Clever thing one of my plates does that took me a while to understand

[RazorRambo24]

She would always use my phone to talk to her friends... like message them on IG, send audio messages, pictures, from my IG or call them from my phone and just talk to them casually while we're hanging out. At first, I thought she was jus mad comfortable/treating me like her man which is ideal because def don't want her to think / know I'm spinnin plates.. All in all I didnt think too much about it. But after speakin to one of my boys over drinks, I came to the conclusion that the reason she does this, is basically to let her hoe ass friends know that "HEY, Don't try anything funny, I'm on his phone all the time.. " almost like a warning /banner that lets them know if they try to talk to me or vice versa, she'll know.

Idk if it comes out of insecurity/lack of trust of her friends but she knows that I used to be big into the nightlife, and her friends are involved in nightlife currently, while she works 40-50 hour weeks as a nurse. Its funny and I guess its clever in a way..

She's respectful enough tho that she doesnt ever open my snapchat or whatsapp.. prob cuz she knows that messages delete after 24 hours anyways (i keep my plates divided by apps)

 

[BillyPilgrim]

This is crossing a boundary imo. I'd make up some story where you left you phone unatended at work or something and someone got into it and you had to change the password or whatever. Say you've got sensititve work info or family stuff, etc and you can't let others use your phone.

And check her next time on anything pushy, she sounds like a boundary creeper.

Also, nurses tend to be promiscuous. Projection perhaps?

 

[RazorRambo24]

This is crossing a boundary imo. I'd make up some story where you left you phone unatended at work or something and someone got into it and you had to change the password or whatever. Say you've got sensititve work info or family stuff, etc and you can't let others use your phone.

And check her next time on anything pushy, she sounds like a boundary creeper.

Also, nurses tend to be promiscuous. Projection perhaps?

Nah she doesn't know my password or anything. I use fingerprint to get into my phone, alternatively you can still use the line dot password thing but she doesn't know mine lol. I jus unlock my phone for her to use it..

I'm not bothered by it at all. I think she deserves at least that much.. shes a solid 9 man.. I think that ugly girls/average girls would prob try to sneak into your phone when you're not around/leave it unattended and ask for your password and stuff as you mentioned.

I rarely get "creeper" vibes from 9s or 10s. . Last chick I had creeper vibes from was some 7 who I met at a holiday event at some bar, went back the next day, and she's like heyyy I forgot to add u on social media. I went to go and search for my account, and i saw like 20 names in her search history, all my name with a diff last name variation. It was a HUGE turnoff lol

 

[Murk]

Giving anyone access to your phone is a no-go for me except for close friends (day 1s). Simply no need in 2023 and beyond.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Nah she doesn't know my password or anything. I use fingerprint to get into my phone, alternatively you can still use the line dot password thing but she doesn't know mine lol. I jus unlock my phone for her to use it..

I'm not bothered by it at all. I think she deserves at least that much.. shes a solid 9 man.. I think that ugly girls/average girls would prob try to sneak into your phone when you're not around/leave it unattended and ask for your password and stuff as you mentioned.

I rarely get "creeper" vibes from 9s or 10s. . Last chick I had creeper vibes from was some 7 who I met at a holiday event at some bar, went back the next day, and she's like heyyy I forgot to add u on social media. I went to go and search for my account, and i saw like 20 names in her search history, all my name with a diff last name variation. It was a HUGE turnoff lol

By "creeper" I mean become possessive behavior that increases by increments, not being weird/awkward. That's what I'd look out for and if she herself also considers herself a 9, she may feel entitled to possessive/beta-izing behavior.

 

[RazorRambo24]

By "creeper" I mean become possessive behavior that increases by increments, not being weird/awkward. That's what I'd look out for and if she herself also considers herself a 9, she may feel entitled to possessive/beta-izing behavior.

Nah shes been good, its been 2 years now.. she hasn't really been an issue as far as possessive or controlling behavior or any of that. We got a really good thing going. She jokes about stuff like "your other hoes" and i just play it off .. its all in good fun tho . She has asked me before if I see a future with her, and then just laughed about it as if she was joking.. and im like yea maybe. We keep it playful and I'm sure she ponders about commitment and whatnot. Its only normal, but never acted crazy about it. I broke down alot of stuff early on about how I feel connections between 2 people should be unspoken and not need a label on it and all that.. I really get all fake pseudo spiritual nd sht when I break all that sht down even tho its mostly 80% crock and 20% what I truly feel.

Idk im good with words I think thats the key to it all, good with words, good with actions.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Nah shes been good, its been 2 years now.. she hasn't really been an issue as far as possessive or controlling behavior or any of that. We got a really good thing going. She jokes about stuff like "your other hoes" and i just play it off .. its all in good fun tho . She has asked me before if I see a future with her, and then just laughed about it as if she was joking.. and im like yea maybe. We keep it playful and I'm sure she ponders about commitment and whatnot. Its only normal, but never acted crazy about it. I broke down alot of stuff early on about how I feel connections between 2 people should be unspoken and not need a label on it and all that.. I really get all fake pseudo spiritual nd sht when I break all that sht down even tho its mostly 80% crock and 20% what I truly feel.

Idk im good with words I think thats the key to it all, good with words, good with actions.

There's definitely a vibrational synergy when you have a good connection

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

for the love of god IDK how you let a female hold down your phone, my heart would stop. I barely let them pick songs on the bluetooth in the car lol to each is own

 

[RazorRambo24]

for the love of god IDK how you let a female hold down your phone, my heart would stop. I barely let them pick songs on the bluetooth in the car lol to each is own

Gotta be smooth. Its worse if you act weird about it homie. When you're dealing with 9's and 10's, you can't afford to be acting weird or shaky.. Losing a 9 or 10 is def more of a reason for your heart to stop than anyting else.. Most dudes can't get a dime if their life depended on it.

I been doin this sht so long lol.. these days its too easy.. whatsapp and snapchat both deleted messages instantly or u can keep them for 24 hours.. so nothing to be afraid about these days really.. gotta know how to separate your plates/chicks on diff apps.. so if u talk to one through IG, talk to another through snap, and another throuh whatsapp,.. On my phone you got a trusted texts folder so if you talk to a chick and u dont want another chick to find text messages, u just delete her messages, and u can restore them anytime lol.. Thats what I do off bat just as a precaution becuase I talk to this chick thru texts or phone calls.

When you got female friends tho its easy to make excuses .. like "oh thats one of my friends from college" etc--if your girls ever ask.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Nobody except me touches my phone. Screw that...no reason to ever let this happen.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Nobody except me touches my phone. Screw that...no reason to ever let this happen.

Heard a very amusing story not long ago regarding this. Some dope got busted because his plate put his phone to his face while he was asleep and she went through and found the others plus the girlfriend and told them all he was in bed with her.

 

[Divorced w 3]

She would always use my phone to talk to her friends... like message them on IG, send audio messages, pictures, from my IG or call them from my phone and just talk to them casually while we're hanging out. At first, I thought she was jus mad comfortable/treating me like her man which is ideal because def don't want her to think / know I'm spinnin plates.. All in all I didnt think too much about it. But after speakin to one of my boys over drinks, I came to the conclusion that the reason she does this, is basically to let her hoe ass friends know that "HEY, Don't try anything funny, I'm on his phone all the time.. " almost like a warning /banner that lets them know if they try to talk to me or vice versa, she'll know.

Idk if it comes out of insecurity/lack of trust of her friends but she knows that I used to be big into the nightlife, and her friends are involved in nightlife currently, while she works 40-50 hour weeks as a nurse. Its funny and I guess its clever in a way..

She's respectful enough tho that she doesnt ever open my snapchat or whatsapp.. prob cuz she knows that messages delete after 24 hours anyways (i keep my plates divided by apps)

I have to be honest. You project a very solid frame and to hear this from all people, is surprising. I am in limbo on this. One hand, any stuff that pops up in her presence to me, is a value multiplier on my end. I’m gonna fly to Florida this weekend for a quickie with my boys that’s long overdue and that’s a residual SMV multiplier and some broad or other good news coming at you if she’s doing your Spotify or something to me feels similar. On the other, see the above quote. I was so dead.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

WTF....... i dont even let my wife on my phone, having her locked out by code.

No way Jose!

 

[Divorced w 3]

WTF....... i dont even let my wife on my phone, having her locked out by code.

No way Jose!

Mine was as well. It drove her absolutely insane. She takes Xanax now.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Heard a very amusing story not long ago regarding this. Some dope got busted because his plate put his phone to his face while he was asleep and she went through and found the others plus the girlfriend and told them all he was in bed with her.

Hahaha that is pretty hilarious! I don't use that, I have a password setup

 

[Divorced w 3]

Hahaha that is pretty hilarious! I don't use that, I have a password setup

Yeah when I heard that, and sleep in the company of my lady friend, I switch to password only lol.

 

[RazorRambo24]

WTF....... i dont even let my wife on my phone, having her locked out by code.

No way Jose!

Theres a huge difference between a committed marriage, and a NSA relationship breh.

I have to be honest. You project a very solid frame and to hear this from all people, is surprising. I am in limbo on this. One hand, any stuff that pops up in her presence to me, is a value multiplier on my end. I’m gonna fly to Florida this weekend for a quickie with my boys that’s long overdue and that’s a residual SMV multiplier and some broad or other good news coming at you if she’s doing your Spotify or something to me feels similar. On the other, see the above quote. I was so dead.

There's a reason why I've been able to keep these beautiful ass women in my life for as long as I have. I think i'll be alright.

A lot of you guys really don't ujnderstand the difference between 6-7s (what you're probaly used to) and the 8-10s im used to.. The more beautiful the women, the more clever/less needy/desperate they are. This post was just to show you all how a 9 handles her insecurities vs an average hoe.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Theres a huge difference between a committed marriage, and a NSA relationship breh.



There's a reason why I've been able to keep these beautiful ass women in my life for as long as I have. I think i'll be alright.

A lot of you guys really don't ujnderstand the difference between 6-7s (what you're probaly used to) and the 8-10s im used to.. The more beautiful the women, the more clever/less needy/desperate they are. This post was just to show you all how a 9 handles her insecurities vs an average hoe.

I just realized that this entire post is BS…you have no other plates following you on IG? Right.