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ryanvalmont
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lol.....dude,it doesn't really matter what ya wear
Just create ya own sytle...something new and cool
Just create ya own sytle...something new and cool
JT47319
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Wear generic style Gap, Structure, Banana Republic, & Abercrombie type clothing so you BLEND IN with everyone else and NOT GET NOTICED. ;-P
ryanvalmont
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ummmmm no!!,the hole idea is YOU WANT TO BE NOTICED!
Of course if you can;'t handle that JT then i guess that's cool for you
JT47319
Master Don Juan
You seemed to have missed the essence of sarcasm. I mean, really, neutral girls? LOL
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is all bullsh*t. You don't need any special wear. What you wear is who you are, more or less, so if your lady can't bear that, well maybe she's not the lady for you. Also, I've seen such weird combos guy/girl that I believe anything is possible and clothes are the least that matters. Even the most appropriate (I will refrain from saying 'best') clothes will end up meaningless if your words come out wrong. However, it is well possible that you hook up with a girl despite you wearing a $5 Hawaii shirt, shorts and flip-flops and she in a $500 dress.
Also
Also
Teh funnay!
SIXPAKGQ
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Clothing is an accessory that can be used to offset or compliment other details, but in itself does not make or break a deal. Simply wearing a sharp shirt won't pull the ladies in. If you want clothing to give you an edge, you'll need something else to define the unique element you want to attract.
For example, I'm stuck with a black-ink tribal tattoo from 10 years back that starts at my wrist and extends up my arm. It was cool when I was 21 and hitting the rock clubs, but I've had my days since then wishing it was never there. I realized this "mistake" could be revamped into somthing impishly unique and enjoyable again by dressing sharp and using the clash created in appearance as an uncommon, perhaps mysterious edge.
Anyway, the point is that clothing is part of a bigger picture that creates an interest, and those other things need to be taken into consideration. You can take three identical triplets, put them in the same get up, and give each one a unique hair style and they will not all attract the same type of women.
So goes the same backwards. Same hair but different clothes and so on....
Just something to keep in mind as you shop around for garb.
For example, I'm stuck with a black-ink tribal tattoo from 10 years back that starts at my wrist and extends up my arm. It was cool when I was 21 and hitting the rock clubs, but I've had my days since then wishing it was never there. I realized this "mistake" could be revamped into somthing impishly unique and enjoyable again by dressing sharp and using the clash created in appearance as an uncommon, perhaps mysterious edge.
Anyway, the point is that clothing is part of a bigger picture that creates an interest, and those other things need to be taken into consideration. You can take three identical triplets, put them in the same get up, and give each one a unique hair style and they will not all attract the same type of women.
So goes the same backwards. Same hair but different clothes and so on....
Just something to keep in mind as you shop around for garb.
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The international male **** looked SOO GAY. And this is coming from an express card wielding banana republic shopper.
They look like cheesy stylish clothes.
They look like cheesy stylish clothes.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
masteralios
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simple
jus wear clothes that u look good in and ur comfortable in
same clothes on different people can look way different
if its ur style and ur comfortable in it then the girls will be happy aswell
simple
jus wear clothes that u look good in and ur comfortable in
same clothes on different people can look way different
if its ur style and ur comfortable in it then the girls will be happy aswell
jakethasnake
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Those kinds of clothes are known as "peacokking" items, in SS terms. It's all about being as flashy as possible - this in principle works very well in a club setting, where one has to rely on visual cues to succeed in a pick up. In a club, it's all about your physical presentation, and this includes clothes. I agree that in a normal setting, 90% of the clothes at Internation Male are HOMO as fvck - you'd probably get stones hurled at you by frat boys.
But in a club setting, these clothes actually do work - provided that you have the mental edge - the bravado, the self-assuredness, the ****iness to make this work. It's all in the head, basically. The fact is that flamboyant clothes/appearances get you attention in clubs. And don't misunderstand - a lot people will think you're gay. Like most hetero men who just fear what they don't understand (hey PRL!
), and yes - even women. But that's where your unwavering masculine confidence and charm come in. No matter how 'gay' you look - if you approach women like a man and spit tight game at her, she should relent regardless. I actually used to peacokk A LOT (unfortunately. I used to peacokk like hell without understanding most or any pick up principles on this site and at SS) - I'd try to have the most outrageous designs and colors as possible, but after a while, I got bored - and actually dressing sensibly became a new challenge for me. I guess you could say that I went from dressing like a 'club wh0re' to a rocker/preppy look. I need to reassess my wardrobe - I get compliments on my style in non-club settings, but I've noticed (with some input from a few forum members here, one of whom I've been out with) that I merely blend in at clubs. While the International Male stuff isn't 100% my style, I believe that I can incorporate this stuff to a certain extent to mix with my regular wardrobe to achieve my "club look". Of course, I would keep that shyt seperate from my everyday/non-club clothes, coz frankly it DOES look gay. Not stupid gay - but 'a bit TOO stylish for a straight guy' kinda gay.
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JT47319
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What I would recommend is to treat clothing and peacokking as an extension of your personality.
So if you are boring, neutral, and otherwise a wallflower then yes, generic clothing like Abercrombie, BR, etc. will do. It will not, however, get you noticed or OPENED by girls.
But if you consider yourself fun and cool, well, one must then dress fun and cool. There are different styles, but the intent is to visually CONVEY YOUR PERSONALITY through your clothes.
So if you are a meathead, then DRESS LIKE A BADASS MEATHEAD. Girls love that archetype. If you are an Emo Rocker, then DRESS LIKE A EMO ROCKER. If you are a surfer type, then DRESS LIKE A SURFER.
But whatever you do, don't do it half-assed, one foot in a "uniquely personalized, make it your own dress style" and the other foot in "let's play it safe & generic so I don't get made fun because I'm not secure enough." Don't play it safe, be unique, be outgoing.
Whoever you are, you most VERBALLY and VISUALLY convey your personality in order for a girl to notice and be attracted to you. And another added benefit of serious peacokking with a unique style is that girls WILL OPEN YOU.
The ones I get opened on are some crazy punk items that I have, girls will just GRAB MY CLOTHES and be like, "Oh my god, I love that!" She's already done half the battle. Open, IOI, my turn.
So if you are boring, neutral, and otherwise a wallflower then yes, generic clothing like Abercrombie, BR, etc. will do. It will not, however, get you noticed or OPENED by girls.
But if you consider yourself fun and cool, well, one must then dress fun and cool. There are different styles, but the intent is to visually CONVEY YOUR PERSONALITY through your clothes.
So if you are a meathead, then DRESS LIKE A BADASS MEATHEAD. Girls love that archetype. If you are an Emo Rocker, then DRESS LIKE A EMO ROCKER. If you are a surfer type, then DRESS LIKE A SURFER.
But whatever you do, don't do it half-assed, one foot in a "uniquely personalized, make it your own dress style" and the other foot in "let's play it safe & generic so I don't get made fun because I'm not secure enough." Don't play it safe, be unique, be outgoing.
Whoever you are, you most VERBALLY and VISUALLY convey your personality in order for a girl to notice and be attracted to you. And another added benefit of serious peacokking with a unique style is that girls WILL OPEN YOU.
The ones I get opened on are some crazy punk items that I have, girls will just GRAB MY CLOTHES and be like, "Oh my god, I love that!" She's already done half the battle. Open, IOI, my turn.
