stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
Today, I decided to start frequenting the local coffee shops in the area. I did a search on this board and found no real openers for coffee shops. My first day here, I gave myself the assignment to brainstorm 10 great openers before going out and using them. I have sat here for over an hour and a half brainstorming the best openers money could buy. Here is what I have come up with:
1. Hey, is this place crawling with guys trying to pick up other guys?
She says why?
Because I was at this one shop and I could tell 4 guys were checking me out. But it seemed like they didn’t have any confidence and they were stalker like. Now if I were gay, they wouldn’t have any shot in the world.
2. <To be done when a female looks nervous or is moving quicker than normal> Hey, you seem nervous.
If she says yes/no or a distant response
Well, take a break from what ever you are doing and come over and say hi.
Then bust on her for drinking too much caffeine.
3. That <item> looks interesting where did you get that?
(This is to be used if it is standing out like a sign with neon colors)
4. What are you reading? My autobiography?
(For a female that is reading some sort of book. Be sure to role play to create attraction)
5. <Using your laptop looking up news of the weird> Hey, did you hear about <event>?
(Be sure it is something interesting that has conversation value. This can also be used for celebrity news)
6. <When a girl sits down next to you> Hey, that seat is taken. But I suppose if you can entertain me, I can give it up.
Be sure to hold a straight face and pause briefly after saying the seat is taken.
7. <To be done when a scary weird guy is/was present> Hey, I think he was trying to pick up on you.
Be sure to bust on her if he left suddenly by saying I guess he wasn't your type.
8. <When a female is on her laptop> Are you researching how you can come over and say hi to me?
9. <When a female has a big purse or bag> Let me guess, you have a gun, mace, and make up in that.
(If a scary guy shows up, be sure to use call back humor)
10. <When a female makes eye contact while walking by you> Hey, sit down.
(Kick out the chair when you do it)
OK, post away if you have any others to add or any comments on the ones I came up with. There is a girl in front of me right now on her laptop with a bunch of material next to her unlooked at. I am going to use number 8 after I go to the bathroom.
1. Hey, is this place crawling with guys trying to pick up other guys?
She says why?
Because I was at this one shop and I could tell 4 guys were checking me out. But it seemed like they didn’t have any confidence and they were stalker like. Now if I were gay, they wouldn’t have any shot in the world.
2. <To be done when a female looks nervous or is moving quicker than normal> Hey, you seem nervous.
If she says yes/no or a distant response
Well, take a break from what ever you are doing and come over and say hi.
Then bust on her for drinking too much caffeine.
3. That <item> looks interesting where did you get that?
(This is to be used if it is standing out like a sign with neon colors)
4. What are you reading? My autobiography?
(For a female that is reading some sort of book. Be sure to role play to create attraction)
5. <Using your laptop looking up news of the weird> Hey, did you hear about <event>?
(Be sure it is something interesting that has conversation value. This can also be used for celebrity news)
6. <When a girl sits down next to you> Hey, that seat is taken. But I suppose if you can entertain me, I can give it up.
Be sure to hold a straight face and pause briefly after saying the seat is taken.
7. <To be done when a scary weird guy is/was present> Hey, I think he was trying to pick up on you.
Be sure to bust on her if he left suddenly by saying I guess he wasn't your type.
8. <When a female is on her laptop> Are you researching how you can come over and say hi to me?
9. <When a female has a big purse or bag> Let me guess, you have a gun, mace, and make up in that.
(If a scary guy shows up, be sure to use call back humor)
10. <When a female makes eye contact while walking by you> Hey, sit down.
(Kick out the chair when you do it)
OK, post away if you have any others to add or any comments on the ones I came up with. There is a girl in front of me right now on her laptop with a bunch of material next to her unlooked at. I am going to use number 8 after I go to the bathroom.