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Clubbing Solo ?

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by TurboOverCubicInches
interesting. i would NEVER think of going clubbin alone. ****, its even kinda dangerous lol.
Whoa, what kind of clubs are in your neck of the woods:confused:
 

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As long as Im comfortable in the club I don't mind going alone. I tend to frequent places in which I will probably know one or two people even when I do go alone. I've noticed that when I do take my friends, I tend to be more successful when I break away from the group and mack solo.

Some guys are alot more helpful than others when it comes to meeting women. I know guys who make a huge scene when I attempt a cpu and the chick acts like shes not interested. Those kinds of guys are a pain in the a$$. A good wingman should tell broads that you are the greatest thing since sliced bread you should also do the same for him. He should also encourage you, and say keep going even when the chicks act unreceptive.
 

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As long as Im comfortable in the club I don't mind going alone. I tend to frequent places in which I will probably know one or two people even when I do go alone. I've noticed that when I do take my friends, I tend to be more successful when I break away from the group and mack solo.

Some guys are alot more helpful than others when it comes to meeting women. I know guys who make a huge scene when I attempt a cpu and the chick acts like shes not interested. Those kinds of guys are a pain in the a$$. A good wingman should tell broads that you are the greatest thing since sliced bread you should also do the same for him. He should also encourage you, and say keep going even when the chicks act unreceptive.
 

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Being comfortable is a MUST.
As far as safety is concerned=
I took self-defence in martial arts...
Maybe that makes me feel alot more safe.
(I do feel more confident)
and avoiding trouble is the best thing you can do.
(plus I have a pool cue - equivelant to a base-ball bat)
A knife is a bad Idea,cause it can cause severe hurt
and you'll probably get charged with attempted murder
if you pulled it.

Meeting new people seems easyer when your Solo...
Like someone else here once said,
don't use your friends as a crutch when clubbing.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I was wondering, how many of you go about your everyday lives with an entourage like you would in a club. If you don't, do you forgo meeting women because you are by yourself?

Just curious....
 
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oh man, you never know when some insecure a**hole will come up to you and accuse you of talkin/lookin/standing too close/thikning about his girl...maybe im wrong but i think its just better to go clubbin with a few people.:confused:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by TurboOverCubicInches
oh man, you never know when some insecure a**hole will come up to you and accuse you of talkin/lookin/standing too close/thikning about his girl...maybe im wrong but i think its just better to go clubbin with a few people.:confused:
I can understand that. How's this for a come back?

"That's your girl? Dude, you have great taste!"

Make sure she is within earshot to hear the complement, then when she goes to the restroom, intercept her and tell her that she needs to go out with you because you can appreaciate her good looks without being jealous and get her telephone number.

If he goes with her to the restroom, just walk in after her and tell her the same thing. Either way, you will make a lasting impression on her ;)
 

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Yeah, three weekends i went out in a row i almost had a fight, firstly with some Army dude threatening to kill me, 2nd weekend - bunch of 18yo's in their "homie" gear hurling some abuse at me and finally hit on some blonde and his GF went off his nut.

I broke up with my GF the day after i almost had the fight with that army guy, apparently he was her good 'friend' but treated him (on the night) like he was more important than me, fuk that! Disrespect me, theres the door biatch!

Then i found this site. Read the bible, read the forum...looked at myself and went out to make myself into a better man! Took up boxing, hit the gym more and theres no turning back now!

Clubs can be dangerous places but hey, life is full of risks. Long as i don't get gang bashed i think i can defend myself, plus, there's usually ample bouncers around.

But..back to the topic, thanks for the input - solo clubbing this weekend for me :D
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Kodiac

Clubs can be dangerous places but hey, life is full of risks. Long as i don't get gang bashed i think i can defend myself, plus, there's usually ample bouncers around.

But..back to the topic, thanks for the input - solo clubbing this weekend for me :D
When I was single I would go out looking for both women and wingmen. Never let a night out go to waste.
 

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I went to this teen club solo tonight. I went solo last week too and the week before that i went with friends. When i went with my friends i got no good action but when i went solo things were alot better.

I met this girl that i danced alot with, and she knew how to move. I suggest solo clubbing to anyone actually.
 

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I might try that.

I want to try this bartender chick by rocking up as she's finishing work (at 5AM) so I might as well hit town abotu 3 or 4 and try some of that s***.
 
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