Co worker explains why girls smash the "loser"

[Pandora]

A female co worker explained why women dont smash the "good guy" quickly but let the " bum guy" smash quickly. She said that if the "bum guy" leaves you it does not hurt as much as if the "good guy" leaves. She said you actually are emotionally connected to the "good guy". Interesting thought. There maybe a little bit of truth in this.

I just think that they are not sexually aroused by the good guy. They are however attracted. Big difference between arousal and attraction.

 

[Solomon]

I have said it before, women will smash different men if you catch them at the right time depending on how she feels etc.

Do women use chastity as a relationship tactic to make certain men commit, you bet ya.
However it's not always black and white like most guys on here think.
For example, maybe she is not making the guy wait because he's a beta maybe she is making him wait to make sure he is invested in a proper committed relationship etc.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

The bum will leave her. His only value is short term gratification.

She can either bang him, and he'll leave her (small benefit).

Or she can not bang him, and he'll leave her (no benefit).

But the good guy will stick around, regardless whether she bangs him or not. No reason to. Benefits without costs.

 

[jhonny9546]

I am transitioning from a good guy to a good man.

All the women and men I knew before have seen a clear transformation, and it will show in their behaviors: women flirt and are flirtatious, men show more respect and include you in more social events.

I have my failures to thank for making me realize my weaknesses, and online resources like this forum for making me find knowledge.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I just think that they are not sexually aroused by the good guy.

You think directly.

 

[pipeman84]

Isn't that the same with us guys? I mean, I'd smash the hoe with injected lips and fake boobs asap (she's sex material only anyway) whereas I'd be in no hurry to have sex with a quality girl.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The bum will leave her. His only value is short term gratification.

She can either bang him, and he'll leave her (small benefit).

Or she can not bang him, and he'll leave her (no benefit).

But the good guy will stick around, regardless whether she bangs him or not. No reason to. Benefits without costs.

The nice guy might, the good guy will give her an opportunity and if she chooses to slow play him will wish her the best of luck and walk away.

Too many people equate the good guy with the nice guy but they are not the same.

The good guy does what's best for himself.

 

[Pandora]

Isn't that the same with us guys? I mean, I'd smash the hoe with injected lips and fake boobs asap (she's sex material only anyway) whereas I'd be in no hurry to have sex with a quality girl.

Dang I never thought of it like that lol. Somehow is feels hurtful when the girl delays sex when you are quality.

You know why it hurts...its because deep down us men feel like women should only give their bodies to men that would commit to them. Thats what you would want your sister, daughter or mother to do.

There is something repulsive and unholy about a woman sport fucxing.

 

[Pandora]

I took this smooth dark skinned chick with a skinny waist and big soft perky boobs on 3 dates back when I was 23.

Borrowed my parents Benz and all that. Spent like 200 dollars in 2008 money.

I go in for a kiss after date 3 and she explains her little " i fuk the bad guys and i save the good potential future guys. I want something real blah blah".

I was hurt and confused. After that I tried to avoid dating African women .

Saw her again years later at the gym. She was no longer hot but at 21 she was fire.

Btw we went to see a movie called Place Beyond the Pines. There was this bad boy character ( corny in my eyes). I asked her if she was turned on by him and she was like yes i like that. Thats when I should have known I was in trouble

 

[Pandora]

I have said it before, women will smash different men if you catch them at the right time depending on how she feels etc.

Do women use chastity as a relationship tactic to make certain men commit, you bet ya.
However it's not always black and white like most guys on here think.
For example, maybe she is not making the guy wait because he's a beta maybe she is making him wait to make sure he is invested in a proper committed relationship etc.

Ok you are right but let me add this. If she does not even kiss you by the 3rd date then she is not attracted to you. She can alteast kiss you and still make you wait in order to display her fake chastity.

If she liked you alot but wanted to play it slow there will be signs. It will be very hard for her to keep her hands to herself. I respect that.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

We experience frequency in our testosterone levels as well as mood, dress, mindset, sometimes things align for all guys but often the alignment that happens often is seen as the Bad Boy I think it's silly

 

[Vanderdonck]

A female co worker explained why women dont smash the "good guy" quickly but let the " bum guy" smash quickly. She said that if the "bum guy" leaves you it does not hurt as much as if the "good guy" leaves. She said you actually are emotionally connected to the "good guy". Interesting thought. There maybe a little bit of truth in this.

I just think that they are not sexually aroused by the good guy. They are however attracted. Big difference between arousal and attraction.

A lot of women will go for the men they think they deserve or that are within their range. This can cause a bit of a blockade if you're a high value guy.

 

[jhonny9546]

A lot of women will go for the men they think they deserve or that are within their range. This can cause a bit of a blockade if you're a high value guy.

I understand what you mean, but it happened to me that girls like 9 with very high value are interested in me sexually.
Then once they get to know each other they realize that I am not at their "economic" or "career" level and we start to diverge.