Club Report: **** grabbers!

[nan3109]

Well, last night me and some of my friends decided to hit the club Stargate. The only thing is that I knew my girlfriend was gonna be there :-(

At first things went great... we got in for free and even got VIP access. With my girlfriend there I really didnt feel like approaching any girls and hitting on them but my friend told me that if you go up to any girl and just say "hey, you have to be the SEXIEST girl in here.. what's your name?" and then proceed to ask them to a party on the weekend it'll usually work.

When I went out on the dance floor I had a couple girls butt bump me so I would turn around and dance with them. This technique seemed to work the most. Oxide and I thought about double teaming groups of girls but when he'd grab a girl they kept pushing him off (LOL, sorry oxide!).

Then when I was dancing in the middle of the dance floor amongst a crowd this girl who I didn't know started dancing on me from behind and she reached around and started massaging my ****/balls within like 20 secs of dancing with me. She continued that for awhile then she ran off with her friend prolly to grab more ****/balls! (TRUE STORY, this happened to me 3 times) I also got my asss pinched about 10 times throughout the night b girls who'd do it and I would turn around and I wouldn't see who dun it.

Anyways, some help here. If I'm getting my butt pinched like crazy, getting my **** grabbed, and all that jazz..... is it possible that I should try approacing more girls instead of letting them come to me? If they're doing all this stuff obviously I got what it takes... or maybe is it just girl teasing without any real liking towards me?

 

[Oxide]

HAHAHAHA, lol matt, you sound like "im a little boy, girls are hitting on me, what do i do?" lol sorry bud thats just how i read it.

How was the afterparty?

 

[nan3109]

GET ON INSTANT MESSENGER YOU FOO!

no the afterparty was me and 2 girls -) ) one being my girlfriend -( ) j/k

we ended up getting drunk, walking outside to the pool (this is a apt. complex) and we were gonna have sex in the pool but then when i got BUTT ASS naked at 2am some GUYS (AAHH!!) walked by and were wooing and **** at my girlfriend.

we went back inside and had sex in the shower/tub/ whatever way i could bend her over for about 2 hours while everyone TRIED to sleep (we were banging and making alot of noise).

then we got lost on the way home and i didnt get here until like 5am

Ryan ended up going to Chaska with his girl and another girl (i would've gone with him if i didnt have my girl with me).

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and the whole posted message I did. I'm just curious if those girls are A. **** teasers and not intersted or B. Thats what girls do when they're interested

you gotta remember I used to be more than AFC and had this paranoid personality complex where I never knew if people were genuine in their actions.

Hey, i also met 5 girls from my freakin MIDDLE SCHOOL who i havent seen in like 5-10 years! They were like "oh my god! matt peschong is that you? you look so different... i mean look at those muscles!" it was cool. i didnt recognize them either. I should've invitied them to a party but I was WAY to suprised and dumbfounded that they were there. I mean, I used to be a geek and them the hottest girls in my middle school and now they're wanting ME!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'd tell them that they have to buy a ticket, why should they be able to get their rocks off for free? Be careful though, try their move on one of them and they're liable to yell sexual harassment if things don't go their way.

 

[Oxide]

oh whatever, fvck sexual harrasment. Im dancing yesterday and feel somone grab my ass... alright, i dont care i keep on dancing. AGAin someone grabs my ass.... so i turn around, see 3 girls. I look at one and she smiles. I come close and say "You cant get something for nothing" and grab her ass....

I'd say when this happens, it usually means girls are trying to hit on you, even tho there are a lot of *****es in clubs who just do this for **** and giggles. When some chick does this to you, call her on it and feel her up , or tell her she owes you a dance.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Originally posted by Oxide
When some chick does this to you, call her on it and feel her up , or tell her she owes you a dance.

Fsck that, tell her to buy you a damn drink!

I've used this one recently, and it works! (Amazingly)

Osc.

 

[nan3109]

HA! i thought it was funny when I saw you from afar dancing by yourself and having a hell of a good time oxide...

meh, i dont think i would use lines on girls on the dance floor considering its loud as heck and considering you have an accent (LOL)

I think next time when im without my g/f which will probably be friday night at tropix or waterworks i'll just go up to any girl behind me and grab her and start dancing. If she pushes me away I'll just walk off like no big deal.

HA! I remember when one girl was PRYING you off from her... that was hilarious!

 

[Oxide]

just another *****....

and chciks dig my accent

 

[One on One]

I go to the club and one of my chick friends always pinches my butt...every night I go. I'm pretty darn sure she's just teasing. Anyways, can a guy pinch a girl's butt or is that gay or just grab it or what? What's the deal? I grind with this chick all the time and feel her as much as I can.

 

[tx_xp]

I'm a little older than many of the people on here, I say that because I used to go to the clubs in the early 90s. I bring this up because the club scene has changed a lot over the years. In the 90s you would never see so much ass grabbing or bumping going on. I didn't go to clubs for a very long time and then one day went, I was amazed at how much it had changed.

Again, the type of club you go to will vary on this a lot and so will teh area. Just because a girl bumps you or grinds you doesn't mean she is or isn't teasing. It could be that she likes you or it could just be that she is flirting or maybe just would like to get to know you a little better.

The conditions you describe are prime for picking chicks up in part because you can do it without looking too much like are you trying to. Dance, have fun and let them come to you. The one you want may not bump you per se, but perhaps you will find that she is always a little closer to you. Learn to scan your immidiate area more often even when you are dancing with another girl, you may find a hottie right there waiting to be hit on (danced with).

My methods or the methods I describe go directly against the grain of much of what others on here suggest. But I have found that you can pick raise girls interest level (including having your ass or hand grabbed) while you are dancing with a different girl. Use a crowded night club to your advantage, but you have to know and learn how to do it right without being a freak.

 

[MoMurda]

Originally posted by nan3109
Well, last night me and some of my friends decided to hit the club Stargate. The only thing is that I knew my girlfriend was gonna be there :-(

At first things went great... we got in for free and even got VIP access. With my girlfriend there I really didnt feel like approaching any girls and hitting on them but my friend told me that if you go up to any girl and just say "hey, you have to be the SEXIEST girl in here.. what's your name?" and then proceed to ask them to a party on the weekend it'll usually work.

When I went out on the dance floor I had a couple girls butt bump me so I would turn around and dance with them. This technique seemed to work the most. Oxide and I thought about double teaming groups of girls but when he'd grab a girl they kept pushing him off (LOL, sorry oxide!).

Then when I was dancing in the middle of the dance floor amongst a crowd this girl who I didn't know started dancing on me from behind and she reached around and started massaging my ****/balls within like 20 secs of dancing with me. She continued that for awhile then she ran off with her friend prolly to grab more ****/balls! (TRUE STORY, this happened to me 3 times) I also got my asss pinched about 10 times throughout the night b girls who'd do it and I would turn around and I wouldn't see who dun it.

Anyways, some help here. If I'm getting my butt pinched like crazy, getting my **** grabbed, and all that jazz..... is it possible that I should try approacing more girls instead of letting them come to me? If they're doing all this stuff obviously I got what it takes... or maybe is it just girl teasing without any real liking towards me?

Whati s the problem here?.......none? aight, enjoy dat **** man, Alot of guys don't recieve that kinda of attention and when they do ast lerast they enjoy/know-to-handle it. Try rubbing her stink-box next time ,see what happens.

 

[Oxide]

tx_xp, you are right on the money.

having the "im here to have fun and i dont need a girl to do it" attitude makes girls approach you.
ive been going clubbing for more than 5 years, and ive seen a lot of tricks people use.
I am in a club to have fun, dance like wind and get numbers IF i want to.

When i go to clubs in USA, it amazes me how many people think you MUST dance with a girl.... if u dance by yourself it is "strange?" who the hell came up with that misconception.

I see sexy girls dance by themselves, and i know they are my type of girls. they know they are the sh!t, and they dont need any guys to dance with them.

Same thing here. I dont need a chick, if i want one ill get one.

 

[nan3109]

meh, im still just a little confused on everything....

I think I wanna meet a girl that I can do something with outside of the club sexually...

WHAT would be the best way of getting a girl from the club, getting her number, and getting her to party/sex with you?

 

[tx_xp]

Hmm..

Perhaps you are turning them off by something you are doing or how you are handling something.


Another mistake that you may be doing, and it is an easy one to do is spending too much time with a girl that is not going to go as far as you want to go.

One of the biggest peices of advice I could probably give you is to invite her to sit down for a while. Once you sit down, see where things go from there. If she is very interested she will sit down with you and if you do things right, you'll be happy.

 

[Oxide]

tx, how old are u man, hit me up on AIM- graffstyle7 we'll talk about this.

 

[icehot]

Ok, i'm lost...

girlies are grabbing your a ss, rubbing your crooch and you are confused?

You just need to convert them with a C/F line and get the digits.

I usually use something like...

"Hey, the first one is free. But after that, there's a 2 drink minimum.."

Then kino them.


-iceH

 

[DIESEL]

Stargate is a lame club.. what are you guys even old enough to drink? that place is crawling with jailbait!

But then again there are no cool clubs in the Twin Cities.. yet another reason I didn't stick around after school was over...

 

[nan3109]

i'm too young to drink....

its kinda hard to drag a girl from the middle of the PIT of people and invite her to leave her friends with you and sit down to talk.

i think it would be easier to find a girl already sitting down and just go up and sit next to her and say "hey beautiful, lemme see you smile!" and wait for her to do it and then say "see, i knew you had a beautiful smile" then proceed to ask her name, where shes from, what shes doing tonight, and tell her you and your friends are getting together for an after party and invite her to come along. Get the number and tell her you'll call her later that night for the party.

 

[Oxide]

diesel, hit me up on AIM- graffstyle7. where in MN are u from?