Clubbing Alone... a FR

TonyTheTigerOI · Apr 30, 2005

Well I was writing a term paper tonight at around 10:30. I finished my thesis, outlined my arguments, and then sat, staring at my computer and imagined meeting beautiful women (as I usually do fridays/saturdays). After 10 min of staring I shut off my comp, grabbed a shirt, and left.

On my way to the marriot (hotel with nice club in lobby) I called all my wings. No one was available. I shrugged it off - some of my best clubbing/barhopping nights were alone. I bluff past security at the door, and the night begins:

The second I step into the club I smile and look around. Girls watch the door for new, hot guys - this first impression sets the tone for the ENTIRE night. I see a fourset, I smile at the cutest one (8.6), she smiles back, and:

Tony - Hi! 
Girl1 - Hey! <she grabs my hand as I walk past> Youre just gonna walk right past, without telling me youre name?!
Tony Well, Im Anthony, whats youre name?
Girl1 - Im Girl!
Tony - Its nice to meet you - but - do you hold hands with every guy who walks thru that door?
Girl1 <blushes> - Nope, just you!
Tony - In that case, how about we grab a table and get to know eachother?
Girl1 - Sure!
Tony <at the table> So Girl, what do you do - besides seducing poor defenseless guys at the marriot?
Girl1 - BLABLABLA

While talking to her ^ this really tall, thin girl (with an iffy face (8.5) and her friend (8.0) were smiling at me. I noticed they were eating nachos so I just point at them with a confused face. They both kinda giggle and I yell to their table

Tony - That looks REALLY good!
TallGirl - Its amazing! Want some?
Tony - Ill tell you what, Ill give you guys a hug for 10 nachos <they both look at eachother and smile, then say OK, the three of us hug and I cop a feel on both their tits, and as Im taking the nachos> Im Anthony, what are youre names?

After salutations I thank them and return to Girl1, eat the nachos, chat, and I invite her to the dance floor. She declines, I go anyways.

On the dance floor I see some kid TRYING to rave and show him up. Some cute lil asian girl just stopped dancing infront of me, smiled, I smiled back, and she pulled me by the shirt to her

Tony - Im Anthony, whats youre name?
Fey - Fey
Tony - Its nice to meet you 
Tony - Fey, honey, Im sorry, Im just too tall for this 
Fey - I am NOT too short!
Tony - Youre perfect honey, my legs are just half a foot too long <laughing, she turns to her friends and repeats what I said, we all laugh and she pushes one of her taller friends at me - we dance, but Fey gets pist and walks away>

I quite dancing and go plant myself next to the pool table, talk to some guys, nothin special. THEN! I see this sexy girl wearing half a shirt - but no one is dancing with her!? Then I see her friend and realize why... her friend was BY FAR the best looking girl at the club and she was getting all the attension. I stole up, standing next to the sexy girl I noticed first:

Tony <motioning to her friend SURROUNDED by guys> - I think youre friends the biggest pimp here... even worse than that guy 

SHE DOES NOT THINK ITS AT ALL FUNNY!!!

SexyGirl - What you think shes a slut cuz shes around those guys?
Tony - No I <she cuts me off>
SexyGirl - Shes dirty because she likes to dance? Im so ****ing sick of men just LABELLING GIRLS for no ****ing reason. You dont even ****ing know her. Who the **** are you to talk like that about her!?!?!?

Most guys would have backed down or apologized. Im not one of them:

Tony - First of all, watch youre mouth and communicate like an adult. Second of all, to be honest, I was just trying to strike up a fun conversation with you and that was the first thing that came to mind.
SexyGirl - Oh. Well I thought you were talking about the way she was dressed and those guys and stuff...
Tony - Nope. And if you werent such a crazy ***** we'd be getting to know eachother right now

Ill be honest, I braced for a slap when I said that... but she just took it.

SexyGirl - Im sorry, whats youre name?

It turns out we've both got TERRIBLY stereotypical Italian names, we joke about that for a while and then she confides to me that she only ****s black guys!? So I walk away. Briskly.

For about an hour everything was static - no new people at the club, no more cold approaches to make (tons of girls were already talkin with guys). And all the girl I had previously approached had left!

After a while I notice some comotion on the dance floor and check it out - some kid is dancing REALLY well and theres a few ppl around watching him. I step next to him and do my best to mirror what hes doing, but hes a lot better than me. He gives me a high 5 and asks my name, we chat for a while and I catch him starring at this girl who just walked onto the floor.

Tony - Ill take the one in the blue, you take the one in the red
WingDan - What?
Tony - You can dance. So can she. You were made for eachother, lets go Ok, ok, Ill slow down! <they laugh, I hold out my hands to the girl in the blue and start to move my hips to the music, she takes my hands and I slooowly pull her close>
Tony - Hi, whats youre name?
Kate - Im Kate!
Tony - Its nice to meet you kate <we are just leaning on eachother half dancing> Do you dance?
Kate <she smiles and puts her arms around me, we start to dance and she is unusually good, I can barely keep up with her>

After 6 min (two songs) a really bad track comes on and I stop dancing. Again, leaning on eachother we start to talk:

Tony - So what do you do?

We talk for two songs, both are bad, and then I say:

Tony - Kate, buddy, I can barely hear you... would you like to go sit down in the lounge?
Kate - Actually I just had a few drinks like 15 minutes ago, so Ive still got a little spunk left in me
Tony - Spunk?
Kate <she playfully hits me> - Smart ass! <Im lookin deep into her eyes> Im going to dance for another few songs, and then we can sit down

This was my biggest errr of the night - Instead of grabbing her and grinding again, I walked away. Not 30 seconds later someone else moved in and like she said, she was pretty drunk so she was dancing with him really ****in close. I was kinda thrown off, for the next 30 min I made nothing but ****TY approaches, both dance floor and lounge. At the end of the night I closed on a girl Id talked to for about 5 min and got rejected... I hung my head and went to walk out.

But then I saw Kate, distancing herself from the other guy whom she was all over on the floor! I walk over to where her and her friends are, make eyecontact and wave. She smiles and I do a 'come here' motion.

Tony - Hey kate! Im actually heading out, but I wanted to let you know it was really nice meeting you
Kate <she blushed 10 shades of red, and the guy looked REALLY frustrated> - Thanks anthony, I had a good time too! <she says with a HUGE smile>
Tony - Hrmmm, are you always this friendly?
Kate <laughs> - Yup! I tend bar back home and they call my Mrs. Happy!
Tony - Oh wow! Well in that case, would you like to get together sometime?
Kate - Sure!
Tony - Cool, do you have a cell phone?

I walked outa that club feeling GREAT. It was a weird evening and I left all my sets WAYYY too early, but I kept up with a really great dancer, made a good impression, and **** blocked some smuck for her #

Do you guys find that you leave sets too early? I feel kinda akward in a big club just sitting and talking to one new group of girls - but I see lots of guys doing it? Can I get any input here? Is it good to bounce around from sets to build social proof/challenge, or is one group of girls sufficient enough for a girls to notice?

PuertoRican_Lover · Apr 30, 2005

Soory kid, your story seems unbelievable!

spider_007 · Apr 30, 2005

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Soory kid, your story seems unbelievable!

I bolive it. There is notting too crazy about it. I'm gona refrain from comenting on your questions since you'r obviusly hell of a better player then i am

DJ Hawtness · Apr 30, 2005

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Soory kid, your story seems unbelievable!

His story is believable, what's unbelievable is he lives in the same country, and same city I live in. :/

Dr_M · Apr 30, 2005

TonyTheTigerOI,

Damned excellent night out man. I don't think you did anything wrong there but everything right. And to asnswer your question - no, one group of girls isn't enough - there's almost no such thing as having too much social proof; the more women you have contact with the better. In addition - the bigger and more popular the club, the better. There maybe be hundreds of people in the building and it is going to be nearly impossible for one group of ladies to keep tabs on you and realize you are such a player (unless they are stalking you, then, well, that's a whole another barrel of fish!)

Go with the flow - feel the vibe, which you did. You didn't feel like dancing - you left. It was natural. You also made yourself more of a challenge. And you got her number in the end.

Delta Male · Apr 30, 2005

First off, nice FR. Most guys don't have the balls to go to clubs by yourself, props on that. Also, you must be giving off a really great vibe if girls just grab your hand without you saying anything! A lot of guys will attribute it to looks, but it's not just that. Girls can sense when your confident and you really believe that you are an attractive guy, without you even saying anything.

For the guys who are saying his story is unbelievable...what is so unbelievable about it? Is it really so far out of your reality that you could go out to a club, talk to some cool girl, get rejected but press on, and a girl's number?!?!?!? A number is nothing. You don't think it's possible to get numbers in a club if you're a cool guy with game?

As for your question: I would say yes, you do eject from your sets too early. Social proof IS good, but from your FR you sound like you already appear high value in girls' eyes. You don't need to make yourself more valuable to them, because they already love you. You just need to escalate and make their fantasies come true

.

Let's break it down approach by approach:

After salutations I thank them and return to Girl1, eat the nachos, chat, and I invite her to the dance floor. She declines, I go anyways.

Instead of inviting her, I would have just pulled her onto the dance floor. If she objects, just bust on her like "it's ok you can't dance, I'll teach you!". If she still didn't want to go, I would have just grabbed a # from her, and went to the set which you got the nachos from, and pulled one of them onto the dance floor.

Tony - Im Anthony, whats youre name?
Fey - Fey
Tony - Its nice to meet you 
Tony - Fey, honey, Im sorry, Im just too tall for this 
Fey - I am NOT too short!
Tony - Youre perfect honey, my legs are just half a foot too long <laughing, she turns to her friends and repeats what I said, we all laugh and she pushes one of her taller friends at me - we dance, but Fey gets pist and walks away>

In this situation, I would followed Fey as she walked away, and made fun of her for getting all mad, in a playful and flirty way. For most guys, this would not be appropriate because it would come off as supplication. But, this chick was digging you, and your value was really high in her eyes. She was qualifying herself to you "I am NOT too short". In situations like these, it is possible for a girl to think your value is TOO high, and think she has no chance at you. In situations like these, you should tell her that you like her, and compliment her, to raise her value to your level. Again, this is only appropriate if the girl thinks your value is WAY higher than hers.

It turns out we've both got TERRIBLY stereotypical Italian names, we joke about that for a while and then she confides to me that she only ****s black guys!? So I walk away. Briskly.

Nooooooo! Haha, it was too bad to see how you plowed through her initial sh!t-tests so well, only to be thrown off by this one. She wasn't necessaritly saying she only fvcks blacks guys because she doesn't want to fvck you. It's just a sh!t-test to see if you're really alpha. She's trying to screen you -- to establish that she's selective about think kind of guys she sleeps with -- so that she looks better in your eyes. Next time, instead of ejecting because of this, just laugh at her, and bust on her for it. Say "that's great, I only fvck black girls too. White girls are so boooooooooring" while you kino her. This girl was definitely attrated, and you should have persisted.

Tony - Hi, whats youre name?
Kate - Im Kate!
Tony - Its nice to meet you kate <we are just leaning on eachother half dancing> Do you dance?
Kate <she smiles and puts her arms around me, we start to dance and she is unusually good, I can barely keep up with her>

After 6 min (two songs) a really bad track comes on and I stop dancing. Again, leaning on eachother we start to talk:

Tony - So what do you do?

We talk for two songs, both are bad, and then I say:

Tony - Kate, buddy, I can barely hear you... would you like to go sit down in the lounge?
Kate - Actually I just had a few drinks like 15 minutes ago, so Ive still got a little spunk left in me
Tony - Spunk?
Kate <she playfully hits me> - Smart ass! <Im lookin deep into her eyes> Im going to dance for another few songs, and then we can sit down

This was my biggest errr of the night - Instead of grabbing her and grinding again, I walked away. Not 30 seconds later someone else moved in and like she said, she was pretty drunk so she was dancing with him really ****in close. I was kinda thrown off, for the next 30 min I made nothing but ****TY approaches, both dance floor and lounge. At the end of the night I closed on a girl Id talked to for about 5 min and got rejected... I hung my head and went to walk out.

But then I saw Kate, distancing herself from the other guy whom she was all over on the floor! I walk over to where her and her friends are, make eyecontact and wave. She smiles and I do a 'come here' motion.

Tony - Hey kate! Im actually heading out, but I wanted to let you know it was really nice meeting you
Kate <she blushed 10 shades of red, and the guy looked REALLY frustrated> - Thanks anthony, I had a good time too! <she says with a HUGE smile>
Tony - Hrmmm, are you always this friendly?
Kate <laughs> - Yup! I tend bar back home and they call my Mrs. Happy!
Tony - Oh wow! Well in that case, would you like to get together sometime?
Kate - Sure!
Tony - Cool, do you have a cell phone?

I walked outa that club feeling GREAT. It was a weird evening and I left all my sets WAYYY too early, but I kept up with a really great dancer, made a good impression, and **** blocked some smuck for her #

My thoughts on this: First, I wouldn't of ejected the first time. In a club, it's inevitable that some guy will come hit on her if you leave a hot chick alone. Second, I would have come back to the dance floor, said "what's up" to the guy, and taken the girl back from him. Most guys are not very alpha and will be shocked you had the balls to do this, so this will work in most situations. Third, this chick was OBVIOUSLY feeling you. It was great that you got her number, but you had a chance to lay her THAT NIGHT. I would have told her that I"m leaving to grab some food, and tell her that she should come along. After you eat, you can pull her back to your place to "watch a movie," and you're in.

All in all though, a good night. I'm sure you had lots of fun, and that is really the most important thing. Just be more persistent, and you'll do even better.

Also, if you're ever in the Boston area, hit me up. We'll meet up and sarge and generally have a blast.

-Dan

Reyaj · Apr 30, 2005

I read the first few lines after he arrived at the club. This is either bull **** or some of the easiest girls live in Buffalo NY!

DJ Hawtness · Apr 30, 2005

Originally posted by Jayer
I read the first few lines after he arrived at the club. This is either bull **** or some of the easiest girls live in Buffalo NY!

I read somewhere that Buffalo has the most bars than any other city in the country (not sure if it's true though).

Anyway, no matter where you go, girls have their barriers. Anthony is just a playa', don't be hatin'.

Btw, I go clubbin' by myself too. It's not hard at all, just do it, be sociable, confident, and look good.

TonyTheTigerOI · Apr 30, 2005

A few points to make:
-Im really good looking and I tend to get approached quite often
-Buffalo is a HUGE college town, so during the weekends there are a LOT of young horny girls just waiting for guys
-Ive been clubbing for almost 3 years, even though Im just 18

Delta - My friend (an ASF guy) always tells me I leave too early. I think that just because the convos hit lulls I get bored and leave when it REALLY isnt appropriate? You are right, idefinately shouldnt have left Kate at the end of the night. And when I noticed competition I should have immediately squashed it. But at least I got a 2nd chance with the #. I am not very sure about the Crazy***** liking me... when I saw her later in the evening she just walked right past, not making eyecontact even though I smiled and said hi. Thanks for the input - Ill see you in boston this august!

DJHAWT - Im glad to see theres another guy from buffalo around these forums, get in touch mate!

Super - Do you have a crush on me or somethin? Lol, and I dont tell girls to give me their number because it doesnt tend to work for me? It scares them off, because they realize, "Hey, this guy is really good looking, and he really knows what hes doing." I give them an optional out to save myself the time of calling twice and not getting a date later on.

Overall - When I go out tonight Im going to try and stay in sets just a few minutes longer and spend a little more time just having fun on the dance floor. Thanksf or the replies!

Kai · Apr 30, 2005

i think he does

iveyleeger · Apr 30, 2005

This is believable. I had several really good-looking roommates in college. Personality of doorknobs, brains of a peacock, but damn did the ladies never stop coming.

"Just walking in" is not a method that the average guy can rely on, though, unless you are feeding off the pretty-boy's stream. With the kind of interest these boys draw there is plenty of action at the perimeter. It is worth using them for this.

DJ Hawtness · Apr 30, 2005

Tony, pm me if you want to meet sometime.

Overall, Buffalo is a pretty much a cool city. I didn't know the Marriot had a club in the lobby, but I did go to the Statler Towers Ballroom to pick up chicks...

The weather over here sucks, but the ratio of females to males rockz, xD.

Tony, you should try to be just a little more dominant. If you know you're an attractive guy, girls will know this too.

So don't be afraid to just pull them to the dance floor, lol.

JT47319 · Apr 30, 2005

My advice:

1) Pick a target and stick with it.

2) Be more direct, even when indirectly starting a conversation, at certain point (if you're attracted to her) you must start becoming direct with her. That's simply the natural flow of any attraction process.

3) You don't need to open tons of sets unless you need to practice or for some reason you need to build tons of social proof. You see a girl you want, you go for it. Period.

4) You need to engage in more deep and wide rapport. It sounds like you are simply doing fluff talk. Which is fine in the first 15 minutes, but in order to really hook up with her (assuming she's not drunk and did not intentionally go out that night TO hook up), you need to be able to engage her on multiple emotional levels.

5) You need to lead more often and move the girl around the club. Grab her hand & shoulder and move off somewhere intimate. Don't ask her if she wants to sit down, simply DO IT. Example: Turn around and hold out your hand behind you so she can grab it. If she doesn't it, either look at her with a playful hurt smile/frown OR look at her like she's a social retard. Works like a charm.

6) It sounds like you're being a fun guy, which is cool and make you last longer in the game, but you also need to actually SEDUCE the women mentally/emotionally in addition to the physical/kino/dance game.

7) Ease off on the C&F. Since you're already a good looking guy who can dance and is confident, the C&F can make a girl REALLY insecure since she'll already realize that YOUR value is higher than hers. Which leads us to point # 8.

8) You need to QUALIFY her so that SHE believes that she DESERVES the attention you're giving her. Otherwise she'll be thinking through out the night, "Why is this guy who's out of my league hitting on me?"

platinumike · Apr 30, 2005

Sounds like you had fun. I like how you played through the b!tch's scren, but wasup with her only wanting to F black guys? I would've at least asked her wasup with that or said something like"dont worry, my place is real dark, you wont be able to tell the differnce"

TonyTheTigerOI · May 1, 2005

I did much better last night!

Hey guys! I kept youre advice in mind and I did much better saturday night! Ill type out part of the night (I was out for a long time, from 11-4:00) and then Ive got a pretty weighty question for you guys:

I walked from my wing Marty's house to the Bar Strip downtown. It had rained all day, but cleared up during the evening so the street was packed with people - plenty of cute girls. After entering a handfull of bars and getting stamped (to avoid the high cover price of bar hopping later in the night).

*I made the worst dance floor approach of my life as a warm up!* I Danced up to this group of half guys/girls and just started talkin to them, introducing myself. The guys were cool but the girls werent dancing

Tony - Ok, Dear, If I breakdance will you quit this wallflower act?
Girl - You Breakdance!
Tony - A lil bit... do we have a deal?
Girl - Yeah!

I take a few steps back, limber myself up for a moment, find the beat, and then start a simple sixstep/swipe combination. BUT!!! When I go to swipe my feet hit something REALLY slippery and FLY out from under me and I land clean on my ass. It was terrible. I was so ****ing embarrist, because the dance floor was EMPTY so EVERYONE at the bar was looking AT ME when it happened, lol. I got up, smiled, blushed, grabbed my jacket and went to another bar.

The next bar was packed, and the music was great. I was already burning up from my dance floor accedent, so I was just smiling and saying hi to a few girls who made eyecontact - for the most part keeping quiet. My friend Marty opened a set with a line I did not hear, the two set started laughing. They were obviously drunk, leaning all over him after just a minute. He introduced me, and I turned to the girl he didnt seem to be focusing on

Tony - Its nice to meet you!
Girl - It was nice to meet you too! <she starts half dancing, we are still holding hands from the shake>
Tony - So, dear, what do you do?
Girl <yells> - I DANCE AT SOHO!!!

I start really dancing, she looks at my hips with this amazed expression, then pulls me close and we grind. We chat a little about school (she goes to the same school I do) and then she just blirts out:

Girl - Do you have underwear on?
Tony <laughs> - Why?
Girl - Im here for a bachlorette party and whoever gets the most pairs of boxers wins!
Tony - Oh really? What do you win?
Girl <She starts feeling my chest and unbuttoning my shirt. She slides her hands to my ass and down my pants> You DO have boxers on!
Tony - Of course
Girl - Can I have them?
Tony <bursts out laughing> I donno
Girl - Please?

By now our bodies are intwinded. But I remembered when something like this happened months earlier - as soon as you supplicate they dissapear, onto the next guy. So I just tease her and say maybe as we dance and get to know eachother - but after a song or two she leaves to prey on some other guy. Marty's luck was the same.

I dance by myself in the corner for half a techno song and Marty orders a shot, I see he is cheching out these REALLY cute REALLY well dressed girls. I walk over and throw my arm around him as he makes eyecontact with one of the girls:

Marty - Were not gay, I swear!
Tony <laughing, I wink at the girls... they giggle a bit>
Marty - Its so packed in here tonight, it reminds me about BLABLABLA <he steps closer to his target>

I made eyecontact with one of her friends and smiled, she smiled back and I made a "come here" motion. She walked around marty and I took a few steps to her:

Tony - Hi
Jarlyn - Hey!
Tony - Im Anthony, whats youre name?
Jarlyn <softly takes my hand and steps closer> - Im Jarlyn
Tony - Its nice to meet you... so whats up!
Jarlyn - Im here for my friends bachlorette party <points at girl at bar>
Tony - Oh really? So youre the girls causin all this trouble tonight?
Jarlyn <smiles and does a "who, me? Naaa" look> - Theyre a little roudy, but Ive got to stay sober, my flight leaves at 7:30 tomorrow morning!
Tony - Youre flight... back to Long Island?
Jarlyn - Good guess!!! I was born there, but I live in Conn. now <before I can respond she blirts out> Can I have youre underwear?
Tony - WHAT?!
Jarlyn - Well of all the girls at the party, whoever gets the most mens underwear wins!
Tony - Whats the prize?
Jarlyn - A gift certificate to Macys!!! <a great song comes on and I start half dancing to it, she half dances with me> Can I PLEASE have youre underwear?
Tony - Maybe
Jarlyn - Please?
Tony - I donno, Jarlyn, how will I even get it back?
Jarlyn - Ill give it back to you personally!
Tony - Im not sure

We just banter back and forth about it for the rest of the song, and then she takes me by the hand and pulls me to this corner by the mens room and points to the door

Jarlyn - Please just run in and take them off! <frustrated, she sighs and leans a little forward>
Tony <taking a step closer, slowly rocking my hips against hers at half the beat of the song> - But Jarlyn, honey, I barely know you! How about you tell me what you do?
Jarlyn - I am a social worker at a high school
Tony - Awww! 
Jarlyn - Its not, awww! The damn kids try and beat me up!
Tony - Oh know!
Jarlyn - A fat black girl almost killed me two weeks ago! <laughin>
Tony 
Jarlyn - I waitress, too!
Tony - And how long have you been teaching and waitressing?
Jarlyn - How old do you think I am?
Tony - I dont care
Jarlyn - No, really, how old do you think I am?
Tony - So how old do you think this girl is?
Guy - 24?
Tony - Shes 16 and a half, I sweat to god... whts the world comeing to?
Guy - No way! Let me see youre ID <flirty tone>

THE GUY TRIED TO STEAL MY ****ING SET!!! What an ass, I would have gladly tossed him one of her friends later, but he tried taking MY girl?! What a ****er!

Tony - Yeah she was just tellin me about how shes the youngest correctional officer at juvi, what do you do <stepping front of him, inbetween them, and stare right thru him>?
Guy <notices my body language> - Its all u man, I was just jokin around

Tony - Twenty Six
Jaryln - Damn youre good! - How old are you?
Tony - Im 18
Jarlyn - No, really
Tony -18
Jarlyn - Im serious Anthony, how old are you? <she takes a step back, offended that Im untruthful I take out my ID> - OH MY GOD! <she checks me out from head to toe> Oh, My, god. How did you get in? No wonder youre shy! <we laugh>

I pause for a second, to see where she is going to take the convo, but she blirts out:

Jarlyn - Can I PLEASE have youre underwear now!
Tony - But how will I know youre not just using me for my boxers?
Jarlyn - Im NOT! I promise!

She steps close to me again, our lips were really close, but she wasnt making eyecontact or a move to kiss me. I continued

Tony - Jarlyn, I just dont know if you have a crush on me, or my underwear. I mean, you didnt even ask me what I do?
Jarlyn - What do you do?
Tony - Bad timing... now im almost POSITIVE youre using me for my underwear!
Jarlyn <wraps her arms around me> - How about I give you a nice, wet kiss... as soon as you give me youre underwear?
Tony - See! I feel so used! <with an exaggerated look of shock/pain. I take her hand in mine> I have feelings, you know. Im not just some sex toy you can undress and play with! <we burst out laughin, I put her hand on my heart> Im fagile <puppy dog eyes, again, were close to a kiss but shes not budging. I probably could have leaned in all the way myself, but I wanted to wait till she REALLY wanted it. We just stand there, kinda holdin eachother, moving to the music>
Jarlyn <takes my hand> - I have to find my friends and make sure they didnt leave yet!

While walking to her friends Marty taps me on the shoulder and says that he is leaving. I meet jarlyns friends and taste her drink. I make a weird face and we laugh about it.

TonyTheTigerOI · May 1, 2005

*NOTE* I reccomend the following technique to anyone!!!

I noticed she was carrying a camera, so I pointed at it and held out my hand. She gave it to me, I commented on how many pics she had left. She started talking to a friend so I walked away... with her camera.

I went outside and chilled with the bouncers. She thought she lost her camera. I went back in 10 minutes later and she had a worried, angered expression... untill she saw me. I handed her the camera and she hugged me. From the point I returned from my 10 min absence, when she had been looking all over for me, she was COMPLETELY different. Although her goals SEEMED the same, her presance felt different than It did before. After chatting with everyone she took my hand and led me to the corner again, presumably to ask for my underwear. As soon as she stopped walking I took HER hand and walked her to the patio, where it is much quieter.

Jarlyn - Anthony, I would really appreciate if you gave me youre underwear. Im the only girl who hasnt got a pair yet.
Tony - But Jarlyn, Im still not sure if you even like me. I dont want to give you my underwear and have you run off to some other guy... then Ill have to find some other cute Long Island girl to hang out with And I think youre really cute and fun
Jarlyn <she smiles and leans against me> - I wont run to anyone else, I promise
Tony - But how do I know? Youre not even looking into my eyes, or asking me about my life. I know Long Island girls dont have any game but I just want to be sure
Jarlyn - Honey, Im not some player... Im a nice girl Im not going to ditch you!
Tony - Youre a nice girl? <she draws a halo around her head> But Im trying to find a fun girl that can keep up with me
Jarlyn - Oh, really? Im not quite shure YOU can keep up with ME!
Tony - Is that a fact?

I take her by the hand, lead her to an empty space back inside the bar, set my cup down and put one hand on my hips like, "well?" She set her camera and drink down. I held out my hand, she took it and I slowly moved my hips to the music towards her. WHAT A DIFFERENCE FROM THE HALF DANCING EARLIER!!! We were grinding really, really hard. I braced myself with the pool table and pulled her close, she was runnin her fingers thru my hair. When the song ended we were entwined, she took me by the arm over to her friends to show me off. As soon as we got over to her friends they all kept giving her that, "oh my god hes sooo hot!" look. One girl said "You guys look really good together." They were all half dancing, but me and Jarlyn went to town. They gave us some space, clapped and wistled because I could keep up with her. After two songs they all dispursed, and I took a few steps away and solo'd for a min during a dance/techno song. I pulled her close, this time with her ass on my crotch, and wispered "Skip a beat." So we were FULL dancing at HALF rhythm, which is REALLY errotic. "Anthony you are an unbelievable dancer." I turn her around, so her back is against the wall of the DJ booth. Going half beet, I stop grinding side to side, and grind back to forward (exactly like a thrusting motion, but youre body moves more vertical than horizontal). Her eyes get REALLY wide (I must have been putting a lot of pressure on her ****). I use my hand to brace myself on the DJ booth and keep this up for the rest of the song. When its over she looks deep into my eyes and leans in towards my lips. I pull back just far enough to avoid lip contact for a min, put my arms around her, and then kiss her - WOW.

Half an hour later the bride to be wanted to leave, and Jarlyn had to go to. Unluckily enough, they were headed to the only bar I CANT get in. I tell her I will meet her infront of the pizza shop in an hour. She meets me with some TERRIBLE AFC whos following her. This kid was so pathetic it hurt to just ice him... but I should have. He took like 10 min of our time, then we started making out when he left... "Anthony I love your lips." She slid her hands up my shirt and started to kiss my neck when her friends came out. The bride to be was in a TERRIBLE mood. She grabbed Jarlyn and stormed to her car. Jarlyn told me to call her at 4:00, she would be back at her hotel.

When I called she was asleep. **** her *****y friends... I deserved that goddamn lay!!! ARRRGGGHHH!!! Could this have been avoided?

Also... during the hour I was not with Jarlyn I ran into a very attractive bartender. I had met her a few weeks earlier and she remembered my name. When I said "Excuse me" she smiled, walked over and put her hands in my open palms and said, "You want water, right Anthony?" (I always drink water while Im out). We talked for a bit, she asked me how my night was going, blablabla. She seemed genuinely interested. I left the club shortly after her and I spoke... any tips for bartenders?

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY!!! Most of the girls I approach are drunken 8's. They are uninhibited enough to show me they are very attracted to me, so we make eyecontact, smile, wave and I just introduce myself, ask them 'whats up,' and what they do and let convo go from there. Marty opened with Jarlyn's 8.0 friend, jarlyn was an 8.8. How can I approach 9's? Ive found that they rarely give eyecontact (It doesnt help that I am only 5'10, most guys at this club are pretty attractive, but tall and in good shape). How do you guys approach 9.0+'s, or just girls in general, w/o eyecontact? I would REALLY appreciate feedback/examples!

PRMoon · May 1, 2005

Good outings Tony! I can tell your defniatly not BSing cause your experiences/demanor are similar to mine when i'm hitting up the clubs around my town.

Some of your practices are a bit different then mine, but I could see how they could work as well.

My question to you is what tactics do you use to get into your clubs. 9 times out of 10 for me i bank on connections to get on the guest list. Or I'll know one of the door men and they'll walk me in. I know some executives and GM's but I find that unless i'm trying to get a table or something like that they aren't much help if I just show up day of and want to get in.

PRMoon · May 1, 2005

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Soory kid, your story seems unbelievable!

For people who don't believe tony, what are your club experiences like? I mean from what I read of his post, what he's doing should be standard club DJing.

What does a typical night of clubbing consist of for you guys?

PuertoRican_Lover · May 1, 2005

Tony's stories sound like a romance novel -- a bit dramatic!

If his stories are true then it is not really about the "game" he is spilling that is getting these girls - it is that he is hanging out in hor establishments where women are exremely easy with overbearing strangers.

Tony, you portray yourself as a god in your looks - show us a pic?

JT47319 · May 1, 2005

They don't sound particularly fake to me. In Hollywood, some of my friends are male models and they do get reactions similar or better than what Tony gets.

I would however caution newbies out there that you probably aren't going to learn to much from Tony's reports, however entertaining they are. When you have looks, the Game is significantly easier not to mention you're automatically coming with higher value then the girls. When you are of average looks, you really have to have Game then. That's where actually SKILLS come in.

One thing that's good though for newbies is that Tony has the right attitude and confidence. And that's something that newbies can learn from and emulate.

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