Clueless

[carreyreincarnate1]

This may sound incredibly redundant, but i have a problem approaching girls. i can talk to girls just fine, but approaching a girl i don't know? im pretty clueless. Especially at school. For example, there is this girl who sits at the table next to where i sit at lunch. how would i approach a situation like this? its not that im afraid to, its just that i can't think of how to pull it off without appearing like an a**. its not like i can just walk up to her table, sit down, say hi and everything will be fine. any tips?

 

[SinJester]

" its not like i can just walk up to her table, sit down, say hi and everything will be fine"

Why not?

 

[Bonafide]

Sin is the man for that post. That just inspired me.

 

[carreyreincarnate1]

Why not?

Are you serious?

 

[duffman360]

it does not if u r cool or not. just start up a convo may be current events like sports or music

 

[Triple T]

Are you serious?

you gotta be open man!! THAT is how you can become successful with not only chicks, but with almost EVERYONE.

As long as your cheery (positive energy) and you smile, say "hi" introduce yourself...let her tell you her name. The rest is smooth sailing bro!! :rockon:

Remember, BE OPEN.
Who knows, maybe you'll become one of the most popular guys in the school? the guy who everyone says hi to. Just smile, say hi to people...and you'll be amazed at where it'll get you.

 

[SinJester]

Yes I am serious. Give me one good reason.

 

[Evolution]

Try my new opener I used today.

Grab some an applesauce (preferably a spoon too). Sit down somewhere next to her, and start eating it.

Say: "Hey, lemme ask you something."

She'll usually turn to face you now.

Say: "Do u think its creepy if a guy just comes and sits down. And starts eating applesauce?"

She'll laugh, and if she's a cool chick she will say its not.

Go from there. I'm surprised it even opened.

 

[.smooth.]

Hey! Ive got an awesome exersice for you!

Start today by just saying Hi to every girl you see, within' reason. Just say Hi. It's that easy. Studies have shown the very, very best opening line is... Hi! You don't need to get into big huge convorsations yet, just practice saying Hi to all the girls you see today, or tomorrow if you read this at night.
A girl you see in a grocery store line up. The girl walking down the street, the girl you sit next to in history. Say HI! right at the start of the interaction.
Ever notice that you come into a situation theres a totally beautiful girl next to you, you've got nothing to say, you think... you think... and by the time you've thought, your chance is over. It's too late!

Today say hi to... 50 girls! thats all you need.
Slowly you'll become more comfortable with it and generate a good rapour with women.

BTW be sure to make EYE CONTACT, be firm with where you look, firm and .smooth.

This is an excellent exersice I learned through the Louis and Copeland audio series at www.howtosucceedwithwomen.com