Clubbing

[jlazz]

Who here goes to teen clubs? If you do, do you pregame before hand with shots? I haven't been to one in a while, but I'm planning on convincing my buddy to go one night. There are so many hot girls there that its practically a joke.

I'm a good dancer, but besides that, what tips do you guys have? Do you just go on the dancefloor and start grinding it with girls? After that, just grab their hand and walk away and either go outside or a corner and talk? I haven't been to a club since 8th grade.

I know how to dress and got all of that set. Also, what time do clubs usually close? Do you crash at someone's place afterwards? My parents are strick and I usually have to be home by 12 latest and lie about where I'm going.

Thanks

 

[coolguy676767]

Hey whats up man, I talked to you on aim the other day remember. But yeah i hit them up alot over the summer, but now that I am 18 I just go to regular clubs when they are 18+ instead of 21+. I do plan on hitting up some 15-19 clubs cause there are some good looking 17, 17, and 18 year old girls there.

Its a hell of a lot of fun though if you ask me. You have to be able to not give a crap and ask as many girls as possible to dance and try to get numbers. Although teenage girls in clubs are pretty damn hard to get a number from no matter who you are. But its a great way to grind and dance and interact with plenty of girls.

You should seriously do like 20+ approaches a night though if you plan on going, thats when its fun, and dont worry an great return rate is like 10 successful approaches out of 20, and by successful I mean either dance, number or something. The average is like maybe 5 out of 20 approaches, I try to get better than 50 percent at least though. Get there early before the sausage fest hits.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

What's up man.

I work at a teen club and I think I can help you. I'm around all the madness about once a week and a lot of girls voice their dislikes to me. If you know the tricks it's actually pretty easy to find a girl (I did).

If you do make the choice to pregame there is a few things you should assess.

If you get caught, you can get thrown out on the curb or worse... have the authorities called on you.

Some guys drunkenly hit on girlfriends of mean guys and end up getting into fights.

None of which you want to get involved in... However, if you do end up drinking it's a great way to relax and have less inhibitions about meeting girls.

when you drink, be sure to only have enough to the point that you're having fun. 3 Drinks is usually a good bet. That's the amount it takes for me to be social with strangers, but still have all the capabilities I have while sober.

If you're a sloppy drunk, don't drink... you'll end up looking like a tool.

As for dancing, it's usually a bad idea just to go up to a chick and grind. That's too aggressive for a lot of the girls i see at these things.

The best thing to do is to make eye contact at them while not smiling say and just ask them if they want to dance. Dance with them for a bit then find out their name and stuff. If the chemistry is good be sure to turn them so your facing eachother, if your noses rub a lot and you make eye contact, it's a safe bet that you're on lock for a kiss.

What you do NOT want to do though, is grab the back of their head and try to coax them into a kiss... it's the biggest turn off to girls .

Be wary of the bull**** excuses, "i'm hot" "i need to find my friends" and "i need some water" are all good indications that she doesn't want to be with you. If she does leave, dont' dwell on her, she will shoot you some bs about finding you later... she won't. If she grabs your hand and walks out with you you're set.

After you have found a chick to dance with for a while, ask her if she's doing anything later on... if she's busy, just get her number and tell her you'll call her. Otherwise you and your friends should go out with her friends and grab something to eat then go home. Unless someone has the house to themselves in which case you might as well just and hook up.

Good Luck Man

 

[Alfie Crew]

What you do NOT want to do though, is grab the back of their head and try to coax them into a kiss... it's the biggest turn off to girls .

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[jlazz]

Thanks for the quality responses...sup coolguy go on AIM.

Anyway, my plan is to take 1-2 shots of vodka before hand. I'm not a rowdy drunk, I actually become mellow...when I smoke weed I get rowdy its weird.

As for dancing with girls, what if the girl is already on the dance floor? Should I just walk up behind her and say "wsup" and then start dancing?

What do you guys tell your parents? What time do you usually get home?

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Originally posted by Alfie Crew
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A lot of guys will be dancing with a girl and want a kiss when a girl isn't that into them. So they will like put their hand on the back of their head and slowly bring it towards them so they are like basically forced to kiss them. It's definitely in bad taste.

 

[Alfie Crew]

Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
A lot of guys will be dancing with a girl and want a kiss when a girl isn't that into them. So they will like put their hand on the back of their head and slowly bring it towards them so they are like basically forced to kiss them. It's definitely in bad taste.

Thanks..I guess I never heard that term before.

 

[booster]

Originally posted by jlazz

As for dancing with girls, what if the girl is already on the dance floor? Should I just walk up behind her and say "wsup" and then start dancing?

Asking girls to dance when they are on the floor is fine. The last party I went to, I asked five girlsto dance who were already on the floor and they all said yes. My approach was very simple. I just went up to them and asked if they wanted to dance and they all said yes.

What made it easier for me was that I only asked girls who were not dancing with a guy, while their friends were. For example, there might be a group of three girls and two of them are grinding with guys. So that leaves one "lonely girl" who does not have a grinding buddy. All the girls who I asked were that "lonely girl". They were HOT though. One of them let me touch her pu$$y and chest which was cool.

When a girl's friends are dancing with guys and she isn't, she might not want to feel left out of the fun so she is more likely to say yes to anyone who asks. So ask away.

 

[coolguy676767]

Booster is exactly right, the exact way to do it. But make sure when you go up to them, actually ask dont just start dancing, actually ask, I dont care what everyone else is doing.

Oh yeah and nice job booster with those chicks.

 

[booster]

Originally posted by coolguy676767
Booster is exactly right, the exact way to do it. But make sure when you go up to them, actually ask dont just start dancing, actually ask, I dont care what everyone else is doing.

Oh yeah and nice job booster with those chicks.

Thank you. That night gave me a bunch of confidence. Hearing so many "yes's" in such a short period of time can be music to the ears.

 

[Taviii]

Originally posted by jlazz
What do you guys tell your parents? What time do you usually get home?

If I have were to sleep I get home when I get up. If not I get home at 3-4 AM or even 6-7 in some extreme cases.

My parents used to be strict when I was 14-15 but not anymore.

You are 17, at 18 you can go to war and kill people. Tell that to your parents.