club got rejected many times

[funketekun]

i aproached over 12 girls in the club on the weekend. I went there and made EC and smile to them. Some of them looked away, 1 or 2 smiled back and looked away. But i didnt talk to them.
I dunno if this is a good sign or bad sign.

 

[PleasureKing]

Nice, you made EC and smile. you passed step 1. step 2 is to initiate convo. once you get good at that, go to step 3, which is a number close.

once you pass step 3, come back and ill tell you step 4.

 

[Jay Jay]

A smile is a good sign.

 

[funketekun]

PleasureKing

very hard to initiate covo cause its so loud. i have no idea how people can have a convesration in the club. i find it really noise. Everytime i speak loud in the club i ended up with a sore throat.

 

[brake-it01]

funketekun, well u can bring her outside, most of the clubs I went there is an outside place where you can talk normally because the music isn't really loud, find a reason and bring her outside

 

[Flabbergasped?]

In clubs, I open with dancing 70% of the time. If you make the dancing fun, it's like an insta-date. Shows your personality, its action-oriented, and can be extremely sexual. It's too loud to even bother speaking. The 30% of times I don't dance, I look, smile, wait for the smile back, walk up to them and start kinoing. If you feel obliged to talk, just say 'hi'. Unless you're in a quiet section or you guys are really close (maybe at a bar with the noise behind you), you probably won't have a good convo, and it would be hard to establish enough attraction to lead her elsewhere without dancing. I recommend dancing for most of all club interactions, personally.

 

[Heyjose25points]

I have found my answer for at frat parties, with just dancing with them. But when i just want to approach them, I wait for the eye contact and then approach! If its impossible to get the eye contact, I then go for the approach. Thanks Flabbergasped.

 

[WC2]

Why are you setting yourself up to approach 12 women? What a waste of time.

You can learn a lot more by making a more viable approach to 1 or 2 women than just making a pass at 12.

You're setting yourself up for failure if you're setting goals. I've said this time and time over again; Seducing women is not a science!

You don't need to set goals or go by rules. All it takes is just asking yourself what you want out of it.

What do you want out of an approach? Every person is different.

When I go into an approach I look forward to seeing a woman smile, seeing what she's thinking, making her laugh, and maybe even getting a laugh from her. Some people call this a cold approach, but to me there's no such thing as cold approaches.

I feel like they're warm approaches, because not only do I know what I'm going to get out of it, but I also know I'm going to enjoy it.

If you can't enjoy your conversation with a woman, then how do you expect her to enjoy it?

Ask yourself what you want from the approach, and work on it from there. Don't create set lines, create a set idea of where you want this approach to go.

Setting up 10+ approaches with no idea of what is going to be an enjoyable approach, is like batting blind.

 

[funketekun]

wc2,
i agree, Ill set what i want next time im in the club. Obviously, i wanna bang them hehehehe.

 

[TheHoff]

yeah just do your thing man, walk in and be the ****iest mofo in the club.

A little procedure i used to go through on the dancefloor was:

go up to the girl and take her hand and spin her around!! do it playfully, they really love it and it sets you up for more dancing and then its all down to how smooth you are!but always remember to smile, BTW its much easier to do it with a few drinks in you lol

 

[funketekun]

thehoff,
there was this chick i made EC and smile and she smiled back and turned her away. Then i grabbed her by the waist, she was like grabbing my arm off her real quick. I dunno if that was the right procedure.

 

[TheHoff]

lol awesome! it may have been the right move, but to be honest hands on the waist right off the bat can be a little too much too soon, but it depends on the girl! my little hand procedure usually works a treat if the girl is into you!! If she has a little drink in then it should definately work!!! Also, remember that there are plenty of reasons a girl can blow you out that have nothing to do with you so don't ever take it personally, just have fun with it!!!

Another one of my favourites on the floor:

if your in a group of friends all dancing and see a group of fine babes then back your way into them, and pretend you fell into them, or just back your way into them and smile and start talking!! usually the guy thats having the most fun has the most success in clubs

 

[Plain & Simple]

I really cant believe it, you approached 12 girls.

At a club.

And you didn get not 1 number?!

Normally when im at a club i do not approach 12 girls thats way too much maybe 3 or 4, 3 or 4 only that im interested in, i might be interested in many others but i dont try to get theit number or nothijg just dance with them and joke with them thats about it, they be shock sometimes you should see some of their faces when they wonder why i didn't get/ask for their number.


My perfect way of getting a number at a club/party is by saying "I know of this party going on tomorrow/next week/whenever/ its gonna be real hot, you should brin your friends so we can all have a good time"

Depending how your lingo or your slang or the way you talk you'll change the way you say it, like i dont say it exacly like that , but you get the ideal.
I always include "bring your friends" that lets her know that you are not really just about her and all into her but that you are more about having fun.


Good luck next time though.

 

[funketekun]

pain&simple.

"bring your friends" tried it before, but it doesnt make any difference.
I didnt get any numbers cause i didnt speak to them. I approached to sets of 2, 3, 4 made EC and smiled to one by one. so it was more than 12 girls.

 

[Latinoman]

PleasureKing

very hard to initiate covo cause its so loud. i have no idea how people can have a convesration in the club. i find it really noise. Everytime i speak loud in the club i ended up with a sore throat.

So...if that is a problem...then why did you choose that kind of venue?

Do you think a woman is going to open her legs to you because of a "smile"?

 

[TheHoff]

So...if that is a problem...then why did you choose that kind of venue?

Do you think a woman is going to open her legs to you because of a "smile"?

Clubs are FUN and the best place to meet women (they are full of them)

 

[funketekun]

i remember something else. There were these 2 hot chicks, i believe they were the hottest in the club. But i dont know how they look like in day time. I only know they look good in the club.
so, they were talking to each other and i approach and make EC for like 3 seconds but they dont look at me they just look away. it was funny. seems like they were trying not to look at me. they were no trying to ignore me or something but i felt like they were trying to look away. I say it cause i stood in front of them very closed and made EC to them and smiled.

 

[00Kevin]

good start by you need to make another 88

 

[funketekun]

00kevin,

need to make another 88? what does that mean?

 

[ProDJ26]

funketekun --- good job bro **** everytyme i go to a club i barely get contact more or less a smile! haha now all you gotta do is get them in a convo or on the dance floor...