I've seen a lot of guys writing about this and asking about this topic. Although I thought there was already a thread on this, I looked and could not find it. Then again, I can be blind at times or lazy.
I club solo all the time. Not because I don't have anybody to go with but because I have a better time when I go alone. My friend's don't club much and they, of course, are AFCs with large women. I've been clubbing alone for almost a year and found that it will provide more freedom then bringing another.
Most people bring friends for social proof and also as support. A lot of people haven't gotten to the point where they're comfortable in public places without a posse. However, take in to mind the negative sides of bringing another person with you.
I read on another thread by another person that an Alpha Male can gain repore or social proof wherever he goes. This is very true. I just go up and talk to anybody when bored or needing social proof and then end up befriending them or hanging out with them easily. Tonight, I went out and ended up hanging out with this Romanian chick and her friends that I had met a few weeks back at the club. She had a boyfriend already but she was cool to hang out with and other chicks that I had tried macking on before seen me with them and took more interest in me then before.
I've read before that the easiest way to gain repore with people at a club (or anywhere for that matter) is to act like you know them already (don't fake like you do know them) and just talk to them. Male or female. It builds confidence and makes you more of an Alpha Male.
You won't have to run to a friend when rejected or when you need to bail. Instead, just talk to another person or go do your own thing. It will be nice when you're out on a not so pleasant date or otherwise. It may take practice but it's worth it.
I club solo all the time. Not because I don't have anybody to go with but because I have a better time when I go alone. My friend's don't club much and they, of course, are AFCs with large women. I've been clubbing alone for almost a year and found that it will provide more freedom then bringing another.
Most people bring friends for social proof and also as support. A lot of people haven't gotten to the point where they're comfortable in public places without a posse. However, take in to mind the negative sides of bringing another person with you.
I read on another thread by another person that an Alpha Male can gain repore or social proof wherever he goes. This is very true. I just go up and talk to anybody when bored or needing social proof and then end up befriending them or hanging out with them easily. Tonight, I went out and ended up hanging out with this Romanian chick and her friends that I had met a few weeks back at the club. She had a boyfriend already but she was cool to hang out with and other chicks that I had tried macking on before seen me with them and took more interest in me then before.
I've read before that the easiest way to gain repore with people at a club (or anywhere for that matter) is to act like you know them already (don't fake like you do know them) and just talk to them. Male or female. It builds confidence and makes you more of an Alpha Male.
You won't have to run to a friend when rejected or when you need to bail. Instead, just talk to another person or go do your own thing. It will be nice when you're out on a not so pleasant date or otherwise. It may take practice but it's worth it.
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