doesn't find him attractive but consider the guy confident and charming if he is attractive. The word "creep" is used so loosely nowadays that it should just replace the word "ugly". Even ugly b*tches gets to pick and choose. The whole idea of confidence is about approaching women even if you feel nervous and are able to overcome your fears of approaching. But I guess approaching has become an under appreciated art. These b*tches don't know what it's like because they never had to do it once in their lives.
Why do guys get punished for putting himself on the line?